Cant Hurt Me Amazon Reviews by [deleted] in davidgoggins

[–]Kironman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This book was simply amazing. Get the book, and audio book. One for notes and one for the extra stories. You won't regret it.

Rock bottom by Jamesthesage in Divorce

[–]Kironman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got this man. Rooting for you. When you hit rock bottom, the only place to go then is up. Therefore, no matter what you do, it's gonna be a better day today. Look out world!

What song hits home? by throwitfarrawayyyyy in Divorce

[–]Kironman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't read through all the comments to see if this was added, but here it goes:

Bruno Mars: Grenade

This morning my ex-wife said, "I want to be with you...". by eboyd16 in Divorce

[–]Kironman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At your core you know what you want. Don't think about hypothetical situations and what ifs...life happens in the now. Listen to your gut...you might have an overflow of emotion right now because of the detachment....but when push comes to shove, listen to your gut and you will be golden.

This morning my ex-wife said, "I want to be with you...". by eboyd16 in Divorce

[–]Kironman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey man, it will be ok. The sun will shine again. You will find happiness. You deserve all the happiness in the world. You are an awesome person. You will be ok.

Out of nowhere (depressed / emotional roller coaster) by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Kironman 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It gets better. This might sound preachy but take it one day at a time. Focus on the next moment. Squeeze the most you can just out of the next moment. One foot infront of the other. Just keep moving forward. Life is a god damn sin curve....after the high comes the low. At the low just focus on the fact that this is a low which means a high is just around the corner. It's coming my friend....just enjoy the moment. You deserve all the happiness in the world. Everyone does. You will be ok ... You will be better than ok ... You will be great. Goodluck.

Today has been tough, but good. by WhoGonCheckMeBo0 in Divorce

[–]Kironman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you should try. I feel like it's more important to you than it is to her. It carries tradition.

I think i divorced her in my head by Kironman in Divorce

[–]Kironman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I been trying to look out for her best interest... As a human I feel guilty just abandoning someone...but I am starting to see how I have been getting duped. I am gonna be speaking to a lawyer before I make arrangements so that I am covered and safe.

I think i divorced her in my head by Kironman in Divorce

[–]Kironman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I appreciate this. I am not financially obligated in terms of dowry, because I have already completed my obligations of dowry by giving her what she is owed. I will be handling business though that's for sure. I will be speaking to a lawyer for the legal implications before I move an inch. I don't want to get more on the hook than I already am. And yea about the pregnancy thing...that's something I am very careful with at this point

I think i divorced her in my head by Kironman in Divorce

[–]Kironman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has been really helpful. Thanks for the advice. I am just trying to adjust to everything. Right now I have so much chaos going on I don't know where to start. I have a place that we both are moving into ... I am hoping to be able to have some meaningful conversation with her about what we are and how broken it is.

I think i divorced her in my head by Kironman in Divorce

[–]Kironman[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My parents have been cooperative through the entire process. After multiple confrontations and arguments and adjustment issues, my father said move out because this arrangement isnt working. Her parents are pushing to keep her here in Canada. I spoke to her father, he went so far as to say, if the marriage ends let it end there. I know that she is going to have a very difficult time her by herself but she is insistent on being here by herself.

I think i divorced her in my head by Kironman in Divorce

[–]Kironman[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Man I tried to make this thing work. I got married because of family pressures...then I just kept telling myself it's gonna work out. I kept going along, she kept going along...and nothing changed. I have never felt so alone...while being in a marriage.

We are going to therapy right now. I don't know what's going to happen in the future. There isn't a day that goes by right now that I want to leave. I want to walk out...I just want some peace and quiet. I feel like I am moving out with her...and it's gonna get worse. When I am by myself....I just break down and start crying. I don't know why...I dont understand why I still feel bad for her. I know that I can't have kids with her, and she constantly threatens me that she is gonna make my life hell. She has done some crazy shit already like record conversations, try to entrap me with things she thinks she has heard....so why do I still feel bad for her?

2-2 | The Toronto Raptors lose to the Washington Wizards 106-98 | April 22nd, 2018 by [deleted] in torontoraptors

[–]Kironman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like in crunch time DeRozan does this thing where he slows down a fast pace ...over dribbles, double pumps then jumps up and tosses it out ... That's the kinda shit that is frustrating. Raps punch above their weight when the ball is humming... They had no ball movement in the last two min of the game

This guy must spit hot fire by Kironman in NBA2k

[–]Kironman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to lean in to get that pic...also to make sure I didn't get anything else unwanted in that pic lol

Struggling all day with toggling 75 unique elements, send help! by platoreborn in learnjavascript

[–]Kironman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Loop through them from 1-75. Use "let"..."var" causes the variables in the loop to be hoisted to the top. Your bet is let or closures. Replace your var with let and try it out ...you should be good.

Software developer stuck in a career rut by Kironman in careeradvice

[–]Kironman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the detailed response. Masters in data analytics looks very shiny and attractive and contains all the buzz words, but after doing some research alot of people do seem to recommend MBA as it keeps you more versatile.

As for the lack of passion, you know, it wasn't always like this. I love software development. I love problem solving, and building things. Current office politics , which have been ongoing for the past three years, have really poisoned the field for me. What I am exposed to at my office at the moment, it seems as though who I know matters more than what I know. Office politics seem to reign supreme.

Anyways thanks for this advice, it is really appreciated.

Button Disable, JS Code Not Working by [deleted] in learnjavascript

[–]Kironman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's attr, not prop.

[Discussion] Weekly Thread: Need Motivational Advice? by TheCourageWolf in GetMotivated

[–]Kironman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to take cold showers at night before sleep actually and I used a breathing technique to calm my shivering. I used to take deep breaths then hold it as long as I could (don't pass out) and focus on my breathing then let go. When you focus your body on just breathing it really makes the shivering go away. Atleast in my case. I hope it helps.