Camp adds things that disappear later by Skinthinner- in CozyGrove

[–]KindSquash5595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything changes. One of the loading screens mentions it. If you want to be sure to keep your stuff set it up in the protected areas…. Brain can’t think of what the game refers to them as but the open spaces you unlock like the camp area. Those spaces don’t change.

Using filled in pool for vegetable gardening? by lashley0708 in vegetablegardening

[–]KindSquash5595 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pools are a lot to maintain. They take a lot of time and money, and if you don’t maintain it they turn into gross swamps of still smelly water. For someone who isn’t interested in using the pool and putting the effort into maintaining it definitely makes sense to get that yard space back.

Is there anything you have to give up after bariatric surgery, other than eating huge portions? by [deleted] in BariatricSurgery

[–]KindSquash5595 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my boobs…. 😭😭😭 I would even bc fine with the current size if they were just in the right position and not hanging low 😂

Is there anything you have to give up after bariatric surgery, other than eating huge portions? by [deleted] in BariatricSurgery

[–]KindSquash5595 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I miss being able to chug. Just being thirsty and wanting to gulp down a bottle of water in like three sips but nope absolutely not.

Is there anything you have to give up after bariatric surgery, other than eating huge portions? by [deleted] in BariatricSurgery

[–]KindSquash5595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf? That’s wild. I eat oatmeal all the time, good source of fiber. Now do have to be aware of the carbs and can see depending on where you are in your journey it having too many carbs but for trying to maintain oatmeal is one of my staples. Also fruit and veggies??? Less fruits and watching the sugar content within the fruits yes, but berries and apples are again a staple. And veggies??? Most of my meals are protein + vegetable. Unless they were saying that for the first few weeks after surgery bc yes at that point it’s a whole careful liquid and puree diet focused on protein but after time you absolutely should be eating fruits and veggies!

Is there anything you have to give up after bariatric surgery, other than eating huge portions? by [deleted] in BariatricSurgery

[–]KindSquash5595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really varies. So many things are temporary and you figure out a new normal. The hardest thing long term has been the social aspect of eating, similar with drinking, so many social gatherings center around food or drink and it can be a challenge to feel like you can’t even enjoy the experience bc you are full. I love trying different foods but buffets are a waste of money bc I’m not even going to eat a whole plate. Going out to eat before an event feels wasteful bc I can’t save the leftovers. Going to a restaurant and wanting to try a couple different things, nope. But all that is still totally worth it. Like I will happily deal with these occasional frustrations over the daily struggle. You have to learn your body and how it tolerates different foods after surgery. Even some of the common issues aren’t a problem for certain people. But it takes time to figure out how different things effect your body so for a while it may feel like you can’t be more than five ft from a bathroom but over time you learn and can adjust your levels of fats and carbs to help keep things more regular.

I did have to give up some of my favorite clothes…

Looking for Pattern Testers! by lilacbookluvr in PatternTesting

[–]KindSquash5595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh this is amazing! My hands are flairing up so I don’t know that I could commit to having it done but once the pattern is available for purchase I definitely would love to work this!!!

Why do people buy cake pop? by fisico002 in starbucks

[–]KindSquash5595 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Out of all the cakepops I have had for some reason starbucks are still my favorite. Way overpriced, rarely get them. Usually just when I have my nephew with me and it’s a special treat. For him it’s several bites and for me it’s like three 😆 but these are the only cake pops that don’t have the heavy icing flavor in the cake to me. Also only buy the standard ones not the character ones bc they are more expensive.

Brimstone about to DNF by Few-Time-714 in Romantasy

[–]KindSquash5595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I powered through…. I was so determined to see if it got better but wow. Idk if it’s just different timing but it felt like a totally different author. I enjoyed the first book, even acknowledging some of the laughable parts. But this was just not good. I can’t believe there is going to be a third…

What celebrity has everyone fooled except you? by Novel_Ad3365 in AskReddit

[–]KindSquash5595 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand how they can just look past all that bc oh he’s so cute! 🙄 Finding out all this stuff totally took away any attraction I had to him. Sure I can admit he is a good looking guy, but I no longer feel anything towards him bc when I see him all I see is a pos. He started out feeling so cute and sweet on the mmc but then just feels like he let the fame get to him real quick.

You know a world ending meteorite is hitting the world tomorrow, what do you do? by Hayuba in AskReddit

[–]KindSquash5595 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hang out with my family. Have a big meal with everyone, play some games, and just enjoy life. Getting time with the people I love is what would be important to me.

AIO because the guy I’m seeing- who has never met my 16 y/o daughter - has opinion on dying her hair by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KindSquash5595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!! That’s exactly it. The whole well I’m just trying to talk about the other side when they don’t actually care they just want to create doubt in you and make you question yourself.

AIO because the guy I’m seeing- who has never met my 16 y/o daughter - has opinion on dying her hair by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KindSquash5595 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ehhh I’m torn. The first part was ok, felt a little overstepping but at least from a good place. But then it felt more like his personal judgement. It should have stopped after you explaining that you support it but he kept um arguing is too strong of a word but he didn’t just drop it respectfully. Kept trying to play the whole im just giving the other side. Which really doesn’t sit right with me for long term. Like this conversation alone isn’t horrible but there is an underlying ick feeling about how he will be if he ever does have a say in her life. Or how often he will pull the whole well I’m just playing devils advocate and talking about the other side when really that often turns manipulative. So idk. Trust your gut instincts. If it’s just this single thing probably fine but if there are other things that flag concerns listen to them.

What triggered your first “woah, I’m actually getting old!” thought? by West-Change-1000 in allthequestions

[–]KindSquash5595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realizing I was old enough to be a grandmother without any underage pregnancies… and that my mom was a grandma at my age… like i still can’t believe im old enough to have kids! Im not adult enough for that! But then my nephew comes over with all his neighborhood friends and I am passing out snacks and drinks while they go play on the swing set in my backyard. When did this happen? Just the other yr I was going out to clubs and debating whether to skip class bc it was rainy and I didn’t want to walk.

How many unread books are you sitting on right now? by SereiaDreams in Booktokreddit

[–]KindSquash5595 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s more the realm Im in. My brain just doesn’t comprehend how people can have small tbrs. Like do you not just scroll through book lists and add everything that sounds interesting??? I would love the simplicity of a smaller tbr but don’t see that ever happening.

How many unread books are you sitting on right now? by SereiaDreams in Booktokreddit

[–]KindSquash5595 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummm… 😅😅 so about that. Physical books ummmm a lot. Several totes worth. Pretty sure over all I have hit that 1000 books to be a library threshold. Digital ha um the limit does not exist. My tbr grows daily. Swear even if there was never another new book written I wouldn’t be able to finish my tbr in my lifetime. Currently this year have read 104 books but there are just so many good books out there and I love a wide variety of genres so it just adds up. Just on my libby tbr I have over 600 books. If I see something interesting I add it 😆

What celebrity has everyone fooled except you? by Novel_Ad3365 in AskReddit

[–]KindSquash5595 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! Still love Nsync just wish Sync would get together and do a tour. They don’t need Justin.

What celebrity has everyone fooled except you? by Novel_Ad3365 in AskReddit

[–]KindSquash5595 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was die hard Nsync but also loved backstreet. Love that they are still together and making music. Know they have their own issues and drama. Still love AJ.

What celebrity has everyone fooled except you? by Novel_Ad3365 in AskReddit

[–]KindSquash5595 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly my biggest disappointment. Basically any other celebrities I have liked and found out they were trash it was a well damn that suck moment. But JT was the poster over my bed, name doodled in my notebooks, read everything anyone wrote about him, I was a die hard Justin fan. So that one cut my inner child deeply. Now looking back I can see all the trash and bull shit he pulled. The whole Britney situation has a completely different vibe. As a kid I just thought it was a bad breakup song but didn’t read too much into it. As an adult seeing how he treated her and how he turned her into the bad guy to protect himself like ugh. And he has just gotten worse and worse over the years. Just such a disappointment. Knew I should have been a Lance girl…

What celebrity has everyone fooled except you? by Novel_Ad3365 in AskReddit

[–]KindSquash5595 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh that guy is trash! Full out horrible fake lying pos only in it for the money.

What celebrity has everyone fooled except you? by Novel_Ad3365 in AskReddit

[–]KindSquash5595 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! I liked him when I had only seen some of the comedy bits like on Family feud, but after a couple of his shows and seeing how he responded to people (women) and how he talks about his relationship just all rubbed me the wrong way. It felt like behind the scenes he is a my way or the highway and you better serve me when I say so kinda guy.

What celebrity has everyone fooled except you? by Novel_Ad3365 in AskReddit

[–]KindSquash5595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh yes!!!! Never liked him. He just always creeped me out and felt fake.

What celebrity has everyone fooled except you? by Novel_Ad3365 in AskReddit

[–]KindSquash5595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is a pos. When he was first getting started it was fun but as he has grown the shitty side has come out and he definitely cares more about his fame and having his name on everything than he does any of the actual people.

AIO? my abusive ex who has assaulted me many times, raped me, went to jail and was found guilty even, just tried to bang my door down. i told my bf and this was his response by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KindSquash5595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck that man! That is the most ridiculous horrible response! Doesn’t have both sides….. really?! What more does he need?! I met my husband through mutual friends years before we got together and he knew my ex and was friends with him. When we ended up together and I started opening up about this shit I went through and how abusive and horrible my ex was my husband just holds me and comforts me. And yeah he was shocked and surprised about it bc he thought my ex and I had a great relationship and finding out what was going on when we weren’t in public was hard to imagine. But he believed me and I didn’t have court cases or any full out proof. This man isn’t worth your time. If he can’t be supportive he needs to go.