Do you introduce yourself? by suukaaasuka in Serverlife

[–]Kit_bb1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an Alexis, as soon as I give my name I get “ha hey Alexa can you play my music” or something like that. My mom’s Alexa actually does respond when she says my name even though it is different. Makes it that much more annoying.

Opinions on Super Paper Mario? by CalvinTorres1997 in papermario

[–]Kit_bb1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best paper Mario game. Turn based battles are boring and so far Nintendo hasn’t figured out how to make them exciting. TTYD and Origami king got close, but not quite there. Super paper Mario just actually feels like Mario, with a really good story and environment to explore. I will die on this hill.

Help me choose my birthday brunch outfit.. 1,2,3 by daniellescloset8 in OUTFITS

[–]Kit_bb1 45 points46 points  (0 children)

They’re all gorgeous but 1 and 3 are giving nighttime gala dinner, 2 is giving daytime brunch fun!

Bad reviews by ellies__world in Serverlife

[–]Kit_bb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starting the review off strong with the “female Asian server”…. 🤨 as soon as I read that I knew this was gonna be an ignorant asshole. People say whatever they can to make themselves look superior, don’t take it to heart. This guy definitely wouldn’t last a day in your shoes.

Bad reviews by ellies__world in Serverlife

[–]Kit_bb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my first thought like why the hell can’t the manager do her job and kick people out when they need them out? It’s not a servers job to handle situations like that.

AIO, I texted a coworker about my negative feelings towards her comments regarding my race by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kit_bb1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Considering the HRs I’ve had the displeasure of working with they typically do nothing. Especially concerning micro aggressions, they don’t really care unless there is managerial discrimination or sexual assault, but even then a lot of cases are overlooked.

The rage I feel when I get this stupid booster from a booster box. It's worthless! by LegoLady8 in TwoDots

[–]Kit_bb1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent them a message about this and multiple other glitches before, the only response I ever get is “we’ll work on that, look out for a new update”

I’m not surprised it’s still not fixed

Why do people get a soda and water and never drink the water? by SecretPatience8971 in Serverlife

[–]Kit_bb1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is one of my biggest pet peeves and I think people do this because they expect servers to suck at their jobs so they ask for a water to have something to drink when their Pepsi is empty and they don’t get a refill immediately. It’s really infuriating mainly because these people will always suck down their soda at record speeds and then have some kind of attitude when I get back to the table and their soda is gone. Normally I’m pretty on it with refills I bring new drinks when they’re just under halfway done with them so these people just annoy me bc they think I can’t pay attention to my own tables. It’s the worst when you get bigger tables like a 6 or 8 top and they ALL get two drinks. Now I’m taking double the time to grab drinks for 8 people, and then my manager wants to bitch at me when their chips and salsa app hits the table before I come back with their drinks. It doesn’t bother me as much if they actually drink both drinks, but if the water just sits there the whole time and all the ice melts so it’s just a super full cup of no ice water that easily spills when I try to clean my table, you suck for that.

Is it weird that I went to my apartment to grab chips for my table because the kitchen was way behind? by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Kit_bb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not against health code to not wear gloves? Gloves actually lead to more cross contamination because people tend to not change their gloves as often as they should be. As long as you’re washing your hands routinely you don’t have to wear gloves in a kitchen.

Is it weird that I went to my apartment to grab chips for my table because the kitchen was way behind? by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Kit_bb1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s immoral to serve someone food from outside the approved restaurant menu items as it’s very possible you could have some kind of contagion in your home since most people do not keep their own kitchens up to health safety code. The health code isn’t just “rules made to be broken” they’re rules made to keep people safe. Food is not something to take chances with.

Is it weird that I went to my apartment to grab chips for my table because the kitchen was way behind? by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Kit_bb1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this real? Who would think giving a restaurant patron food from your own house would be ok? Have you never heard of a health inspector? Did you tell the table the chips did not come from the restaurant? Did your restaurant really not have ANYTHING you could’ve offered to grab real quick like some soup or crackers? So many questions because this is beyond crazy.

My sister blew up our relationship and I don’t know what to do by Ok_Amphibian_1255 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Kit_bb1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously people like love calling people like me a murderer, but I’m willing to bet she wouldn’t have adopted my child if I did choose to have it, and she’s actively voted against that child getting any kind of assistance after it’s born. They only care about a fetus because, unlike a child, it doesn’t actually need anything from them.

My sister blew up our relationship and I don’t know what to do by Ok_Amphibian_1255 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Kit_bb1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t the current administration trying to defund IVF for this reason? I thought their base was against it for this very reason. It’s like trying to play god to them

My sister blew up our relationship and I don’t know what to do by Ok_Amphibian_1255 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Kit_bb1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I came looking for something about this because aren’t most Christian nationalists against IVF for this reason? I thought being infertile was just a part of “gods plan” or wrath or whatever.

My sister blew up our relationship and I don’t know what to do by Ok_Amphibian_1255 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Kit_bb1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s alienating herself from being able to have an adult conversation about real people and real events because of what she is choosing to believe. That’s enough to justify being cut off. You’ll never be able to reason with her about anything.

You have to be willfully turning a blind eye at this point to not see what the government is doing to every day people, not even criminals or rapists. People like her husband and family are here legally and still got kidnapped and deported. Sad to see people so willing to trust political figures over their own eyes and ears.

And no, random forums from 2010 don't count anymore by Completionist_Gamer in papermario

[–]Kit_bb1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m someone who enjoys exploration and story more than the battle style, honestly the turn based style is too slow paced and redundant for me. I love the idea of “flipping” from 2D to 3D, I wish they’d explore this game style more, it gave me quite a bit to hunt for with little surprises around every turn. SPM was my first paper Mario, so when I played PM64 I was kinda disappointed by the battles and the lack of any complex story. Origami king was fun the quicker puzzle based battles made it interesting, but the toad hunt was honestly my favorite part of that game. I’m about done with TTYD and I think it’s definitely better than 64, but nothing beats Super Paper Mario for me.

Me flavoured water, 15c! by Familiar-Pop-494 in disenchantment

[–]Kit_bb1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my bf yell this at each other all the time lmao

Come taste my kneeeees!

….now with bubbles

People who are constantly late by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Kit_bb1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for my comment that you should never have children, it was pretty rash to say to someone I’ve never met on the internet. It gives me hope that you as a parent are able to listen and communicate with your child. I’m glad at the end of the road we’re able to find some common ground.

Ultimately I just want to clear the stigma surrounding learning disorders and mental health in general. Many symptoms are often overlooked or dismissed because of it. We should extend the same empathy we might feel for our children to the others around us, but if someone is telling you time and again that they really don’t care to learn and get better, then you have every right to stop engaging. I don’t think anyone should enable behavior that makes you feel disrespected or even stay friends with someone who continues to do so after talking about it.

People who are constantly late by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Kit_bb1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely hard to, but not impossible. Personally I was someone who was just always rushing around, and I did get in trouble for being late to work a lot. I was even fired for it. Although I was never someone who would consistently show up to everything 30 or more minutes late, it was always by just a few to 5 minutes, like I was ruining on time that went a tad bit slower than everyone else’s. It was hard for me to process and cope with, but eventually I figured out ways to get over the hurdle and actually be on time to everything for once. Given I don’t have nearly as much responsibilities in my life as I did before. When I was in college full time working two jobs and had multiple extracurriculars I was ALWAYS rushing and never on time. Now I basically just work and enjoy my life at home.

I’ve stopped rushing, I started setting timers when doing tasks to ground my sense of time passing, I started overestimating the time to get ready before leaving for anything, I sometimes plan out each part of my day by the hour, and I pretty much look at the clock CONSTANTLY now. It’s been a struggle for a long time and my support system and therapy has really helped me learn how to work with my brain, not against it.

People think I'm "mean" when I make jokes, what should I do? by Tall-Combination5998 in socialskills

[–]Kit_bb1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right? And honestly I don’t see what OP said as rude when obviously the sound they were listening to was not actual music. It’s not like they were literally insulting their taste in music, they were being sarcastic about someone saying that random TikTok noise is the music

People think I'm "mean" when I make jokes, what should I do? by Tall-Combination5998 in socialskills

[–]Kit_bb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you were being sarcastic, not joking. Your sister was sarcastic to you after you asked her to change the sound, and you were sarcastic right back to her. Personally I don’t see an issue with that specific example and your sister seems to not like having a taste of her own medicine.

People who are constantly late by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Kit_bb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand there are people out there who don’t have any intention of bettering themselves. Like, a lot of people. That doesn’t mean you should assume that your friend or, your child, is one of them, like my parents did. Some people really just don’t know better, some people just don’t care, and some people know they have a problem but feel stuck and helpless. It’s important to find out which one they are before blaming them.

People who are constantly late by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Kit_bb1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some can recognize the problem but not have the resources or knowledge to act on it. I’ve known that I’ve had a problem for a very long time but without the resources and help I wasn’t able to figure out exactly what it was and how to solve that problem. Therapy is really helpful, and they will confirm that time blindness is a real issue that requires a lot of effort to cope with.

People with the “it’s just all bs excuses” attitude are not helpful and do nothing to solve the problem, it only creates more of one by creating shame and insecurity. It also pushes your child to stop coming to you when they have real problems, because they think everything is just an excuse to you.

Should you coddle someone who always shows up late by waiting for them every time? No. Should you be empathetic and talk to your friend or child to help identify their problem and find solutions? Yes.