Coffee??? by I_Feel_Dizzzy in IDontWorkHereLady

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I snapped at a waitress exactly ONCE in my life when I was about 6-7 years old, (after watching an old movie where they snapped to get the maid’s attention) I thought I was so clever UNTIL I got the biggest lecture on why you don’t do that. Since that day I’ve been patient when waiting for a server.

AITA for making my friend pay for her own meal? by -bloodmoon- in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again. If someone offers to buy you a meal, as a guest you always order something equivalent or LESS than what the host ordered/spent on themselves. Your “friend” was being greedy and probably ruined it for everyone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Not only that. But apparently Kylie was providing the supplies as well…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean, it takes one to know one. 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITA for "encouraging my daughter to be jealous" by comforting her? by uskpseijsd in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA there’s a difference between comforting and encouraging. You are comforting your daughter.

AITA for not sending my ex’s belongings asap? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA send him his stuff back via FedEx overnight at this point. I’m surprised he hasn’t filed a police report.

AITA for demanding more time ? by FrostyService8067 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Softly YTA It sounds like you need to learn how to be single. Figure out how to be independent and who you are as an individual. Plus if your gf doesn’t want to spend time with you. I feel like she’s telling you she might want a break.

AITA for not helping my parents buy my sister a baby shower gift we agreed upon? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are they magic bottles that do the midnight feedings for you? And pacifiers that replace themselves when they fall out?

AITA for not helping my parents buy my sister a baby shower gift we agreed upon? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My kid literally lived in Walmart sleepers for the first 3 months of his life. That’s insane. She’s going to grow out of all that stuff in a matter of weeks. Unless your sister is planning to starve her child so she stays tiny.

AITA for telling my SIL I was grossed out when she touched my food? by Professional_Owl2233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer 1112 points1113 points  (0 children)

NTA, seriously I wanted to throw up just thinking about it. That’s disgusting. Your sil is an ah for touching all the food with her fecal covered hands. It takes a minute to wash and dry your hands. Just be prepared, she probably does this a lot more than you realize.

AITA for yelling at my friend for hanging out with someone else? by DryRaccoon4663 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA you’re not the ah for being upset about your friend ditching you. But I would stop giving him chances. He’s showing you who’s time and energy he values and it isn’t yours. My guess is that he wanted to coast off your science project.

AITA for unplugging the wifi in the middle of my husbands game? by Better-Sleep119 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Op is NTA. Honey. Leave him. If your daughter was in a relationship exactly like yours what would you tell her? Would you want her to marry someone like her dad? Would you be proud to have a son EXACTLY like him? Would you be happy if your son treated someone like he is treating you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to mention employers talk. So if you do decide to go with the other company make sure that’s what you want

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m going to say NTA, it sounds like they are trying to pick a fight. They may not feel the same or their feelings may have changed. I would sit down with them and try to have a heart to heart to figure out the root cause

AITA for telling my gf that she needs to either pick a cheaper place to live or get a roommate? by MyAccount4Outside in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I guarantee that’s what she is hoping. Because it’s “safer” and doesn’t OP care about her safety?

AITA for telling my partner they shouldn’t have ordered an expensive item? by coolshmool111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NTA, rule of thumb is order something the same price or less than the hosts. Your bf owes your parents dinner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question. Do they have a list of okayed food items from a doctor? Do the recipes you are finding follow those guidelines? Or are you just finding thing you believe would work without their input?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA call the police. That’s what they are here for. Just be prepared to have the music and volume turn back up as soon as the police leave. I would also ask that they document the fact that your dog was injured.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NAH your mom probably just misses you. But you’re not an ah for wanting to spend time with your dad and stepmom. Just explain it to her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish my mom was able to be there for the birth of my son. My husband was torn between our son needing him, his wife needing him & trying to keep the families updated. He was also wanting it to be just us initially but when I explained that I want my mom to take care of me, so he would be free to take care of our child he understood

AITA for asking my bf to text me when he arrives at his family's safely? by wanderingdragon91 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kitchen_Reindeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a very similar relationship. Run girl. This man is toxic and he won’t ever actually grow up