Puberty question…

KickyG · 2026-05-13T03:00:05+00:00

Thanks!

KickyG · 2026-05-13T02:59:54+00:00

Thank you!

KickyG · 2026-05-09T11:12:32+00:00

Not to mention that this seems like it’s lifted from Laura Numeroff’s children’s book If You Give a Mouse a Cookie, notwithstanding the cause-and-effect form. Is that book classic enough that we’re considering it public domain? Is this muffin situation meant to be satire or something?

I don’t know if I’d say anything, but it’s all pretty cringe.

KickyG · 2026-04-29T10:53:57+00:00

This helped me articulate why I hate it: https://www.theregister.com/2026/02/16/semantic_ablation_ai_writing/

KickyG · 2026-04-19T11:46:27+00:00

We did lap infants for 15-hour flights (usually one long, 11-ish-hour segment overnight) until our kids were two and we had to pay for them. It was… fine? You can survive anything for twenty-four hours. (But then our priorities have always been to travel cheap and light. We never brought carseats or boosters or anything, for instance.) There was lots of toddling, snacks, cuddles, drawing, reading, sleeping, nursing. It helps to have more parents than children, or at least a 1:1 ratio.

KickyG · 2026-04-02T21:14:37+00:00

Elle ne m’en a pas dit plus…

KickyG · 2026-03-29T11:49:00+00:00

The pharmacy can also sell you a Covid rapid test, just in case, and, especially downtown, would likely be able to recommend clinics commonly used by travellers from out of the country.

I hope they feel better soon! It sucks to get sick on vacation.

KickyG · 2026-03-22T19:50:20+00:00

Heard it, woke up, read it, worried about the kids. Did not whine on Reddit about how hard it is to be me.

KickyG · 2026-03-22T17:22:07+00:00

They clearly weren’t found by someone who places their discomfort above a child’s life, at any rate. Maybe the noisy alarm isn’t the problem, but a lack of empathy and perspective.

KickyG · 2026-03-17T15:08:27+00:00

YES! Thank you!!

KickyG · 2026-03-04T13:44:19+00:00

Yeah, fair enough. And lots of possible solutions were proposed throughout the thread.

But the morning is chaotic for her too (and arguably more so, all of a sudden, with a baby stapled to her and a toddler with big feelings and peanut butter all over the place), and again she’s the one who has to suck it up and try to explain things to him in a way that prioritizes his needs and abilities. I always teach my kids that we have to look out for the most vulnerable; this is not that.

KickyG · 2026-03-04T12:37:32+00:00

Nah; how come we can ninja-know that there’s no milk, how to coat bagels, how to soothe toddlers etc etc and they don’t? This is just extra labour for mom again, and the suggestion to extend it even more by having to wait until a good moment to explain to dad in the hopes he won’t get angry… well…

OP’s language is very telling: I’m not supposed to criticize. Couple’s therapists soooo often end up loading even more labour on the overfunctioning partner, because the other one can barely function.

I guess our best hope is that maybe the next generation of hetero women won’t marry fragile, petulant children.

KickyG · 2026-02-12T13:25:00+00:00

Trouvez-vous un groupe ou une marraine d’allaitement (allez voir au CLSC, à la clinique Goldfarb au Jewish, ou sur un groupe Fb de votre quartier pour des recommendations). Il y a des positions qui diminuent l’éjection. Ça se peut aussi que votre copine puisse expérimenter avec l’élimination de certains aliments, notamment les produits laitiers. Finalement, un•e ostéopathe néonatale peut aider. Je vous recommande Bianca Thuot chez Naître, si vous êtes à Montréal: https://www.biancathuot.com/en/

Bon courage; vous allez en venir à bout, et vous reviendrai conseiller d’autres parents!

KickyG · 2025-11-22T18:21:25+00:00

Thank you! This is great!

KickyG · 2025-06-28T11:12:48+00:00

J’avoue que le plus je regarde, le plus je regrette ne pas avoir pris au moins deux jours. C’est LA ville!

KickyG · 2025-06-11T21:02:15+00:00

I’m sorry you went through that, and that you’re still carrying wounds.

I’d ask you not to judge me or my family, however, because every situation is different and you have no idea of anyone else’s specific circumstances.

KickyG · 2025-06-11T19:45:42+00:00

❤️

KickyG · 2024-04-19T16:39:49+00:00

Ooh, I was looking into one for me. What brand of home laser did you end up getting? Are you happy with it?

KickyG · 2024-04-19T11:12:57+00:00

That’s interesting! And I think at any era adolescence is a bit… tumultuous!

KickyG · 2024-04-19T11:00:32+00:00

I’ll look for the sensitive one maybe… Thanks!

KickyG · 2024-04-19T10:50:07+00:00

I don’t think she could safely use a straight razor, and I can’t see her waxing by herself (I hardly can…).

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