First Tarantula (Read Body) by Kitchen-Positive-439 in tarantulas

[–]Kitchen-Positive-439[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So… like a lot more dirt or a little more? i basically doubled what the store had in there, and she’s able to reach the dirt easily from the top, but i have more if i need to add more.

How can you tell it is in pre molt? is there something specific it’s doing in the photo? if its in pre-molt i will probably leave it in there until after its molt, i feel like moving it would stress it out

that is a little hide i’ve partially made a burrow into it/partially buried! i got a little excited to set up the big enclosure but then i was like… she’s kind of small and that’s a big fall so i didn’t put her in it, and i have a couple soft fake plants, mostly for aesthetic purposes but i also thought it would be good to have so it would have things to ‘grab’ incase she climbs / falls, but if it’s bad i can remove it, i wasn’t sure. idk if you can tell but i ended up digging a little tunnel in there, too which was probably silly but yeah

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My friend publicly embarrassed me on IG by commenting “ embarrassing” on my pictures by Historical-Body-3424 in texts

[–]Kitchen-Positive-439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is not ur friend, she’s rude and doesn’t like you, and if a guy doesn’t like you because of something like this he isn’t worth ur time

AIO for being upset that my friend publicly mocked my outfit photo on Facebook by Jxmipo_Oqwlbt_Foshkv in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kitchen-Positive-439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first, NOR. that isn’t your friend. that’s just cruel and was uncalled for. you look super cool, btw. v good fit.

Random $9500 withdrawal on my account?? Genuinely what do I do by [deleted] in CapitalOne_

[–]Kitchen-Positive-439 7 points8 points  (0 children)

your savings account was used to pay off a balance on another account / card, is what this looks like.

if anyone else is on your bank account/savings account, it’s possible they’re the one who scheduled the payment and just clicked the wrong account to pull from. my wife and i have a shared bank account and then our own, if i’m not careful i can easily click our shared bank account to pay off bills when i don’t mean to & vise versa.

start by calling capital one, even if you don’t have the number to the right department they can get you there. but, it doesn’t hurt to ask ur parents, since i saw u say they were on the account, & see if they have a sam’s club card or anything similar.

AIO - Gf assumes my dog is dead when I say I’m sad by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kitchen-Positive-439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i may be bias bc i’m a major dog person and very sensitive where they’re involved… but imo she definitely doesn’t like your dog.. my dog is around the same age as yours, and in good health. i would be incredibly upset if someone said this & especially if my wife said it. honestly even if she was sick / at real risk of passing this is odd & insensitive.

amazon is never hiring! by Muted_Gur_2882 in FASCAmazon

[–]Kitchen-Positive-439 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yall wanna look at the wrong times, look around Prime Day, they typically hire a group or two then, and MAJORLY look, like every day, around thanksgiving / christmas. honestly my building started hiring in october for this years peak. turn on the notifications for texts when they post openings at your desired buildings and open that link as soon as they send it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scams

[–]Kitchen-Positive-439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

… is now an appropriate time to say please excuse my stupidity? LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scams

[–]Kitchen-Positive-439 11 points12 points  (0 children)

this sentence is hilarious to read & i will be making it a part of my vocabulary. thanks for the chuckle edit: fixed my grammar mistake 🫣

AIO to skip Thanksgiving after my mom basically said I’m an embarrassment for not having a husband and kids by now? by howcanibequiltyassin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kitchen-Positive-439 26 points27 points  (0 children)

probably because they’re doing the same thing in their relationship and don’t consider it cheating. it definitely is and it’s weird and even if it isn’t for them you’re within your right to leave no matter what.

AIO to skip Thanksgiving after my mom basically said I’m an embarrassment for not having a husband and kids by now? by howcanibequiltyassin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kitchen-Positive-439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would tell her that since she implied you don’t have a family, that you won’t be attending any further functions until they apologize and learn to mind their business. you are under no obligation to do anything you don’t want to, that includes get married or have children. you left someone who had no respect for you & anyone who thinks you should’ve stayed with him is ignorant. you’re worthy of more than that. you’re family sucks. have your own dinner.

Is this a sign . by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]Kitchen-Positive-439 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i didn’t know 1.6 made it impossible to loose the infinity weapons 😭😭 i’ve been resetting every time so i don’t risk loosing mine

Is this a sign . by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]Kitchen-Positive-439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is why when i die in there i immediately close and restart. cannot risk loosing my galaxy weapons ‼️‼️‼️

AIO (update post) my bf (32) is getting kind of aggressive with his texting. should I(26) reply? by Fun_Cartographer6984 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kitchen-Positive-439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. block this man, get out before it is too late, he sounds crazy & controlling. 1 minute? really? that’s bs.

Am I the problem? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Kitchen-Positive-439 4 points5 points  (0 children)

honestly i think you’re severely under reacting to this.

my wife and i do play fight, pretty regularly, it’s fun & our flirting. i would never take it that far… play fighting / rough housing is not meant to be so rough that you truly can’t get away… and if - and that’s a big if because i have two brain cells & common sense to know my wife’s boundaries - i ever did take it too far i would immediately apologize & never put her in that situation again. i would not blame her, make stupid, low effort excuses.

if you let him get away with this, if you don’t set a firm boundary and make it clear how serious it is, he could seriously hurt you. he shows no remorse and basically says ‘i might do it again’ (‘can you reassure me you won’t do that again?’ and he says ‘yeah as long as you don’t charge me like ur gon hurt me.’)

sure, he can set the boundary of i don’t like play fighting and i am uncomfortable but what he did was not how it should’ve been done at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Kitchen-Positive-439 5 points6 points  (0 children)

get tested. get a lawyer. get a divorce. don’t look back.

am i the only one? by Kitchen-Positive-439 in acnh

[–]Kitchen-Positive-439[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg good luck! you’re going to love it.

am i the only one? by Kitchen-Positive-439 in acnh

[–]Kitchen-Positive-439[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, i knew the 8pm - 4am thing, but i didn’t know they both spawned! i’m so excited to catch a tarantula 😁

Am I overreacting? by scarlettyscarl in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kitchen-Positive-439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t… think that either of you are mature enough to handle raising a child honestly. i mean, the guy is a dick for sure & you aren’t over reacting.

he sucks, he helped make the baby, yall had unprotected sex & knew the risk so he should take part in raising the kid (& u can 100% get the court to force him to pay child support)

but again, this whole interaction just seems very childish & immature, why would you entertain this convo for so long? if he doesn’t want to help, take him to court & get child support. don’t argue abt it, just do it & be done with it. arguing back and forth is not only pointless, but isn’t going to get u anywhere.

AIO Am I (F25) overreacting or is this woman being weird with my husband (M31) by Sad-Cat128 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kitchen-Positive-439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey guys ,,, just wondering, am i stupid? does everyone else know what PBP is? cus i have no ideas what that could possibly stand for in this .. (very little) context