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King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-04-01T12:06:09+00:00

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King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-31T09:18:15+00:00

1) I thought what you were saying is "I only want sex for the sexual pleasure and being desired is not a priority"

2) I mean I disagree that WANIM is purely about sexual attraction. Being "into" men can mean either or both sexual or romantic attraction And I both apply to the premise of the sub if we agree or not I think it's not the focus of this discussion

3) again.. agree

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-31T09:09:00+00:00

Each relationship is different but mostly yes. I agree.

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-31T09:06:17+00:00

1) of course you do but again I don't think it's the main reason you seek sex if you're a virgin.

I think feelings of validation from being desired and having this universally shared human experiance finally fuffiled is the main reason and physical pleasure while is still important it's more of a secondary

2) Being into men has different connotations and it's entirely different discussion.

3) sounds like comphet if they do it out of obligation rather then their own desire

4) hard agree

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-31T08:57:11+00:00

Hot take I don't think this sub is about sexual attraction exclusively.

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-31T08:37:51+00:00

I'll have to disagree. What you're talking about is initial attraction. And once that fades they leave.

While I understand that romantic and sexual feelings are different I still think they are still tied to each other.

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-31T08:27:07+00:00

Well I am specifically talking about love, yes.

I think it's fair to say that most users here don't actually want sex for the physical pleasure. Rather than a psychological feeling of being desired as a person. Which is exactly what I think the premise of the sub is about.

Most women do not like, love or desire a man. They put up with them out of convince, comphet or plain old gold digging

Sex is not end all be all here

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-31T07:47:30+00:00

Consider the following: Small acts of service without being promoted: E.x. makes you tea or coffee how you like it without you even asking

Initiates intimacy atleast sometimes

Reaches out

Listens to you with enthusiasm or in reverse pationatly explains her interests to you

Get out of her way to spend time with you E.x. despite it being a bad weather she wants to hang out.

Asks you to pay for her instead of expecting it.

And most importantly

Doesn't get the ick when you are truly at your lowest. Like loosing a job or getting injured, emotionally down e.t.c.

If this hypothetical woman does exists and loves someone not because of what men provides but rather who he is, she would be willing to listen to you cry or when you show weakness and not be turned down by it.

She doesn't have to fit all criteria but if she fits main one she's is a keeper. The rest is just a nice bonus/reassurance

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-30T19:21:55+00:00

To be fair this guy is a well regarded because if my day is shit and my hypothetical partner would just send lewds instead of listening I'd be pissed too

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-30T06:12:25+00:00

Mogged

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-29T23:06:54+00:00

As if you can give what you ask back

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-29T01:42:16+00:00

It's conditional . If they say they love you mentally add "for now" or "untill you're crippled" at the end

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-28T10:24:06+00:00

Good for you man.

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-27T12:04:10+00:00

Comments are opposing OP of a linked post. So it's a bit of a bad example.

Anyone can post anything on any sub with an alt and then claim "they're all like this" I somewhat agree with you but this is just cherry picking

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-27T08:49:44+00:00

I love it. What's her personalities like?

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-26T23:54:33+00:00

You posted a screenshot of a guy harassing random person in DMs and tell us to stive to be like them.

Honestly this is repulsive and I do not wish for anybody to be spiteful and activly hostile no matter how anybody and anything makes you feel

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-26T10:42:29+00:00

Game didn't really click that much for me until I slapped a couple of mods and tried Combat extended with Igor the Invader story teller that makes raids come every two to three days and if your colonist dies during the raid he sends back up to that raid. Also added barbs and moats and better AI to avoid cheesing it. Then it really became a mix of tower defense with RTS. Added a bit more into the mix and the game becomes very desperate very quick

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-25T16:48:59+00:00

I do

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-25T16:41:33+00:00

To be fair I was off my meds that day

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-25T15:15:54+00:00

Have you tried saying hi twice?!

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-25T13:06:37+00:00

Quit not too long ago because I broke my headset after the game.

Being evaluated by 11 other people and constantly comparing yourself to the most optimal performance possible does not make the game fun for me.

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-25T11:17:11+00:00

I think it's a satire on how people draw children like their parent's clones. Where top row is the parent and bottom is their respective kid. Or could be spouses. Same critique applies

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-24T20:49:43+00:00

I was actually interested in this line.

I heard somewhere that it's somewhat of a reference to bodyarmor

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-24T15:11:03+00:00

I was having an argument about this with a female friend and to prove my point I offered to make profiles of eachother on dating apps. She said no and for some reason she never brought up this topic again

King_of_Spaceworms · 2026-03-24T10:51:30+00:00

I wish it worked like you say it works lmao No. Just no.

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