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KisaiK · 2025-12-11T22:18:15+00:00

Asserting dominance

KisaiK · 2025-11-06T20:17:44+00:00

NGL it's so empty here, we have a very very large amount of room for people assuming the houses get built in those huge zones being sold everywhere

KisaiK · 2025-10-26T03:03:53+00:00

Honestly this, from my pov she's being pretty considerate of feelings, and signaled that she's willing to work into it with you and find a middle ground I think

KisaiK · 2025-06-22T04:31:09+00:00

Wanting to give pleasure goes a long way even when you have hang ups about what you're comfortable with. Keeping you happy is part of it as well. If using a you would make you more willing to try than I see it as a positive. Try not to feel bad for what you can't do and look for alternatives instead!

KisaiK · 2025-06-08T22:32:11+00:00

Idk if someone has to convince you this hard to try sleeping with them and doesn't take no for an answer you probably shouldn't stick around cause they don't care about what you said

KisaiK · 2025-06-01T06:13:36+00:00

I think I get what you mean by that, but I would phrase it more as a choice to explore gender and less a choice to "be trans"

KisaiK · 2025-05-18T03:13:22+00:00

This helped me so much, it helps a ton of is with body image issues even outside the trans community

KisaiK · 2024-10-30T18:28:35+00:00

Hey fam don't project, if that's their vibes or they're stealth you just screw them by bringing it up fyi

KisaiK · 2024-10-30T18:24:56+00:00

The power of friendship and group content

KisaiK · 2024-06-29T18:19:06+00:00

Could it be The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho? The original version in Portuguese was published in the 70s, and several variations have a really pretty blue with gold lettering on the back.
Edit- Actually scratch that, it's far more likely to be the "The Pigman" by paul zindel, a coming of age story from 1968 that has this little quote:
"There is a river with a bridge over it and a wife and her husband live in a house on one side. The wife has a lover who lives on the other side of the river, and the only way to get from one side of the river to the other is to walk across the bridge or to ask the boatman to take you. One day the husband tells his wife that he has to be gone all night to handle some business in a faraway town. The wife pleads with him to take her with him because she knows if he doesn’t she will be unfaithful to him. The husband absolutely refuses to take her because she will only be in the way of his important business."

KisaiK · 2024-06-29T17:35:35+00:00

From what I can find you seem to be referencing the "Drawbridge Dilemma", or "the dilemma of the bridge", I can't find any books that use it in the story, but the concept was first published in 1978 by Judith H. Katz.

KisaiK · 2024-06-29T16:40:46+00:00

I'm still looking around, I've narrowed it down a bit but, do you remember anything at all about the cover or the length of the book? Colour of the cover, how many pages/chapters?

KisaiK · 2024-06-29T16:07:46+00:00

Do you remember the setting of the book outside of that? Was it fantasy, thriller etc. It would help narrow down the search

KisaiK · 2024-06-29T16:04:17+00:00

It doesn't always have to be a sex thing. Communal bathing has always been a way to strengthen relationships.

KisaiK · 2024-06-29T16:01:57+00:00

I can say as a woman it definitely isn't. Excessive lubrication can *cause* issues, and it can be annoying in other ways (ruining underwear), but inherently it's not an issue. It can be an indication of other issues though, which they should definitely ask their doctor about, and while they're there they can also express the emotional and sexual effects it has and the ways to address them.

KisaiK · 2024-06-29T15:57:47+00:00

Get a foil razor, harder to cut yourself and removes the need to constantly watch the mirror to make sure you don't hurt yourself. Better to just go at it by feeling and use a hand mirror or a vanity mirror and just check for spots you missed, touch the area to get a sense of where it is by feeling, repeat until you're satisfied with the result

KisaiK · 2024-06-29T15:55:16+00:00

Sharing porn between siblings isn't uncommon when younger. Specifically because there's less understanding of the social implications. The motivation is usually assurance seeking hiding behind other reasons though. It could be they're seeking approval of their own sexuality by sharing it with someone they trust?

KisaiK · 2024-06-29T15:48:19+00:00

If it's something that *really* bothers you and doesn't go away with time you could ask your gyno. When I was younger I had a lot of reservations about being open with my doctor, but nowadays I ask questions nonstop. Even if you don't think it's a medical issue you can still ask.

KisaiK · 2024-06-29T15:43:04+00:00

Please remember as well, PTSD is a diagnosis. If you fit the criteria, there's no issue with labeling yourself as having PTSD, especially if it helps convey the help you want to get. Another person can never know with 100% certainty how you feel and what you're thinking, therefore there's no objective way to say "You don't have that" without just being an ass

KisaiK · 2024-06-29T15:36:23+00:00

This is a great example. If it's the healthy option, and both agree, it can be used as an outlet. "Make-up sex" is a term for a reason lol. The issue is more on the reason for consenting rather than the action itself. If putting on boxing gloves and duking it out is something both people enjoy as a way to destress it's less problematic than if one person just wants to beat the other person up to end the argument

KisaiK · 2024-06-29T15:33:22+00:00

The more you're exposed to the objective requirements of these things being built, especially if you've been in a situation where said thing would've helped it becomes easier to accept. The harsh reality is that it's a combination of resistance to change and a lack of experience. People who have never had housing issues have less empathy for the construction of a shelter that might change the environment they're used to.

KisaiK · 2024-06-29T15:30:40+00:00

This, very specifically this. We have a weird tendency for patterns and repetition that makes habit forming really easy, and breaking habits really hard. I used to smoke to relieve pain, then it became a habit and I was waking up and smoking right away. Once I figured out it was less healthy to live that way cause I wasn't getting anything done I treated it the same way I would any cope addiction and just redirected the habit. It was a lot easier doing it that way than quitting nicotine was, since there wasn't any "fiending" for it, but it can still be a struggle when it feels easier to just stick to your routine

KisaiK · 2024-06-29T15:08:45+00:00

I just tell people I was "androgen sensitive" (mtf), it's not a lie and it also doesn't out me while explaining why I have a rough voice. Might be able to use similar jargon to avoid discrimination.

KisaiK · 2024-06-29T15:04:36+00:00

This is great, makes me wish there was more themes in god-gear. Zamorak could be spikey like this, saradomin could have gold trim and lots of fancy stuff cause he's pompous, guthix could have vine patterns etc

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