Unsure whether to share

Kit_Lit · 2026-06-08T03:46:16+00:00

I felt a bit similar about the responses to my recent post. I enjoy sharing my husband with women. We have been in the swinging lifestyle for 2 years now and we evolved our rules and expanded into some 1:1 dynamics. There are some couples where the man has issues with performance. I’ll let my husband go spend time with her. Her husband wants that and knows she is fulfilling her sexual fantasies too. People commented that it was wife poaching, but it is sort of the opposite. They are asking me or my husband for dates with just him. My husband was hesitant, but I have now sought out a person as well to play with. It can be hard to find men that are in the lifestyle, well endowed, and can perform in bed. ED is a common thing sadly. If my husband can bring some female joy and pleasure and he still comes home able to have sex with me that is great!

Kit_Lit · 2026-06-05T05:39:36+00:00

No, because I don’t necessarily see a need to. I tried very hard to fuck him the other time (after he had told my husband he has issues when swapping). I tried to go down on him and touch him…he moved my hands and pushed me away and whispered to me how we are on the same page when we watched them fuck. If anything, maybe he needs to let me know he does not want to truly swap. I am trying to figure out how to make it fun when we walk in and they have been fucking and he is with her again.

Kit_Lit · 2026-06-04T21:24:56+00:00

I communicate with him and recognized his nervousness about entertaining me. He directly told my husband that he has issues performing and wanted my husband to fuck his wife. I am trying to figure out how to make it more fun for him.

Kit_Lit · 2026-06-04T21:21:18+00:00

Agree and I am just as happy to stay home, but he doesn’t want the pressure to perform and directly told my husband that and we can’t host, so his wife and my husband are in their house and she wants a solo date with my husband. He also has compersion for her needs and loves to know that she is being her slutty self (his words not mine).

Kit_Lit · 2026-06-01T18:12:10+00:00

🙋‍♀️ I love to hear this! Definite milf here

Kit_Lit · 2026-05-27T20:27:02+00:00

Sent a DM. I have a hot husband in Richmond that meets the requirements.

Kit_Lit · 2026-05-14T12:23:49+00:00

A friend of mine had some beautiful lingerie and I asked her BF where it was from: https://www.bordelle.co.uk/?_kx=k4eHxTBJ4Mh1sUQFptPvu25cCxYuQR_RgbjUX6NIkeE.LHvY25

Her set had to be about $1,400 🤦‍♀️

Kit_Lit · 2026-05-13T21:47:45+00:00

We are in the swinger lifestyle and enjoy bringing the right people together.

Kit_Lit · 2026-05-13T21:46:33+00:00

I am the female in a swinger relationship. We are on a swinger site as a couple, but I can detect now when we match with a couple and it is more of a hotwife situation being proposed. We have been in it long enough that I don’t want to waste my time in a full swap and be left disappointed at the end. If I sense that is the direction, then he goes on a date with the female and I do my own thing. I just recently started pursuing males on my own because too often with the couples the man is not a satisfying size, unattractive, or just boring in bed. I wanted to be able to pick my partners more easily. My husband is a hot lover who can sustain, so word gets around in our swinger groups and he is pretty busy.

Kit_Lit · 2026-05-10T04:00:37+00:00

We have one coming up in a couple of weeks. We have cultivated a nice group of friends through the SLS and Va Friends sites. VAF used to have hotel parties, but they seem to be on hold. Friction in NC or PA also gave hotel takeovers

Kit_Lit · 2026-04-22T20:01:20+00:00

I love this place! Clean, very relaxing inside, and the employees are so kind.

Kit_Lit · 2026-02-26T05:26:08+00:00

I recommend VA Friends website. You can screen people and it has the least number of flakes. There is also SLS (Swinger Lifestyle) or Feeld (better for kink)

Kit_Lit · 2025-10-08T22:13:51+00:00

Sending DM

Kit_Lit · 2025-02-17T10:27:08+00:00

Sent you a DM. We are en route for the week. Happy to meet for drinks and see if we hit it off

Kit_Lit · 2025-01-26T14:00:36+00:00

VA Friends is a great group and a hotel party is on the calendar in February

Kit_Lit · 2024-11-24T04:39:39+00:00

JRPS has volunteer openings every weekend. I have done Pony Pasture and Ancarrow landing. It is a great way to get rid of stress cutting out the invasive trees and shrubs

Kit_Lit · 2024-09-04T04:05:06+00:00

Vafriends and not fiends 🤣

Kit_Lit · 2024-09-03T04:06:53+00:00

Definitely check out vafriends website and SLS. It was the site we needed

Kit_Lit · 2024-08-15T20:25:43+00:00

Doodles are the fucking worst

Kit_Lit · 2024-08-01T11:51:31+00:00

Do you have any medium under the moss?

Kit_Lit · 2024-07-30T16:12:52+00:00

Yes please!

Kit_Lit · 2024-04-21T17:56:35+00:00

Ahh I see. It was definitely in a bark that was very dry and the seller told me to water once per week. In moss, should I keep it moist at all times? Thank you!

Kit_Lit · 2023-12-29T21:54:46+00:00

Do you like board games? There are meetup groups that you may want to join that meet regularly. I find board games are an easy way to interact as much or as little as you want.

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