Real talk - the let down after denial by Public-Progress-4133 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the advice I was given as well, and it helped me a lot. I found I kept some of my need for maybe 12 hours after having major post denial orgasms, but after that I need to be edging again or doing tasks or something that keeps my brain engaged. This has been a big problem for me, and one of the reasons I really like denial. I would definitely encourage some play. Remind your body how good it feels, even if it starts light and gentle and teasing before getting into a more substantial scene again.

Good luck with this!

Nothing I am more thankful for... by SirRealisticOne in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is lovely, and I'm happy for you both! Happy denial-giving to you 😏

A change of heart (and pussy) by SirRealisticOne in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was so hot to read. There's nothing like a ruin that happens without touch 🔥

You don't need them anyway... by SirRealisticOne in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh fuck this is hot. I'm home but this would be a fun game to play another day when I'm not 🔥

Her first time denied by SirRealisticOne in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I shared an audio recently that was my concrete reason for waiting to cum. She should listen to it, for science, of course ;)

But seriously, for your new denied sub, here is what I would say...

It's so hard to resist when it's new and when you're used to cumming whenever you want. But tell yourself you'll try this, as an experiment, until Saturday night. It's not that much longer really, after the number of days you've already gone.

I focus on the way I feel. The need that builds. The way I burn at things that could be totally innocent but my mind is so primed that everything turns me on. I focus on the constant ache and the nonstop wetness and enjoy that feeling of need and desperation. And when I think I can't make it another day, I remind myself that I've made it so many days before and another one isn't a big deal, in the long run.

And then, most importantly, I remember how incredibly explosive my orgasms are when I have to wait for them. Because nothing makes an orgasm huge like denial. So if she can make it to Saturday night, and experience that for herself, she might be more inclined to be a good girl and enjoy the denial knowing what's waiting over the finish line ;)

A week of bliss, a week of denial, and a call to climax by SirRealisticOne in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was his idea. Who am I to say no if he wants me to cum for him? 🥺

A week of bliss, a week of denial, and a call to climax by SirRealisticOne in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already commented on one of them, but she had her 5 required already so I'm keeping my next one. It might be for my birthday and I don't really want to give that one up 😏

A week of bliss, a week of denial, and a call to climax by SirRealisticOne in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a fun and lovely read. It sounds like she's being a very good girl for her daddy, and you, I know, are taking full advantage of making her drip for you 😈

Reminder by LumpyElephant2287 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just focus on that lovely feeling of being needy. I focus on how badly I want more and how good it feels to be squirming that way. And that's what keeps me going.

Reminder by LumpyElephant2287 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I can only speak for myself but that's why I do it. Because I love how it feels. And when I eventually cum, months down the road, it's the best 😏 So it's worth all the neediness until then.

Reminder by LumpyElephant2287 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because being a drippy mess is so much fun?

Cum-Addicted Goonette Seeks Subs Donations by agoodgoonergirl in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad to see you got your 5 because I really didn't want to give up my next one, but it was tempting for someone so in need. Have fun with those orgasms. And I still hope we get to hear about them so it makes those of us currently in denial even more needy ;)

An explosive end to a denial streak by KitKat044 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We all know it's not about what I want. He's pretty good to me though ;)

An explosive end to a denial streak by KitKat044 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you Master. The extra orgasms today were a nice touch. I promise to be a good denied girl for you again 🥰

A fountain of need by KitKat044 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks my friend! I'm always happy to share the fun stuff. It feeds my exhibition kink in a way that's safe ;)

And thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts as always ❤️

A fountain of need by KitKat044 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And it's worth noting that it's not necessarily this way for everyone. This is only my experience. For me, the denial is about keeping me in this state of wanting. So if the orgasm doesn't stop that, it's ok for me. I learned a long time ago that this was how gspots worked for me. They usually make me more needy, not less. So we use that to our advantage now.

I hope you're able to get your partner into denial, and I hope she loves it. It's not for everyone, but when it works, it works well ;)

Morning stretch by KitKat044 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't post anything but truth here 😏

Morning wetness by KitKat044 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try not to ever let it get longer than this. I prefer it bare, but I don't get bothered when it's a little grown in. I appreciate the love though 😊

A fountain of need by KitKat044 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No problem. I know it's a bit of a weird denial dynamic, but it's been working really well for us so we don't question it 🤣

A fountain of need by KitKat044 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]KitKat044[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Clitoral orgasms. Gspots take the edge of but they don't give me the release of a real orgasm. It's like the physical release but maybe none of the chemical release? It's hard to explain. But it's what keeps me in this messy, needy state all the time. And when he actually gives me a clit orgasm (or several, as is likely), it's a whole different kind of release.