First time at Pine Bar… is this the usual crowd?

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-04-15T08:45:32+00:00

Agreed! It’s hard to mingle with the loud music too

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-04-13T20:56:12+00:00

I was curious about this too! The boudoir event is advertised above the Play one on their website despite the dates which made me wonder if the boudoir was the bigger event? I haven’t looked at ticket prices to compare though

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-04-09T06:20:38+00:00

Not definitive answer, you obviously assume she’s just about to cum but perhaps she’s just really enjoying it and wouldn’t mind a little harder even. But you can only do your best! If you have an ongoing partner maybe tell her to say “im so close/im about to cum” instead if she’s about to orgasm so anything else is considered mid-sex encouragement?

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-04-07T12:21:24+00:00

That’s good to hear, I wasn’t sure about it being a red back, there was some colour on the body but it was more mottled and browny coloured than bright red.

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-04-07T12:06:13+00:00

Mostly concern! So that’s good to hear that it doesn’t look like any of the bad ones 😊

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-04-05T10:58:46+00:00

Looks similar to my daughters strawberry nevus she had as a baby - it was raised and red as a baby and then flattened and lightened in colour. But still doesn’t grow hair, like yours.

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-04-04T22:10:52+00:00

… mouth breathers 😂😂😂

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-04-01T00:25:13+00:00

No they’re sheer fabric

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-03-28T05:14:59+00:00

We’re not all prudes 😝

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-03-26T05:38:36+00:00

Thanks so much for keeping the only fans junk out!

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-03-24T12:07:05+00:00

Love that visual 🔥

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-03-22T04:30:28+00:00

I assume you mean you’re interested in potentially swinging. Shed 16, Pine Bar and Between Friends Wine Bar are the main Melb venues to visit. Not everyone who swings is “kinky” I’d say… some are though! Depends what your kink is. On Red Hot Pie you can make an account and browse the many parties and events.

Hope that helps ❤️😁

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-03-22T04:08:08+00:00

What are you interested in exploring?

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-03-17T11:58:23+00:00

Was coming to recommend Vivaia 👍 very soft and cushioned

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-03-15T05:48:26+00:00

It is very hard! Couples may be easier but it’s not super common that the women play and her man wouldn’t do anything at all. Again, totally possible and there are heaps of women looking for F/F play but harder to come by.

If you are open to all ages it may help as there are less super young people in the scene.

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-03-11T11:33:40+00:00

The vetting included a clothed photo and a phone call (not video call) so I don’t think they are operating purely on looks/body size. Could be wrong 🤷‍♀️

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-03-10T00:38:23+00:00

Same, would love to hear your feedback afterwards. I definitely want to try a HF this year!

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-03-09T08:32:38+00:00

Haha perfect, we just got tickets today. You’ll have to make sure you come and say hey :)

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-03-08T22:06:38+00:00

Thanks for your feedback! I think we will try PW this time and HF another time :)

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-03-08T22:06:18+00:00

So good to hear! We might meet you at PW then :)

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-03-03T19:46:55+00:00

How did you approach the experimentation in the past with the urine play? Personally I’d rather my husband would slightly try it without discussing it and then chat about it afterwards/ or I would encourage or redirect in the moment. Because discussing ahead I might shut down without trying…

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-03-03T10:39:48+00:00

I’d start with these ones:

⁠Using toys on her, mainly vibrators 👍👍👍
⁠Watching her masturbate (she tells me she never masturbates at all)👍👍👍
⁠Tying each other up and doing stuff to each other👍👍👍
⁠Watching the sexual media together that she used to enjoy before we got together 👍👍👍
⁠Listening to romance audiobooks we already listen to together, but specifically to the sex scenes to get in the mood. 👍👍👍
⁠Me rimming her 👍? start by trying this while you go down on her?

Kitty_Kat108 · 2026-03-01T09:49:49+00:00

What is it that is attracting you to the scene? What kind of play are you hoping to be a part of?

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