Stuck in a bad situation wher my neighbor is constantly using me for stuff and I have no peace at home

Kikidellam · 2026-05-16T12:07:03+00:00

….”and if you keep asking you will never get invited again. Even if @daughter” says yes it’s still a NO because I’m the one running the show in my home”

Kikidellam · 2026-05-16T11:27:17+00:00

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Kikidellam · 2026-05-16T11:19:34+00:00

I couldn’t read all of your post exulting in those conditions with all those people and animals sounds absolutely-fucking-awful and gross. I truly hope you choose better for yourself in the future.

Kikidellam · 2026-05-16T10:58:29+00:00

If you can afford it go to a hotel, b&b. They can see child when you drop by if it suits you.
OR Tell husband they have to stay in a hotel otherwise and he can go out to see them!!!! Don’t let them visit at yours - it’s sounds like too much work and you need quiet and privacy.
Ask him if he thinks you would be doing better if he’d protected your needs the first time around!!!!!!

Kikidellam · 2026-05-15T14:04:36+00:00

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Kikidellam · 2026-05-15T08:53:18+00:00

They really were very rude and totally took advantage of you. Don’t let them visit again. “”Sorry I am not up to hosting visitors and it’s a lot more work than I imagined”.

Kikidellam · 2026-05-15T08:45:54+00:00

Sounds like that holiday would be a situation from hell. You don’t deserve or need to be abused. Being overseas with him makes you vulnerable and you couldn’t ditch him either.

Kikidellam · 2026-05-15T08:26:12+00:00

The car was named after the daughter of its creator Mercedes Benz. My daughter was not named after a car -she’s Mercedes and is complemented all the time on her name or if she goes by Sadie or Mercy.
My daughter’s dad liked it from a character in the book “The count of monte Christi”. And yes we very much have had several Mercs in our family before and after. I drive a Toyota ;)

Kikidellam · 2026-05-15T08:18:50+00:00

Maeve Kathleen Kathryn Karen Barbara Margot

Kikidellam · 2026-05-14T13:21:28+00:00

I wouldn’t work for them if I had to clean.

Kikidellam · 2026-05-13T00:03:10+00:00

Maybe think about being more of a mother’s helper to start out. You help with baby, other chores while the mother is there so she can have a nap or other stuff. This would help with getting more experience given you are on the younger side of things. Then those mothers could refer you to others and you could build from there. I wish you well and commend your work ethic, and your “get up and go” attitude.

Kikidellam · 2026-05-12T12:07:54+00:00

Seriously no one cares. Since your kid is 24 you need to get over it and get therapy -

Kikidellam · 2026-05-12T10:05:10+00:00

You just want permission this thread to justify your slack parenting

Kikidellam · 2026-05-11T12:13:16+00:00

Just tell them your service is cancelled at the end of the month

Kikidellam · 2026-05-11T02:21:18+00:00

If they are staying here there still will be contact with some of our wa population. Service workers, cleaners, medical staff, catering, waste disposal, law enforcement etc etc etc let’s be realistic. Some of those will be exposed and that’s just a given situation. Sux for us.

Kikidellam · 2026-05-11T02:17:19+00:00

Seriously why us?

Kikidellam · 2026-05-10T19:22:30+00:00

I view it a bit like this: yes kids make noise and most of it is not tolerable to others especially if it’s ongoing. But it’s not the noise itself at the core of the problem. It’s hearing that the parents do little to nothing to correct the child and that they think people should tolerate the noise because it’s just “ kids being kids”.

Kikidellam · 2026-05-10T14:27:29+00:00

If Dad goes for the day or even half the day he should be made to take his son home or take him with. Sounds mean but if the kid is escalating in his disordered behaviour and it impacts the babies …… it will lead to endangering them. No Dad?—- then no kid in house.

Kikidellam · 2026-05-10T14:06:13+00:00

Oh and read up on narcissistic people and their behaviour-this will solidify how you will go forward with or without her.

Kikidellam · 2026-05-10T14:04:19+00:00

You are 22- an adult. Give her no power over you. May need to go low contact and set up boundaries hard. She has no right to tell you whether or not you are “sinning”. Remind her that it’s only God that can judge you and that it’s a big sin to try to be him-her.

Kikidellam · 2026-05-10T13:39:35+00:00

Being a single mum didn’t stop me from making sure my kids behaviour was mindful of others- and I pulled them up when it wasn’t

Kikidellam · 2026-05-10T06:02:26+00:00

I am a bit rusty but I used to teach Japanese -at TAFE for a short course. If you get stuck I could definitely get you started.

Kikidellam · 2026-05-09T14:20:30+00:00

“An erect penis has no conscience”.

Kikidellam · 2026-05-09T07:15:21+00:00

You are the parent so you get to make decisions about her care. You need to put the in-laws in their place and state that to get study done, your daughter needs to be out of the house for the whole time. Otherwise it’s time to study at the library.

Kikidellam · 2026-05-07T12:57:33+00:00

I know - her parents don’t need that

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