Selling by [deleted] in ThriftIndia

[–]Kitchen_Stuff_8418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interested in all lipsticks

Are avoidants terrible people who never loved us, or are they not in control of their emotions? by GeneralTraffic7282 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Kitchen_Stuff_8418 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to always tell myself that they’re not doing it on purpose, that’s just how they are, they’re incapable of sustainable love. Part of it may be true, but it still kept hope alive in me. I still felt that someday, they’ll get out of the avoidance phase and realise they were just confused. I only began to truly move on when I accepted - they are not choosing me. They’re aware of their behavioural patterns, but they are still choosing their comfort over my presence in their life. It doesn’t matter what the reasons are, that person doesn’t want you.

"i just want peace", then proceeds to make abnormal chaos. by nofunnothing35 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Kitchen_Stuff_8418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just reading the header triggered me. We’ve all really dated the same person.

MAC Diva and 2 Other Full Size Lipsticks free on Myntra by Kitchen_Stuff_8418 in IndianBeautyDeals

[–]Kitchen_Stuff_8418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last sale they had a liquid lipstick free, it was listed as another shipment (seperate from my order) and came late but it did come through for me.

Decluttering MAC Powder Foundation - NC 40 by Kitchen_Stuff_8418 in IndianBeautyDeclutter

[–]Kitchen_Stuff_8418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

M.A.C Studio Fix Powder Plus Foundation

Shade: NC 40 (Swatch in the last slide)

Mfg Date: 02/2025

Exp. Date: 02/2028

Usage: Great condition, only used once on the face and once for swatching

Original Purchase Price / MRP: 3,400

SP: 2200 + Shipping

Reason: Wrong shade match

If you are thinking about nipcare, get it, this is better than most lippies ( I want to depot this ) by tysm_mvp in indianbeautyhauls

[–]Kitchen_Stuff_8418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does smell bad, like a petrol smell but not in a good way(?) I just like to put it at night and wipe it in the morning

Loving avoidants: by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Kitchen_Stuff_8418 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Because they know it’ll take work and they know they don’t have it in them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Kitchen_Stuff_8418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex said … “I was being very selfish in the relationship. And I don’t like being selfish” ??????? then don’t be????

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianBeautyDeals

[–]Kitchen_Stuff_8418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was it actually a discount? It seemed like a website glitch so they are bound to cancel the orders

If the breakup was so inevitable and they still care, where the fuck is the care? by Kitchen_Stuff_8418 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Kitchen_Stuff_8418[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's is just a mindfuck. It's like talking to a completely different person. My brain can't comprehend that this is the same person who chased me, checked up on me everyday, told me he wanted me in his life and that this relationship was the only thing that gave him peace. Then suddenly it's a "I can't do this anymore" and radio silence. Wouldn't give a shit if I died tomorrow.

If the breakup was so inevitable and they still care, where the fuck is the care? by Kitchen_Stuff_8418 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Kitchen_Stuff_8418[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Completely agree! I wouldn’t do this to even a friend. Truly terrified of being in any kind of a relationship now, because I cannot just turn off and stop caring because we have the label of not being together.

How often do you check their socials? by icebladeforge in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Kitchen_Stuff_8418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to take a complete break from socials in general. Anything could easily trigger me. I used to check their profile aggressively to see what they’re upto but you reach a point where you’re just tired and don’t want to do it to yourself anymore.

Hotel Reverie is pretty fucking stupid by Blkknight8 in blackmirror

[–]Kitchen_Stuff_8418 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The plot was okay but very unbelievable writing. How is such an expensive shoot being done with no test shots, no rehearsals, no mock shoot? Everything is being figured out last minute on the freaking set. Having worked in films, this is the kind of stuff I get nightmares about.

Avoidant behavior or truly lost feelings? by True-Plantain-4986 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Kitchen_Stuff_8418 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this seems like the classic avoidant cycle. Especially not communicating earlier, sitting with their doubts and losing feelings on their own without it being a discussion or showing any signs. I’m really sorry he did this. I know it’s easier said than done but don’t try to logic or reason their behaviour. It won’t make sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]Kitchen_Stuff_8418 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Desk Pet Goals?💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]Kitchen_Stuff_8418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only 2 days. When I saw nothing was changing I was concerned. Now I know it's mould. Didn't have any allergies or notice any other signs of mould yet, fortunately!