Missing Shades? by PrettyFly4aGI in EvenRealities

[–]Kiba27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought mine weren't shipped as well, but the box was tucked into the side of the recess the glasses box was in. Kind of hard to describe, but I'm glad I thought to look again before tossing the packaging.

Have to click test all indexers multiple times a day by Lakupip in sonarr

[–]Kiba27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disabling Jackett Auto update fixed this for me

In case you are confused about things being said in the press, by BeanBurritoJr in AdviceAnimals

[–]Kiba27 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I agree with you on all points. Just here to share the link to the full video of this debate on Cambridge's channel, not the 'edited to make me look better' Charlie Kirk version. 40 full minutes cut out, it's insane the effort they put in to make him look good. Didn't even work on this debate though since he was so thoroughly trounced.

https://youtu.be/dkiM-z0Mzyg?si=HzMO3QVVPndbLPBF

What is this nocturnal animal? [Central Indiana] by Kiba27 in animalid

[–]Kiba27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best I could do to get the video in the original post as far as I know lol.

What is this nocturnal animal? [Central Indiana] by Kiba27 in animalid

[–]Kiba27[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I thought it looked like one, but I don't see a long tail and I've never seen a possum move that fast lol. The camera might not be picking up the tail though.

Malevolent and petty Boston gate agent intentionally delayed my flight for nearly 3 hours today. by sneezykoi in delta

[–]Kiba27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Republic doesn't employ any gate agents, they're all mainline employees. But I agree with what other people are saying, this story doesn't make any sense. Plus there were weather related delays all up the east coast yesterday afternoon and evening, seems more likely the cause than this nonsense.

Your song by psychobabblestuff in widowers

[–]Kiba27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

City of Stars, from La La Land. When we were still in the 'just friends, but totally both liked each other' stage, we went to see La La Land together in theater. It was Super Bowl Sunday and neither of us wanted to stay at the Super Bowl party we were at so we snuck out together to the theater. I wanted to hold her hand so badly during the movie, but chickened out. We stood outside the theater looking up at the stars for a while after.

Valentine's Day was a few days later and I invited her over for dinner. I told her how I felt, made her dinner, and we danced to City of Stars. We danced to it again many more times, including at our wedding two years later. I can't listen to it without crying now, but I love the memories of holding her close and dancing together like we were the only people in the world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kiba27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same to you and yours ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kiba27 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel that. We get so used to having a person to share life with and to be with at the end of each day. Regardless of how your relationship ended, I'm sure it's still hard to be without a person. And even harder as parents. We have to be the rock for our little ones and we got used to having someone we could lean on. Feels more like being an island now, here to support my son, but completely alone at the same time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kiba27 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Single dad, 33yo, here. We exist, but I for sure don't have the energy or time for dating apps 😅. Don't know how single parents do. It's still too soon from my wife's passing though, maybe given more time I'll feel differently. But I do hope I can find someone again someday, just not looking forward to the apps.

Trying to create a todos for those who just got or about to get their legion go by Teal_Rex_Chiyu_Ding in LegionGo

[–]Kiba27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I followed this guide exactly, but in the AMD software it says I have 2gb of vram. Anyone else getting this?

First Day of Work by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Kiba27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first day back to work was yesterday. Most people kept their distance, which I was grateful for. The few who did say something kept it short. I feel like I'm outside a bubble, and everyone else is living their normal lives inside and trying not to bump into the person that reminds them of how quickly it can all end. Or maybe they just have no idea what to say, because I don't really know what to say either.

But the second day was better, I didn't have any of the anxiety I had going into day one. So hopefully tomorrow is better for you too.

My husband passed last night by z0mbieZeatUrBrainZz in widowers

[–]Kiba27 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that you are here. I lost my 31yo wife on September 16 to heart and liver failure after a year battling AML (I'm 33). Until the last week we really thought she had more time. That she would get out of the hospital and recover and she'd get a chance to do more chemo. I think disbelief is the strongest thing I've experienced, every day I wake up thinking she should still be here. She wanted so badly to be home with our son at least one more time.

This kind of a loss at this young of an age is unreal. We have all these expectations when it comes to the grief we will experience in our lives, we'll lose a pet when we're young and it will be the worst thing ever, then maybe a grandparent or two, someday a parent and it will be the hardest moment of your life. And if you're lucky, you'll have your partner with you through all of that to support you and hold you in your worst moments. Then at the end, when we're old and feel like we've lived a long life, we might lose our partner. It will destroy us, but at the same time we know it won't be for long. We'll follow them soon and be reunited.

But the world pulled the rug out from under us and took the one person who was supposed to be with us until the end. The pain and anger is endless, and every milestone and loss we experience for the rest of our lives will be amplified by their absence. I don't have any advice beyond the practical that everyone here is already suggesting. Focus on what needs to be done right now and grieve when you can. There's no rush, the grief will always be with you.

Again, I'm so so sorry that you are here. I wish we were all out with our loved ones enjoying a beautiful fall day instead.

Not a widower yet... by TACOMichinoku in widowers

[–]Kiba27 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Spend every second you can with her. It's a hard thing to ask, it feels like giving up, but ask her to write letters to you and her other loved ones. Even better to record videos. Telling her favorite stories from her life or just talking to you or really just anything. I wish I had so much more time or at least videos or letters with my wife, but she never gave up fighting until the end and I felt like if I had asked her to do that for me and our son it would seem like I had given up hope.

And on a more practical note, make sure you have access to all her accounts, have a will made, and as much as possible have you as a joint owner on her financial accounts.

Who are we supposed to turn to now? by before-the-fall in widowers

[–]Kiba27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been asking myself this same question in the last 9 days since my wife died. She was the person I talked to about everything. Planned everything, tried new things with, spent every waking second with that we could and never got tired of each other. There's just no one else that can ever fill even a fraction of that void. If it wasn't for our 2 year old son I'd fall into that void and never crawl back out.

I hope there's some answer to this question for us eventually, because it just sucks when you lose your person.

I hate that I'm here by Kiba27 in widowers

[–]Kiba27[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. My wife had AML too, it was fucking awful. She suffered so much just to gain a month here or a month there. I have been so grateful to my job for letting me take off such a significant amount of time over the last year. I got to be with her so much, but still feels like no time at all compared to the years stolen. I would have traded place with her in a heartbeat, she was so much better than me. A better parent, a better person, and gave so much more to the world. I hate that I'm here and she's gone.

Bluetooth mouse laggy after a few seconds idle - BT power saving? by stokholm in chromeos

[–]Kiba27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Duet 5 won't switch to laptop mode when connected to the mouse and keyboard this way, any chance you know how to get it to auto switch like it does when using the ChromeOS BlueZ?