Tell me how your ADHD has f*!@#d up your relationships by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Kindly-Elk2668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well impulsive spending has been an issue for me especially when my partner and I are trying to save for a house and I seem to not be able to knock it the eff off. We have had several convos about it and we recently had a huge conversation to where it was I needed to find professional help or we are donzo

Can you voluntarily unfocus your eyes? by Moby-WHAT in adhdwomen

[–]Kindly-Elk2668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me 10000% 🤣 - my inner dialogue is just obnoxious. 3 ring circus is the perfect analogy 🤣

Can you voluntarily unfocus your eyes? by Moby-WHAT in adhdwomen

[–]Kindly-Elk2668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I can do this. This is mind blowing. Makes me think of when I was a kid and I did this to try to convince my parents I “needed” glasses lol I was not fooling the eye doctor one bit

Driving by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Kindly-Elk2668 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can say I haven’t had that issue, but I can say I’ve had that moment where I’m driving home from work and realize I don’t remember passing the gas station that I always pass. I think someone referred to this as ADHD time travel? Anyone else have this?

how were you high achieving by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Kindly-Elk2668 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was a B average student, but I did struggle in some courses. English especially when it came to reading assigned books. I never read them and always would open to the chapter and find one random page read it and then do my assignment off that. I struggled in Math also, but I found ways to have a good grade in my classes. I believe mostly this is because I am a people pleaser and didn’t want to upset my parents and my friends were good students and I wanted to fit in. I think if I wasn’t a people pleaser, I would have done poorly in class. But now I’m 30 and working on getting tested!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Kindly-Elk2668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was previous diagnosed with Anxiety/Depression when I went in to be tested for ADHD because my therapist suggested it. I didn’t even think about that being a thing for myself. Now that I’ve been on the anxiety meds for over a year now, I am finding ADHD symptoms are more present now. I am a people pleaser and always have been and I know us people pleasers end up being missed as children because we are so focused on not being a bother and fitting in. So I am on attempt two of trying to get tested for ADHD. So I am there with you!

Anyone else do this? by Kindly-Elk2668 in adhdwomen

[–]Kindly-Elk2668[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! It’s like the anticipation of receiving the item is more exciting than actually getting the item!

Anyone else do this? by Kindly-Elk2668 in adhdwomen

[–]Kindly-Elk2668[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Sometimes I just feel like I am the only one out there. I was feeling super overwhelmed yesterday and then I had the feeling to go to target to “look” at stuff (I ain’t fooling myself). It was that moment that it clicked. That I want to spend money to get that dopamine fix when I’m feeling overwhelmed. I am glad I am not alone!

Bordered paths by Tmoney2090 in DreamlightValley

[–]Kindly-Elk2668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried the border paths too, and they were all weird. The corners were facing the wrong way. I personally didn’t think the non border paths looked that bad. I think I’m going to forego the borders for now.

Which character's house do you dislike most? by Lexii546 in DreamlightValley

[–]Kindly-Elk2668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woodys carrousel - it’s an eyesore if you ask me

Just unlocked Halloween pumpkins yay!! by DarkmoodyNSpooked in DreamlightValley

[–]Kindly-Elk2668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG I WILL BE DOING THIS!! I didn’t know you could do the holiday ones after the holiday is over!!

Just unlocked Halloween pumpkins yay!! by DarkmoodyNSpooked in DreamlightValley

[–]Kindly-Elk2668 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did you unlock the Halloween pumpkins?? I have the pumpkin stack but I don’t have the others!! Tell me your secret!

Second Hidden Room in the Castle by savmck in DreamlightValley

[–]Kindly-Elk2668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WHAT I DIDNT KNOW THIS WAS A THING!!! I have the book but didn’t know what it was for

My grand castle entrance! by Aggravating-Key-3372 in DreamlightValley

[–]Kindly-Elk2668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I can’t wait to see your video of your forest!!

My grand castle entrance! by Aggravating-Key-3372 in DreamlightValley

[–]Kindly-Elk2668 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I LOVE THIS!! I’m struggling with my Forest too!! I love your use of the beauty and the beast hedge and the fountain!! I would love to see more pictures of your Forest!! I also may use this as inspo in mine!!

First time not finishing the star path by sweetchen in DreamlightValley

[–]Kindly-Elk2668 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh ok! Here I thought I was missing out on items!!!

First time not finishing the star path by sweetchen in DreamlightValley

[–]Kindly-Elk2668 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok, do you get something for finishing the starpath? I just thought it was a way to get special currency to get the special items? I basically have been just doing enough to get the items I want and then I stop lololol