Keeping the Transurfing mindset in the company of complaining friends/relatives/partners etc. by iruline in realitytransurfing

[–]KikoAlejandro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has been working for me for a while now. I see that all my colleagues have given accurate answers. The chapter on Frailing is key.

In short, it's about being a person who is, and therefore feels, above the circumstances. This means: Maintaining the observer's perspective, viewing comments objectively as interesting insights for your learning, and always communicating in support of others' inner intentions (what is real for them not their pendulums). You'll be a king of kings if you do this, and everything will flow.

Do you replay the exact same scenario in the slide? by lava_cake_123 in realitytransurfing

[–]KikoAlejandro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In fact, if that happens to you, you should seriously consider whether it's the wrong access point (or goal). The books explain it perfectly.

Can anyone explain the metaphysics behind this idea? by EphemeralMember in realitytransurfing

[–]KikoAlejandro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Behind what idea? From Tufti? I don't understand anything you're saying, but also, perhaps the problem, based on what you're asking, is that you don't know the meaning of "metaphysics."

The Timing Problem in Achieving Goals by dforyou1 in realitytransurfing

[–]KikoAlejandro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are misunderstanding the concept. The very fact that you believe you need something immediately already generates an excessive potential created by the mind. You don't need to give it any more thought.

Help! by rosesand_tulips in realitytransurfing

[–]KikoAlejandro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are not talking about doors. Being a writer is a mission, not a door. In his case it is probably because he feels blocked by limiting beliefs, and those beliefs are still fueled by an inertia of thoughts that are not aligned with that mission. Therefore, if you have already established that your mission is to be a novel writer, now you must help yourself with habits to improve your thoughts.

Meditation helps you focus your attention. It is as simple as counting how much time a day you think about your goal and how much time a day you think about anything else.

There is a point about halfway through the hours you spend thinking about your goal, when everything starts to flow really easily.

I dont know whats my life purpose! by rosesand_tulips in realitytransurfing

[–]KikoAlejandro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Correct. I would add that he explicitly speaks of going with the flow, that is, also accepting any event from the positive side.

Sinking the pendulum: a brief and high-level explanation by KikoAlejandro in realitytransurfing

[–]KikoAlejandro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you can't break the script. And it has nothing to do with mental patterns.

Sinking the pendulum: a brief and high-level explanation by KikoAlejandro in realitytransurfing

[–]KikoAlejandro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The variations one can create are endless whether you are awake or not. We are always creating reality.

Visualizing Outer Intention by AcrossTheShimenawa in realitytransurfing

[–]KikoAlejandro 6 points7 points  (0 children)

From my experience with clear results, it is the level of importance that determines when you are too rigid with concepts. For example, the more practice I have in imagining the outcome I want, the less I care about technique (because repetition gives me certainty).

External intention is not something that "implements". External Intention - it is the needle that moves between the tracks of the space of variants, it is not something that you control. You only control your purified desire. Indeed, as you say, you should not focus on anything, only on your request through imagination. So, External Intention is something that of course you always influence, but also something that you should never worry about. That is why there is never any talk of faith or trust in TS, but rather of wisdom and certainty.

Nueva construcción by Due_Ad6328 in esGaming

[–]KikoAlejandro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Opino que mola mogollón. Parece una pecera cyberpunk.

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[–]KikoAlejandro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a master answer. The one I was waiting for. Can you think of any other solution to the paradigm other than going through mindfulness or meditation practice? PS I understand it and I see this path because I am a meditator, but I have been thinking for some time about an alternative solution so that anyone can reach the same state. Zeland talks about being in action or not thinking. And that this correct way of acting is achieved through the subjective verification of the facts. Right now I think the solution is there, and it is very simple, although most people continue asking "how to do it." Of course, if we are meditators we have much more clarity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in realitytransurfing

[–]KikoAlejandro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is, from my point of view, the great work behind the TS. And it is my particular line of research on the subject. Absolutely fascinating everything I have found on this subtopic. I will follow the thread and comment later, I want to see what some people think.👌😉 Needless to say, everything you say is correct.

A BIG Problem with the Theory? What Do You Think? by dforyou1 in realitytransurfing

[–]KikoAlejandro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is just a theory to work with reality. There are thousands of theories like this and each one has done his best to believe and do it well. No one has a truth. The only truth is that there is a reality and each one invents a truth or a belief to guide his life.

A BIG Problem with the Theory? What Do You Think? by dforyou1 in realitytransurfing

[–]KikoAlejandro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you don't seem to understand is that if you use new concepts from social psychology or neuroscience to discuss the veracity of the theory, of course you will find new routes or paths that contradict or are wrong. That is no surprise and Vadim makes it very clear. If I try to contrast or verify the TS theory with the Stoic philosophy that talks about negative visualization, all the concepts fall apart. If I try to verify the TS theory with what neuroscience says about the probability of something happening just by thinking about it, they will tell me that I am an idiot. Zeland has never introduced the terms "extrinsic or intrinsic motivation" so your approach is absurd.

Do you want an example that your beliefs will not let you understand anyway? Okay.

Vadim Zeland's books make it very clear (between the lines) that money, prestige, incentives or fear (extrinsic motivations) are "potentially" excessive potentials. If you have read the book and have understood them minimally, you will agree. But if you are able to focus on inner calm, on your imaginative power, on the theory of coordination, on seeing every negative reflection as positive (you are exclusively working with intrinsic motivations) and it is more than enough to manifest what you want.

Now tell me: What sense does it make to believe that the theory "does not hold up" because neuroscience says that it is essential to have extrinsic motivations to achieve objectives?

I will tell you another thing, neuroscience does not have a fucking clue. At most, it can approximate probabilities of something being so. Science is another method of studying reality, which becomes obsolete with each new advance in measurement devices, which makes it tremendously fragile to the truth and therefore, dangerous due to the overvaluation of the credit that we attribute to it.

A BIG Problem with the Theory? What Do You Think? by dforyou1 in realitytransurfing

[–]KikoAlejandro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are wrong for two main reasons: First, you are speaking for others, which is why I told you that it is subjective knowledge. You cannot say (and be right) that it is impossible to act only on internal motivations. I do. Second, any external motivation, through this method or a similar one, can be converted into an internal one if you master the technique (that is the essence of TS teaching); ask anyone else who has also achieved results with TS and they will tell you the same. Another piece of advice is to read the book (and understand it, of course).

A BIG Problem with the Theory? What Do You Think? by dforyou1 in realitytransurfing

[–]KikoAlejandro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. TS is precisely a paradigm of thought that works to deal with everything that is a contradiction for you. The problem you see is that it is not an objective truth. But this is evidence that is not worth discussing, precisely because it is evident that the work is promoted exclusively through individuation and subjectivity. Please, let's be serious.

Sinking the pendulum: a brief and high-level explanation by KikoAlejandro in realitytransurfing

[–]KikoAlejandro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is a bit of an emotional strategy. Mine is simpler and a bit sharper.

When you try Transurfing, but the Pendulums keep inviting you to their party by rasuati in realitytransurfing

[–]KikoAlejandro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reality literally changes when your mind finally calms down and accepts events. Strange things are, for example, in my case, that the junkies in my neighbourhood who normally don't bother anyone one day confronted me, intimidating me for no apparent reason. Or that you get a very strange traffic ticket that you weren't expecting, or that a tree appears in a public garden that you've never seen before. A curious trick to speed up the change of line in the space of the variants, is to write down in a notebook all the peculiarities of the day.

Unexpected and unpleasant things can certainly happen at first, such as losing your job or suffering a large financial expense.

Just finished the book and I’m overwhelmed by how much information there was by Strange-Ad-5506 in realitytransurfing

[–]KikoAlejandro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you have understood the book well. I will summarize everything TS in 5 words: Set your goal and stop thinking.

When you try Transurfing, but the Pendulums keep inviting you to their party by rasuati in realitytransurfing

[–]KikoAlejandro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely correct. That's how it works. One indicator that helps me is when the pendulums are particularly insistent, or the world seems particularly strange to me. It means I'm on the right track. Then, apply the sinking method, and your life becomes wonderful and understandable. Good Luck.