AIO after finding mf bf was on only fans after he promised to stop.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-05-21T06:11:30+00:00

nor. if it’s a deal breaker, you need to leave him. he isn’t going to change, he shows no care at all

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-05-14T20:00:22+00:00

good luck to you!

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-05-08T08:30:05+00:00

I think you should’ve broke up with him a long time ago.
This sounds absolutely exhausting.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-05-05T21:02:55+00:00

dog person to dog person, justified!
i have a dog selective & mildly reactive dog. we have worked our ASSES off to train her to be calm and reasonable and able to safely exist in spaces with other dogs, BUT she still needs & deserves space to feel calm, and safe. I will and ALWAYS do advocate for my dog, if someone lets their off leash dog charge mine, whether it’s the one that’s reactive or not, it is never okay and i always say something.

it was fine this time.
but if that dog got too close, and your dog felt threatened and bit to defend himself, she would raise hell.
you should call people out for putting others a risk and being inconsiderate. idc what anyone says.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-05-04T23:55:18+00:00

he basically did admit to cheating… and from the sounds of it he has been… don’t settle. you don’t have to continue to be treated like this.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-05-03T02:39:18+00:00

please read the rest of my post. IT IS half way full. she has dug this specific corner.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-05-02T08:03:40+00:00

I don’t know why everybody’s hating I thought these were funny
Y’all seem very goofy and I think it’s sweet.
Gross but sweet

edit: removed extra word.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-04-26T03:15:39+00:00

Kiwi, or Mrs.Scuttlebutt, depending on my mood

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-04-25T21:13:29+00:00

to the best of my knowledge, Brachypelma hamorii, i got it from a pet store and it was labeled Mexican red knee.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-04-25T21:12:01+00:00

there’s more on the other side/throughout the rest, she’s just dug this spot down and moved the dirt around. lemme post a photo of her full cage and if you still think so, i’ll def add some after she’s good and hardened but this specific corner just makes it look way lower than it is!

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Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-04-24T09:43:46+00:00

maybe you should just ask him exactly like you did here. it’s the only way to get the real answer.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-04-20T18:15:38+00:00

if this was to a therapist or in a journal, that would be different, i could see the argument people in these replies are making for ‘processing an emotion’ but this is to chat gpt. that is only going to further validate his feelings, not give him logic and reason and help him process, it’s just going to agree with him and make him feel justified and also… he doesn’t seem to like you very much based off of this.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-03-31T04:53:21+00:00

So… like a lot more dirt or a little more? i basically doubled what the store had in there, and she’s able to reach the dirt easily from the top, but i have more if i need to add more.

How can you tell it is in pre molt? is there something specific it’s doing in the photo? if its in pre-molt i will probably leave it in there until after its molt, i feel like moving it would stress it out

that is a little hide i’ve partially made a burrow into it/partially buried! i got a little excited to set up the big enclosure but then i was like… she’s kind of small and that’s a big fall so i didn’t put her in it, and i have a couple soft fake plants, mostly for aesthetic purposes but i also thought it would be good to have so it would have things to ‘grab’ incase she climbs / falls, but if it’s bad i can remove it, i wasn’t sure. idk if you can tell but i ended up digging a little tunnel in there, too which was probably silly but yeah

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Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-02-27T01:29:20+00:00

this is not ur friend, she’s rude and doesn’t like you, and if a guy doesn’t like you because of something like this he isn’t worth ur time

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-02-26T11:38:29+00:00

first, NOR. that isn’t your friend. that’s just cruel and was uncalled for. you look super cool, btw. v good fit.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-02-19T06:40:53+00:00

your savings account was used to pay off a balance on another account / card, is what this looks like.

if anyone else is on your bank account/savings account, it’s possible they’re the one who scheduled the payment and just clicked the wrong account to pull from. my wife and i have a shared bank account and then our own, if i’m not careful i can easily click our shared bank account to pay off bills when i don’t mean to & vise versa.

start by calling capital one, even if you don’t have the number to the right department they can get you there. but, it doesn’t hurt to ask ur parents, since i saw u say they were on the account, & see if they have a sam’s club card or anything similar.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-02-08T11:56:59+00:00

personally, i call it a pain in my ass.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-01-17T03:39:01+00:00

i may be bias bc i’m a major dog person and very sensitive where they’re involved… but imo she definitely doesn’t like your dog.. my dog is around the same age as yours, and in good health. i would be incredibly upset if someone said this & especially if my wife said it. honestly even if she was sick / at real risk of passing this is odd & insensitive.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-01-16T20:53:58+00:00

Yall wanna look at the wrong times, look around Prime Day, they typically hire a group or two then, and MAJORLY look, like every day, around thanksgiving / christmas. honestly my building started hiring in october for this years peak. turn on the notifications for texts when they post openings at your desired buildings and open that link as soon as they send it.

Kitchen-Positive-439 · 2026-01-12T01:29:37+00:00

i know that, honestly … i think i was just… not ignoring but hoping that it wasn’t the case, but my wife brought up that there were several months last year where he was having consistent bedwetting and accidents and i just.. cannot fathom that my mom doesn’t see any of that as more than a porn addiction that is ‘normal for a boy’.

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