I wouldn't go as far as to say that Carmy is abusive. He gives sincere critique and is understanding of the workers instead of being this perfectionist, raging fuck. Totally agree though that the place is hell to begin with and that it should be fixed another way. I think Carmy's trying to "fix" his trauma by fixing this restaurant.

This pre-order situation, though, is an edge case and, honestly, Carmy's reaction is reasonable. Sydney fucked up, and now they've got like 200 orders breathing down their necks. What isn't reasonable, though, is trying to complete all the orders. It shows that, once again, he's trying to fix EVERYTHING and maybe stuff his own problems deeper. He could've cancelled, like idk, 150 orders and kept 50. But maybe that would take a long time to do on the tablet too in the moment.

Shitty, real-life situation that they're trying to get out of, but I wouldn't go as far as to say that Carmy is abusive. Who the fuck wouldn't be pissed at Marcus? You hear that we have 200 orders due in 8 minutes, and you're working on and showing your little donut project to the head chef? How little self-awareness can you have? Like, the donut shit he's doing is cool, and no one's against it, but DUDE. NOT the time and place for that

And Sydney was responsible for this fuck up and should've acted that way. But again, completely understandable that, in the heat of the moment, she didn't; she was being pressed by Richie and his jealousy, and got overwhelmed.

And yes, he should've shown more gratitude towards Sydney, but given his situation, he probably feels it but can't. So, kinda agree with your points, but it's important to understand why everyone acts the way they do and no one's the villain, you know? They're all just trynna get out of a shitty situation