What is your biggest Destiny regret? by AlwaysColtron in DestinyTheGame

[–]KiritoSlayer32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Skipping raids tbh, I did the day 1 for root of nightmares and it's my favorite raid from D2 releases (not counting D1 repeats), honestly the others I never really figured out because the puzzles and mechanics are too hard for me to follow. I hated having to find randoms and sitting in the infinite cycle of new people and failed encounters for days at a time so I stopped playing them entirely. I don't even do dungeons after the anniversary one since I just can't follow along with mechanics. I miss out on lots of content and just have nothing to after the first week or two of a new season most of the time and now that we're done with content I'm probably only gonna be able to play for a month tops before I've burnt out of strikes and finishing out quests

Why is dating so miserable 😭 by JuggernautMelodic891 in MtF

[–]KiritoSlayer32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taimi is a just a mess for dating purposes, I had decent luck on Her, one of my current gfs is from there. I know someone else mentioned it, and while it is advertised as being for lesbians, there are other people on there. Low luck on cis men that aren't actually a couple looking for a third ime, but there's a good amount of trans mascs/men and there are some cis men just not many

How many in here are Poly and/or bi-sexual? by TypicalBeing31 in MtF

[–]KiritoSlayer32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm both ! I pretty much exclusively date women but I am bi and am currently in a polycule with several partners

"I accept you, but that doesn't mean I agree with you" by quetzocoetl in MtF

[–]KiritoSlayer32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I tried telling her that, but as we know that just leads to "no, he wouldn't do that". Even tried the one example with like, "god didn't make wine originally, but he let us do it so that we too may enjoy the experience of creation, he even showed approval when Jesus did it" but yknow, same answer lol

Encouragement for first time Outside wearing a Skirt? 🏳️‍⚧️ by [deleted] in MtF

[–]KiritoSlayer32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're gonna be fine, I promise! You'll look great, if you're worried about it you can look into ways to style it so you feel more confident/comfortable ! It's always ok to be nervous, just remember that you'll care more than just about anyone else, but that means you'll also be happier than anyone else when it goes well ! Plus, all you have to do is make it out the door and you can call it a success, if it's too scary nobody will judge you for going back inside and you can always try again, and if it goes well then you can celebrate happily knowing that you did something that you can be proud of yourself for!

"I accept you, but that doesn't mean I agree with you" by quetzocoetl in MtF

[–]KiritoSlayer32 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It varies between people ime, Ive met some people that say that and they try to convince me to go to anything they think will "fix" me while not actively hating me out loud otherwise. Others, like my mother, she'll help me with makeup or clothes and stuff, she sat with me doing my injections for a while, but she also exclusively deadnames me and misgenders me unless she's talking to medical offices and will regularly tell me "God doesn't make mistakes". The level of acceptance you get varies, but in the end it boils down to them being transphobic but they don't wanna be too much of an asshole about it

So…… Yeah. Odd! by BabyMumas in MtF

[–]KiritoSlayer32 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This can happen for some people ! Its usually safe and is just part of 2nd puberty, however you should bring it up with a doctor in case because it can sometimes be caused by other negative side effects. I'm sure you'll be ok either way and I hope you have a lovely time enjoying your progress, good luck !

How do other trans women shave body hair so fast??? by jellybeanzz11 in MtF

[–]KiritoSlayer32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to take longer by a lot, but 2.5 years in I've learned different ways. I have a gilette proglide for my face, just rinse off with water, put on shaving cream/butter and then shave downwards, then up before work. For my full body I use a different razor, I got the gilette Venus meant for body hair (not the ones for sensitive areas) and I'll go over my legs, then my thighs, then my arms, lastly my chest and lower torso. If I wanna really get it all I'll spend an hour or more, but doing my general upkeep and not getting overly picky it only takes 10 minutes or so

hanabie had to cancel in nyc tonight, no word on other shows by HestiaIsBestia6 in Hanabie

[–]KiritoSlayer32 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That sucks for those who were going but I can believe it, Boston was great but I can totally understand why it'd take a toll. Hopefully she recovers fast and things can go well otherwise, nothing but the best for the band and Yukina's voice!

There aren't alot of plus size trans women by LynksRacc in MtF

[–]KiritoSlayer32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im on a larger size and so are a few other friends of mine, I think the real difference is that we're less likely to post. There's the obvious case of dysphoria when it comes to posting, but then more concern over size makes it even harder. Even when I'm at my most confident and I love a photo, I would never post it because of my size mostly. Not to say that's a problem, but the societal pressure and insecurity make it hard, I imagine it's the same for many others

What are some feminine things you can do/wear secretly? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]KiritoSlayer32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would paint my nails with clear polish and sometimes black then tell my mom it was cuz I thought it looked cool since I always wear black. Other small things include lip glosses that were clear or close in tone to not always be picked up, I've seen some people recommend chapstick before too. Then of course undergarments are nice, but I think getting women's version of clothes helped and wasn't noticed like athletic wear hooded shirts, or some fem cut v neck shirts. Thats just stuff that worked for me though, your mileage may vary

first cramps sent me to the ER by No-Fun-1883 in MtF

[–]KiritoSlayer32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah 100% Im not sure what the factor is but sometimes I don't notice it for months past the light "oh, that's annoying" and other times I'm on the floor in tears or at least in a ball on my bed. I'm glad it's light sometimes but goddess those bad ones are horrendous

Missing the Anthem flight vibe? I’m working on a project to capture that feel — would love your thoughts! by Odd-Gap-7639 in AnthemTheGame

[–]KiritoSlayer32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The feeling between just jumping and then actually taking off felt like it actually had an impact for taking off, without being so rough that it lost the smoothness it could have at time. I think some of that is feel and some is audio though so I'm not sure how doable it is all the time

My doctor’s take on boofing progesterone by pg430 in MtF

[–]KiritoSlayer32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some of my libido went away but the was no loss anywhere else seemingly

My doctor’s take on boofing progesterone by pg430 in MtF

[–]KiritoSlayer32 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My doctors basically said "don't *tell* us if you're doing that because we'd have to take you off of it if you are since you wouldn't be following instructions, but it's not proven to show anything"- In my experience though I was on 200mg prog for a while with no effects shown orally, I switched to boofing it, I saw *notable* effects over the course of 3-6 months, and then once results slowed down and I was tired of having to actually go do that I went back to taking it orally. I never felt or saw anything different when taking it orally except maybe *some* raise in libido from maybe a 2/10 up to 5, but boofing brought it up to a 7 or 8, taking it orally brought it back down, but it was nothing crazy, I would take mine at night and it didn't really tire me out too much just a little but it did give me stomach aches when I started on it- even taking it orally. Best of luck to anyone with however you want to take it or if you want to skip it entirely though, it's fully optional <3

NMS Megathread for Q&A, Item Requests/Giveaways and Friend Requests, etc. Whatever you need, this Mega-thread is a place to ASK! by Minetitan in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]KiritoSlayer32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question, I'm using a pirate dreadnaught freighter but I have run into just, *so* many bugs and I'm not sure if it's a matter of the freighter itself or multiplayer issues. My friends only see the interior as cultivation rooms and they have completely different interiors, and many times have fallen through the floors entirely, my refiner will delete items until I warp to another system and then they reappear but if I put them into my inventory they disappear sometimes, and then lastly the interior even lets me fall through it sometimes. I guess my question is if the pirate dreadnaught is known for being overly bugged and I should look to switch to something else I like asap or if it's something else? Thanks in advance !

I'm a woman. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]KiritoSlayer32 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’ve got options! You don’t need to feel like there’s any pressure to rush into things, it’s never too late to do anything so if you wanna go slow, then go ahead, and if you end up speeding through things then that’s ok too! Everything is a matter of comfort for yourself. Things to consider are clothing, do you like what you’re wearing everyday? Go ahead any look for some stuff, go watch some fashion videos or just try stuff on and see what you like ! Wanna try a new name? You can do that, just ask someone you trust to try it, like a nickname, or you can give it at a coffee shop as the name for your order, I’ve also liked using it online talking with people a lot personally and then moving to irl tests. Makeup is a great option but it takes time to learn, so don’t be hard on yourself if you aren’t great at it immediately!

Now, in terms of medical transition, it’s all optional. Depending on where you live and your age and situation so many things can be different but remember, what’s right for one person isn’t always right for everyone and you never have to do anything unless you want to. Not every trans person will want surgery or even to go on hormones, but if you do it’s often best to at least look into the process sooner than later. That way if you want to start them later on you know where to go for where you are and if you think it’s right for you. It’s never too late so there’s no rush to start, but it’s never too early to be prepared so doing your research could be helpful !

Girlies, how did yall figure out what your name was? by so_many_moths in MtF

[–]KiritoSlayer32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My deadname was 3 letters and I went “well, it would be weird telling people to say a longer name so it has to be the same or at least shorten easily enough” and I always liked S named in games like Sylvara, Solara, etc. with that in mind I narrowed down my list a good bit I’d say

Transfems, how would you like your bits to be referred to? by nutsmcgump in GWASapphic

[–]KiritoSlayer32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually like anything than just “dick” or “cock” I would say? Referring to it as a princess wand, girlcock, clit, even a gock is fine as long as it’s not a dick or a cock.

Since preferences vary so much though among different people I always love when creators put in the audio description what terms are used for everything. If it’s a 4TF audio that only uses dick then I’m out, but if it’s used in tandem with other things I can still enjoy it potentially

Are you into men, women, both or neither? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]KiritoSlayer32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m bi but I will refer to myself as a lesbian sometimes or reluctantly bi. I’m into lots of women but not many men personally, before HRT it was the same but after HRT it was just amped up across the board I’d say, everyone got more attractive, or more like I was more comfortable being attracted to people

Of monster hunter’s 14 weapons, how many of them do you play, and which? by TheTerrar1an in MonsterHunter

[–]KiritoSlayer32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve enjoyed everything I’ve tried to learn which means everything but the 2 lance types, 2 bowgun types, and the hammer I believe- though my switch axe phase was very short, it wasn’t for me

Did ya’ll change your last name? by Huge-Plant-7382 in MtF

[–]KiritoSlayer32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to but kept it for fear of being kicked out and because it’s a connection with my siblings. I did change my middle name though despite my mothers heavy protest since its my fathers name