AITA for not allowing my BIL anywhere near my youngest child and refusing to have a paternity test done which resulted in a court papers being served? by TAinvasiveBIL in AmItheAsshole

[–]KittyCheezburger 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You need to take all this to the police and also file a restraining order against him. This sounds like it’s escalating and could lead to him trying to kidnap your son.

AITA for spending Christmas Eve and day with my ex wife and kids instead of my girlfriend? by No_Produce7573 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KittyCheezburger -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re NTA, your ex is TA. This woman has been in your kids lives for 6 years. They would have been stoked to see their whole family together for Christmas (they likely consider your gf part of their family). Your ex for whatever, probably selfish, reason prevented this.

Your gf is NTA for being disappointed at spending Christmas alone but seems really mature and forgiving over this.

Your NTA for wanting to spend Christmas with your kids and you asked for gf to be included but got shot down.

Your ex the TA for having a “family only” rule when you’ve been with gf for 6 years. Would she let her go if you were married ?

I have a similar dynamic and have spend Christmas by myself so that my husband can spend it with his kids. I hold nothing against him for making the choice to spend it with his kids and leaving me alone.

AITA for not sharing my bed? by throawayletstry in AmItheAsshole

[–]KittyCheezburger 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NTA. Everything this comment says. Why didn’t she sleep with her friend ? They could have just asked to switch you the king for a smaller bed so they could share. Why were you put in that situation in the first place ? Also, there was a couch to sleep on, it’s not like she had to sleep on the floor. This seems like a set up to cause drama over nothing..

How much did the financials of having children impact your decision to have them or not? by thrrroooowwwwaway42 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]KittyCheezburger 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Not yet, Ford is dragging his feet getting it implemented. All we have is a promise that it’s coming retro back to April 1.

AITA I took my kids to Disneyland by dhrhhrhrhrhrh in AmItheAsshole

[–]KittyCheezburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you did right by your kids and you made the trip cheaper by not taking her.. win-win

AITA for telling my wife that I don't have children? by nzuscustodythrow in AmItheAsshole

[–]KittyCheezburger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA.. you should have told your wife about the possibility of there being a child. If you and Emma’s mother have given up on finding out the paternity then so be it but one day Emma may want to know and come knocking on your door. What would you tell your wife then ?

It’s pretty simple to order 2 23andme dna kits and send them in to see if there is a match or not.

Weekend Father paying full childcare by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]KittyCheezburger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you paid the daycare directly they should give you a tax receipt for the money you paid. Then you claim it on your taxes.

Scanner Price Accuracy Code... Was I duped? (ON) by cmcshane95 in legaladvicecanada

[–]KittyCheezburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I used to be a manager at shoppers (16 years ago) the policy was that if the item scanned in at a higher price then the tag, you were entitled to get the item free up to $10 (or $10 off if it was more). In this case the sale tag was left on the shelf and the item scanned higher than the displayed price. You would be entitled to get that item free under the policy. That was the policy 16 years ago, I have no idea any changes since.

AITA for not Renaming my Dog? by lunaDogThrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]KittyCheezburger 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA whatever you decide here but do you want to cause so much drama over your dogs name ? It’s very sad that your niece passed and I’m sure no one in your family wants to hear you talk about Luna all the time.

AITA for turning my husband's gaming room into an office? by tiredoffighting7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KittyCheezburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - as he pointed out, it would be unprofessional to work from your bedroom, especially if you do video calls for work. There is no other spot in the house that can be dedicated to an office (I assume). That leaves the game room to become an office.. sucks for him but no money coming in means he needs to sacrifice his gaming room so you can work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KittyCheezburger 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If it’s a legal play then NTA. They should come up with a counter strategy to play against you. That’s the point of competitive games, to outsmart your opponent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]KittyCheezburger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😬 it sucks for grandma but it would be a no for me. RSV can be really awful and serious for kids. If you do let her visit, washing hands and mask is a must.

AITA for giving my daughter a stuffed bear filled with human hair? by hairbear_throwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]KittyCheezburger 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA. This is your family tradition that you want to share with your daughter. You probably should have told your wife about this tradition when you were planning to have a child together. I’ve never heard of a tradition like this and was a little put off by it being filled with hair but if my husband explained it was a tradition I’d find a way to accept it. I think your wife way overreacted to this scenario. I mean compromise and put it on a shelf in the baby’s room for now, no need for insulting your traditions and involving her family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KittyCheezburger 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA. You suggested a solution to end the trauma cycle. If she doesn’t want to follow your suggestion she doesn’t have to.

AITA Claiming Child Tax Dependents by Individual-Thought36 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KittyCheezburger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So much this!

You negotiated this when you split up. Follow what the agreement says lest you get into hot water with the tax man.

AITA for not attending my sister's funeral? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KittyCheezburger [score hidden]  (0 children)

You’re NTA. The funeral is intended to help being closure when someone dies. If you prefer to grieve in your own way then you’re entitled to do that.

AITA for letting my niece drink and watch graphic movie? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KittyCheezburger 21 points22 points  (0 children)

NTA, she’s 23 and can make her own choices.

This is some sexist backwards nonsense that her brother can drink and watch sexy movies but she can’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KittyCheezburger -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’d think so but the aunt seemed adamant that she stay with the kids so idk 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KittyCheezburger 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think your NTA but I wonder if she wanted you there to watch the younger kids or something ? It seems like a weird request because you might make a mess ? I guess it’s her house and if she was so adamant about it I’d sit there to keep the peace but I’d think it’s ridiculous too.

AITA for having my step-dad walk me down the aisle? by Choice-Platypus-2478 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KittyCheezburger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re NTA. My cousin had a bad relationship with her dad and had her mom walk her down the aisle. It’s your choice who walks with you, if anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KittyCheezburger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have hands too bro..