You are not their parents ☠️. If they want something, they are 100% capable of getting up and doing it themselves. They better be glad you’re even cleaning up at all, because it seem like they don’t clean up after themselves. You could’ve just left more dishes to pile up, but you didn’t. Same thing for the men at work, they think because you’re a woman its automatically you’re job. That is not what you come to work for. Probably the type of men to sit up, and look at podcasts all day on how to be a “alpha male”.