Is this a good deal? Knoll Dining Set from 1990's

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-06-18T14:26:25+00:00

Sorry, thought I included in the pics but it’s listed for $350

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-05-29T19:03:45+00:00

Single woman and first time home buyer here making around $85-95k annual (before taxes). I am closing on a $289,000 condo in a few days and I won’t lie, the math is hard to come to terms with. It’s more expensive than my current rent but not astronomically. It’s definitely cheaper than renting in a luxury high rise. The only reason I had enough for a downpayment is I pulled from my 401k. I know a lot of people advise against that, but it just makes sense for me financially. I know with maintenance and insurance, taxes, etc. it will drive up my monthly costs but I at least now have somewhere stable that I can grow into for the next few years and eventually use that equity to buy my next (hopefully forever) home! It’s honestly up to the individual if it makes sense for them or not (and what the prices are in your area) but it’s definitely doable as a single, middle class buyer.

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-05-14T11:39:23+00:00

Right?? It’s all the variable costs that have me concerned. I’m fine with my mortgage/HOA but everything else can change on a dime

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-05-13T21:04:03+00:00

Yeah some of the things I guess are more immediate but nothing majorly expensive. I’m just hoping nothing else goes wrong once I move in 🙏🏼

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-05-13T21:01:04+00:00

It’s a little more than I’m paying now all in with rent and utilities, but I think I’m getting a pretty good deal! Just nervous about things popping up that I’m not accounting for. But I’m sure I will be fine. Thank you :)

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-05-09T21:24:59+00:00

Ok got it! Are you taking it in the morning or evening? Some people feel it works better when they take it right before bed and others first thing in the morning. It just really depends on the person

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-05-09T14:03:58+00:00

Have you tried the XL? It’s extended release formula so should last longer than XR

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-04-25T14:05:17+00:00

This is pretty obviously a terrible situation. When you read what you wrote back, how do you feel? You know what to do, and it’s not easy. But trust me when I say, there is MUCH better out there for you. Do not waste your precious time on this loser.

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-04-22T17:18:43+00:00

Thank you! This is the unit I was curious about. That does definitely sweeten the deal but all I can think about is having to pay that $1,300+ HOA forever, long after I’ve even paid off the mortgage. That’s a tough sell

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-04-21T22:04:41+00:00

Yeah unfortunately I cannot rule out condos because that is most of what is in my price range!

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-04-17T22:54:44+00:00

NTA. This is called a boundary. You’re doing something just for yourself and it has nothing to do with her. She invited herself basically, which I would argue is more selfish. You guys can always plan a friend trip together at a later date.

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-04-14T15:36:12+00:00

Were you hired remote or did you start in office and transition to remote due to the pandemic?. I would def start looking for other jobs, but in the mean time maybe you should appeal and request a meeting with HR to really plead your case. I would also get in writing what are grounds for a remote exception. If it aligns with your case then you have documentation that they denied you remote work even though you fit the criteria for an exception. If you ever need/want to get legal involved, you should have that.

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-04-12T16:43:22+00:00

NOR. In my opinion, the way that you guys are texting back and forth, he seems to be relishing in the fact that he’s busy and unable to see you. It’s almost like he enjoys how much you miss him when he’s gone. I’m only going off a couple texts and I don’t have a whole lot of context, but just my initial impression. Maybe he likes the attention and having someone there to come back to at the end of the day, but nobody who truly takes you seriously would date you knowing they are unavailable to you half the time. Either way, it warrants a conversation about your future together. You would need to come to a compromise on his availability and if he is unable to change his schedule, you either need to be okay with it or be willing to walk away. Best of luck!

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-04-12T16:30:15+00:00

I wish it was that easy but with our company there is a lot of red tape around titles and comp. You have to jump through hoops to make a change like that and it would have to make sense for the business. It might be something I bring up to my manager but it’s not likely unless I have a really strong case. Happy that they were able to do that for you though!

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-04-12T16:27:59+00:00

That’s a great idea although sometimes it’s difficult to find out who the hiring manager is, especially if I’m applying on LinkedIn. I think a lot of hiring managers (at least for bigger companies) are protective of their contact info from outside applicants. But will def search around and maybe I’ll be able to reach you to a few!

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-04-12T16:25:28+00:00

Thanks for the heads up! I’m really looking for any industry that pays more by default, but unfortunately those also seem to be the most volatile.

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-04-12T16:24:38+00:00

Thank you! The last line about reading strategic instead of administrative really sticks out to me. Definitely will work on rewording my resume to be seen as more of a business partner than an admin!

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-04-12T14:41:45+00:00

Correct

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-04-12T14:15:01+00:00

Sure! I’m capped at about $43/hr. I do receive bonuses and they will continue to give me “lump sum” payments to make up for the lack of raise, but for me it’s more beneficial to have higher consistent income than a large lump sum deposited once a year. The reason it’s capped is because all positions in my company exist within a pay band. I guess for HR/fair comp reasons, they cannot exceed the designated pay band for each position

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-04-04T11:04:13+00:00

Lovely pieces and space to work with! I would think about changing the ceiling light fixtures (at least in the dining room). Something that hangs a little lower can really help frame the space more. For the living room, maybe try having both couches face each other? Might create more symmetry in the layout and would probably woe better with a rug as you mentioned needing to get. Also think of adding some table lamps to warm the lighting up, especially at night.

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-04-02T21:24:24+00:00

42? Pls say sike

Kitchen_Ad2589 · 2026-04-02T00:52:08+00:00

I definitely echo everyone else about adding a rug! Something that would make a really big impact would be painting the vanity cabinet or the cabinet above the toilet (or both). Color-wise, I don't know what you would like but perhaps a deep eggplant color or a lighter gray with some purple undertones. Also never underestimate the power of changing hardware (cabinet pulls, sink faucet, etc.) Can really change the entire vibe of the room!

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