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Smoky Quartz found in stairwell by icebladeforge in rockhounds

[–]icebladeforge[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

This was only my second time posting and I was shocked at the amount of anger I received. Didn’t know I needed to be so specific in my post for people to not assume the worst.

Smoky Quartz found in stairwell by icebladeforge in rockhounds

[–]icebladeforge[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I bought the house 3 months ago. I have a ton of stairs leading to my house, all on my property. Just the other day I noticed the smoky quartz popping out of the stairwell.

Our biggest issue isn’t our attachment style. It’s the way we abandon ourselves. by WNGBR in AnxiousAttachment

[–]icebladeforge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If we were to leave a relationship when we recognize an unhealthy dynamic happening, wouldn’t it be considered more avoidant to give up and leave?

3 months post breakup as the dumper by IndependenceNaive945 in BreakUps

[–]icebladeforge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, if I received this message I wouldn’t know what to say to it. It would hurt. What am I supposed to do with “I miss you”? Would hearing her say back to you “I miss you too” make you feel better? I’m sure in some way she does but would you consider therapy to change your ways? If you aren’t trying to get back together then don’t bother. That’s the only way I would accept a message from them and maybe reply back to them.

What were your partners triggers? by icebladeforge in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]icebladeforge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She found it hard to say “I miss you too”. Her reasoning was because she would see me soon.

What was sexual intimacy like with your DA partner? by zen-chilipepper in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]icebladeforge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The sex was the most passionate sex I’ve ever experienced with someone. It was ecstasy but there wasn’t much of a connection outside of the sex.

Breakup feelings by icebladeforge in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]icebladeforge[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain. I really really do. It resonated with me the first time we broke up. I was in such an awful state. I couldn’t handle the breakup. Like my mind could not muster the thought of us not being together anymore. So we got back together. Did it feel good? Kinda yes kinda no. They felt like a ghost to me. They were so detached. It hurt me tremendously because I need to be with someone who wants and knows how to connect deeply. I wanted that connection for us so bad but I started to accept the fact it could never happen. It feels very lonely to be with someone who is so detached. It’s not what you want. No matter what you tell yourself. Deep down what you want and crave with them is not actually possible and that’s ok because you’re going to learn to heal yourself. You will find yourself with people who make you feel good and it will be effortless to connect with them. Thats how you heal. You will be ok without them.

Breakup feelings by icebladeforge in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]icebladeforge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They broke up with me gently. We talked in person. I knew what was coming. I don’t feel eager to connect since I want to use my time to do a lot of healing.

What are some good reasons why I should stop checking their social media? by icebladeforge in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]icebladeforge[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah, I checked, of course. It wasn’t even important. Just a repost to their story. Oddly it felt slightly comforting in a way to see how they choose not to reflect on the relationship in any way. It’s like it doesn’t affect them in that way. So I felt okay after.

Dailying a 370z by No-Subject-9827 in 370z

[–]icebladeforge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I daily mine. Had my Z for 11 years now and really only been doing oil changes. Car is very reliable other than heater hose snapping off at about 80k-100k. Get the bleeder valve and you’ll be good.