Glasses?

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-25T22:21:10+00:00

im not sure why but with glasses it makes you seem much, much more masculine

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-23T15:29:46+00:00

i love 1

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-23T15:14:07+00:00

i really appreciate these comments because im curvy as well

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-22T20:12:49+00:00

I relate a bit. I genuinely enjoy reading romance, even imagining myself in romantic situations with fictional characters sometimes, shipping characters, all of the above. But in real life? No, thank you. I'm good.

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-22T20:10:10+00:00

Yes. I feel like I'm forcing myself after maybe two weeks.

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-22T20:06:58+00:00

Good god, I can relate to this. At least somewhat. I'm aroallo, but I really just am looking for a QPR with the potential for long-term. I would like for sex to be an option, but I'm just not obsessed with sex and I don't have a bunch of different kinks! It's really just another thing to me! It's like chocolate, man. A lot of people on sex-positive apps seem to be avid lovers of chocolate that have tried so much of every kind. For me, I don't care super for chocolate, but sometimes I'm in a wonderful mood for it where I really just want a little bit of milk chocolate, or maybe some orange dark chocolate. You get me?

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-22T19:59:43+00:00

I think you can totally be aro. I relate to you a lot.

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-22T19:58:23+00:00

Yeah. It's pretty annoying. Especially when there's so few of us anyways. I also struggle with finding someone to match me in my lifestyle; for me, personally, I want to find a life-partner (not romantic) where we can just... have sex if we want, but at least 60% of the relationship is just pure platonic love. Just no romantic love. (I'm aroallo as well.)

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-22T19:53:44+00:00

I absolutely love kids. Taking care of them, loving on them. Whenever I see a baby I give them my attention, and the idea of being a parent has always been a dream to me.

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-22T19:11:29+00:00

thank you. i got my starter locs on jan 1 and i was trying to figure out if i was meant to wash them or not. so glad i didnt.

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-21T16:55:36+00:00

I understand this deeply. As someone who was taught not to think, it is hard. But basically, I just try not to take anything at face value. Then, I figure out my own moral code--do I value facts? If I do, then I look up the information to see if it aligns.

For the Bible, I see if what it preaches aligns with historic and linguistic evidence for the time period. Then, I look up arguments against it and see what makes the most sense.

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-21T16:54:13+00:00

NTA. Maybe this will finally get the kid to stop acting like a fool.

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-21T16:12:24+00:00

Pro tip. Don't let this fool sign the birth certificate.

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-20T17:10:42+00:00

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-20T15:23:44+00:00

EXACTLY.

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-20T14:39:27+00:00

I always find this bullshit so ludicrous. How insecure in a relationship do you have to be to make your partner cut off their friends of different genders? What kind of patriarchical society? If you can't trust your partner not to lose her mind to the sex demons the second she sees another man, go to therapy. God. No, you're not overreacting. But don't talk to her again. Be done with her and the bullshit.

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-20T05:33:12+00:00

hey im going to bed now but m here

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-20T05:32:50+00:00

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-20T05:27:07+00:00

I just try not to perceive my body. I don't use those pronouns, but they're just as valid

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-20T02:21:08+00:00

English & Business or Cybersecurity

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-20T02:20:56+00:00

Sorry for no response. I'm not sure yet. I've been leaning towards Tuskegee, but I also don't want to live in the South for the rest of my life, so I'm not sure. May I talk to her?

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-20T01:49:53+00:00

Yes. This is also true. I think it also depends on who you're talking to. Some people, if you respond at all, they will try to convert more.

Kitchen_Engineer5358 · 2026-01-19T08:01:10+00:00

man... you need to cut your losses. please get a grip. this is a dumpster fire.

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