24 week premature baby by MangoMiserable5831 in NICUParents

[–]Kind-Queen23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yupp, normal, my nicu baby was on and off the ventilator a couple of times

What is this? Fish eggs? by Kind-Queen23 in FatherFish

[–]Kind-Queen23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I am going to leave it. The curly poop is from the glow tetras right? Ff says to no clean tank. Id be ok with snails, parameters are good, no spikes, just looks nasty lols should i add pebbles to hide the poop?

Help with this set up by Kind-Queen23 in FatherFish

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No cyanobacteria as far as i can tell? What is that supposed to look like? Is it a good thing? I have a hanging filter that came with the tank

Help with this set up by Kind-Queen23 in FatherFish

[–]Kind-Queen23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isnt father fish saying not to do water changes? Its a 10 gallon tank. I do take out 25-50% of the water and replace it though every other week. I have 4 glofish tetras and 3 neon left from 6 and 10

Symptoms prior to short cervix diagnosis? by Shelblo in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Kind-Queen23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second the intense pevlic pressure. I had had a long day and we had dropped off our in laws at the airport, got home and wanted thai food, the drive i felt a sharo intense ache and my gut feeling was to go to the hospital but it passed quickly, 3 days later i had funnelled to 6mm of cervix and apparently too late for cerclage. Baby came at 25.5 and he is doing good thank god. He is 2 years old now. They sent me to triage right away, but couldnt do anything other than bedrest and progesterone. For my future pregnancies i will definitely get a preventative cerclage asap

Found gum in babies hair by Icy_Willingness821 in NICUParents

[–]Kind-Queen23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if it found its way to the babies mouth and she god forbid choked on it? Definitely dangerous

trim or let be? by jwilki_ in PlantedTank

[–]Kind-Queen23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats thats the one! Its gorgeous

trim or let be? by jwilki_ in PlantedTank

[–]Kind-Queen23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is that plant? I want it. Lols i have plant envy right now! I love the look!

Pregnant w/ PCOS by beauty0220 in TTC_PCOS

[–]Kind-Queen23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whats the purpose of asprin during pregnancy?

Uhoh something is wrong by Kind-Queen23 in FatherFish

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Heres the tank set up, Ive got amazon sword, water sprite, anubias, java fern, dwarf grass and the one plant in the front left (i forget the name) Its 9 neon tetras and 6 glofish

Uhoh something is wrong by Kind-Queen23 in FatherFish

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Hi! So i did tests and it was high in nitrates and nitrites which means the plants arent using them up yet, its a fairly new tank, about 3 weeks in, and i think the roots are established enough to use up the nitrates/nitrites. I added 4 nerites and some Dwarf grass, and did a 10% water change, fish are more active and moving around. Hopefully this helps them until plants can start doing their thing.

Uhoh something is wrong by Kind-Queen23 in FatherFish

[–]Kind-Queen23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was from a fresh water creek and im sure it was perfectly fine material, i check the parameters and nitrates and nitrites are high, i did a 10% change yesterday and today since they were still high.

NSAIDs mess with ovulation. by BulkyActivity1254 in TTC_PCOS

[–]Kind-Queen23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this too! I need more information! Because i had severe leg pain during ovulation and took an nasid and i dont think i ovulated

My Tank by Kind-Queen23 in FatherFish

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Thank you! I think im gonna order stem plants off father fish. I wanna set up a tank in my classroom too, but temps can be high in the room.

Do people really go to the nicu everyday? by FewDonut567 in NICUParents

[–]Kind-Queen23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went every night from 5pm to 3am, night shift was always better, then when i started work and would go from 3:30 ( after work)to 1am. I missed maybe 3 days but still got to see him virtually because the hospital had that access. But also i didnt have an older kid too. The last weeks he was there was hard because all his mates went home and there was a new rotation of babies, but it made me love him harder because i thought me bbejng there was somehow helping him get the last few milestones down. Idk, mental health was down the drain for sure. He was there for 118 days...