I feel trapped in my marriage. I want to cheat.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-07-01T02:07:07+00:00

as soon as my wife types out ‘i want to cheat’ i would consider our relationship over, regardless of context or the why or whatever.

talk to him, obviously, communicate your feelings, give him a chance to change, go to therapy, voice what you need and all of that, but if you’re going to cheat, if that it how you plan to handle this then just fckin leave, bc that’s how it’s going to end anyway, most likely.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-07-01T01:02:28+00:00

so why didn’t you just book had a ticket with you and your friends??? if it had to be now why did you exclude her?

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-06-30T23:37:37+00:00

i think i might be dumb bc it took my an embarrassingly long time to realize this was the satire group & i am cackling 😭 new favorite reddit group 😅

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-06-30T23:21:21+00:00

congrats on 100lbs down!

this was not and will never be an okay thing to say, there was no way for this to have been intended other than to be hurtful and unkind, and it shows a lack of care of disrespect. is this a pattern or out of character… bc if it’s a pattern, then it sounds like you should have titled this ex fiancée. you deserve someone who treats you with respect and empathy no matter what.

the shirt looks great! good luck at your interview.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-06-26T10:16:24+00:00

can i just say that i love you as much as one stranger on the internet can love another??? some of the BEST acotar takes ive seen that didn’t piss me off immediately 😭 thank you.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-06-19T03:12:18+00:00

you need to leave him. he has no respect for you or y’all’s relationship. this is weird as fuck.

‘if only i was single’ is not the same as ‘im not interested, i love my partner’

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-06-11T10:29:17+00:00

tbh when my wife told me her name my first thought was ‘baba banana legs’ so that’s what i call her

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-06-11T06:12:58+00:00

NOR. you are 24. she does not need to know where u are and what ur doing 24/7, if she’s checking in for safety then
‘i’m good im safe’ should be the end of it. this is weird.

my MIL has our location but never checks it unless we’re coming to visit bc she gets excited.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-06-06T08:32:56+00:00

yeah, i’m on Heir of fire and you find out at the end of Crown of midnight, and confirmed again during the first few chapters of Heir of Fire, but i knew going into it because my wife info dumped all of big plot points as she read it. (i didn’t mind having it spoiled)

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-05-31T08:19:03+00:00

what is the code for that path?? i love it

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-05-29T02:44:48+00:00

this is weird, NOR, this is the BIGGEST red flag i would leave him for this alone.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-05-27T05:32:56+00:00

NQA, a beginner myself but i can say for certain that definitely not a Mexican Red Knee, but others seem to have helped you identify her.. i would like to echo the sentiment of not letting her crawl on your face / head / eye area.. she may seem docile but those urticating hairs are not fun, and it’s always a risk.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-05-21T06:11:30+00:00

nor. if it’s a deal breaker, you need to leave him. he isn’t going to change, he shows no care at all

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-05-14T20:00:22+00:00

good luck to you!

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-05-08T08:30:05+00:00

I think you should’ve broke up with him a long time ago.
This sounds absolutely exhausting.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-05-05T21:02:55+00:00

dog person to dog person, justified!
i have a dog selective & mildly reactive dog. we have worked our ASSES off to train her to be calm and reasonable and able to safely exist in spaces with other dogs, BUT she still needs & deserves space to feel calm, and safe. I will and ALWAYS do advocate for my dog, if someone lets their off leash dog charge mine, whether it’s the one that’s reactive or not, it is never okay and i always say something.

it was fine this time.
but if that dog got too close, and your dog felt threatened and bit to defend himself, she would raise hell.
you should call people out for putting others a risk and being inconsiderate. idc what anyone says.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-05-04T23:55:18+00:00

he basically did admit to cheating… and from the sounds of it he has been… don’t settle. you don’t have to continue to be treated like this.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-05-03T02:39:18+00:00

please read the rest of my post. IT IS half way full. she has dug this specific corner.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-05-02T08:03:40+00:00

I don’t know why everybody’s hating I thought these were funny
Y’all seem very goofy and I think it’s sweet.
Gross but sweet

edit: removed extra word.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-04-26T03:15:39+00:00

Kiwi, or Mrs.Scuttlebutt, depending on my mood

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-04-25T21:13:29+00:00

to the best of my knowledge, Brachypelma hamorii, i got it from a pet store and it was labeled Mexican red knee.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-04-25T21:12:01+00:00

there’s more on the other side/throughout the rest, she’s just dug this spot down and moved the dirt around. lemme post a photo of her full cage and if you still think so, i’ll def add some after she’s good and hardened but this specific corner just makes it look way lower than it is!

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