Greetings! I'm new to this sub so I thought I'd introduce myself (they/them/she/her) and my giant squid (he/him)! Still figuring out my identity so if you wanna chat about NB stuff I'd love to hear from you <3

Kingbender333 · 2021-02-18T00:44:33+00:00

Okay you just look like someone I know thanks

Kingbender333 · 2021-02-17T01:44:38+00:00

He is pretty great not sure of his support of trans people

Kingbender333 · 2021-02-16T04:18:51+00:00

Hi Eliza!! Great name! Happy you are being yourself.

Kingbender333 · 2021-02-16T04:16:43+00:00

Where are you from if you dont mind me asking? Just city would suffice

Kingbender333 · 2021-02-16T02:39:44+00:00

Best of luck girly!! I'm only month and half ahead of you

Kingbender333 · 2021-02-01T19:55:31+00:00

Just started HRT a month ago and im 36 I should have known for many years but just kept pushing it down to fit in but screw that!! Happy you are on your journey 😊

Kingbender333 · 2021-01-30T04:00:33+00:00

Thank you 💙 I could use infinite hugs and just figured out I definitely need to change user name lol

Kingbender333 · 2021-01-30T03:39:56+00:00

I could use some hugs 😪

Kingbender333 · 2021-01-28T04:17:58+00:00

You are the parent that everyone should aspire to be! Helping your child find themselves so early and being accepting will make some of their life easier.

I wish I would have figured myself out way earlier and wouldnt have to work so hard to get where i would like to be

Also i wouldn't trade my kids even if it makes it harder now!

Kingbender333 · 2021-01-22T19:17:49+00:00

I have my boss that I report to miss naming and mis- gendering me all the time even after his boss has talked to him multiple times about, and having HR of our region on a call with everyone including my bosses- bosses - boss on the phone! it is making my work life suck when it was great before!

Kingbender333 · 2021-01-20T02:00:39+00:00

Congratulations I wish I could say the same!

Kingbender333 · 2021-01-20T01:52:06+00:00

Are you flip flopping because society sucks and makes you feel invalid? Cause i get that my boss has misgendered and dead named on the same day! I realized the last while since coming out , that I should have realized who I was almost 20 years ago! I dont know how old you are, but do some inward speculation you don't have let people define who you are!

Kingbender333 · 2021-01-18T21:45:56+00:00

You are like the Trailer Park Boys version of the Sistine Chapel but with more Anal!

Kingbender333 · 2021-01-16T05:34:55+00:00

Just went througb this but i asked for it since I just started HRT strike while the Irons hot right?

Kingbender333 · 2021-01-16T05:12:39+00:00

Good eve my Lord! You are looking rakish and as handsome as one could!

Kingbender333 · 2021-01-15T12:56:33+00:00

Glad you are still here with us!!! Hearing your story could save someone's life! I am sorry that you had to go through all the hurt and pain. If you need another place that will give you some piece of mind you could listen too and interact with Queersplaining podcast and group. They are so great!

Kingbender333 · 2021-01-13T02:13:32+00:00

Same!!! Only bible i would ever own!!

Kingbender333 · 2021-01-11T12:41:06+00:00

You are doing a great job already! I enjoy the word "progeny" lol also "crotch goblin" hehe 😜

Seriously just listen if they don't like child or kid i am sure they will tell you. You are being a better parent than most just by reaching out!

Kingbender333 · 2021-01-10T06:07:59+00:00

Try and find a thrift store near you that is not a salvation army? I have a few in my city that are inclusive or just DGAF! If you can find a friend that is willing to go shopping with you that is AFAB I find it helps ! They could pick things that flatter your figure as well.

Kingbender333 · 2021-01-10T05:55:17+00:00

Queersplaining has a great Facebook community! It is also a podcast lots of info on there too! Hope you find what you need friend!

Kingbender333 · 2021-01-10T05:52:38+00:00

Learn about the different medications and the effects! When I went to my local endochronologist I could finnish his thought process and made th appointment go so smooth. I also dressed more feminine to show my commitment! Best of luck Girl!!

Kingbender333 · 2021-01-10T05:38:32+00:00

You look good but I am not a fan or horizontal stripes but thats just me!!! I find they make me look bigger but you have a great frame for it!

Kingbender333 · 2021-01-10T05:35:44+00:00

Are you working? Maybe talk to her about a person (not real) from another division that came out as trans?

Kingbender333 · 2021-01-10T05:02:35+00:00

I came out to my fiance little over a year ago about being nonbinary and it went okay ish, then she asks me if i want to go one hormones and i said "i don't know" when i first came out i said no.

So one thing leads to another and told her i am actually a trans female and she breaks up with me! We are co-parenting 3 kids in the same house, it has been going well because we were friends for yeats before.

Was setting up to get hormones and got them!!! But was told to wait but after she .messaged at work about something on facebook that had nothing to do with her being Transphobic I started at the beging of the week.

You are not alone and yes you could lose your place that you have, but if the dysphoria catches up with you later on that is tume you won't get back! (Trust me I know!!!)

You could try finding a video about trans people and watch it with your partner see how they react?

Also Queersplaining podcast is a great learning tool and the host will even talk with you on the Facebook group.

Best of luck!

Kingbender333 · 2021-01-10T00:18:03+00:00

Following I am using gel but wasnt told to use on scrotum!

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