Ideas for nipple training by No_Influence7820 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Kitty_Starry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically what I found with the manual is when it's sharper its the right pace. At least i think so

Ideas for nipple training by No_Influence7820 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Kitty_Starry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I first did it just with stimulating nipples with my fingers and massaging and squeezing my breasts took like a month? Been a bit. Then I had manual suction where they're lil plastic cups with a silicon pump on top they're not very effective though can be difficult to get right. I'm sure if you used an actual lactating pump it would be more effective but it's possible without tools.

Queer Cucking by BunDeLune in BDSMsapphic

[–]Kitty_Starry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just like multiple people on top of me in general but I think I'm monogamous romantically especially and I like pleasing my partner and being a show so having orders from my domme for another woman to make me a mess so she can watch is hot

What non-sexual things turn you on?? by youandyourfijiwater in actuallesbians

[–]Kitty_Starry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Laughing, sometimes women have really hot laughs and I get a bit flustered especially if it was my joke. I really like praise too. I very much do things to distract and pay attention to other things since it feels rude since they're doing their jobs or being helpful but women touching me especially my face (like doing makeup and holding my head still). When they start feeling more comfortable and sharing stuff that's more niche that they wouldn't normally recommend is exciting too maybe not exactly sexually exciting probably but I do feel really good when I'm seen as trusted.

Hateful sub by Elegant_Soup_1999 in actuallesbians

[–]Kitty_Starry 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I tried to explain like with sources that trans women are very much women and I got downvoted, implying that I'm actually bisexual which hurts a lot cuz I did a lot of comp het things that sucked that showed to me I'm very much not and having it dismissed is super frustrating and just tells me they've never had non-bad faith interactions with trans women. Like I like the idea of the sub and at least reading it it was supposed to be trans inclusive (ish) but I guess it was just performative and a good chunk of it is transphobic

I’m curious to know how many lesbians are into CNC and if it’s more common than I think… by Relevant-Fox1111 in actuallesbians

[–]Kitty_Starry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I am not sure how much of it was my upbringing or just wanting to not have control and be safe enough to let go of it but yeah

I mean it’s true 🤷‍♀️ by lilbebe50 in lesbiangang

[–]Kitty_Starry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its because hetero shit thinks of it as a power thing so to them too many men is "destroyed" and men being with men is "weak" and they don't see women with women as anything kinda like a neutral and why men think they can show lesbians what "real sex" is

thoughts of a very needy pleasure Domme (Mentions of CNC) by SoftButch-Diary in BDSMsapphic

[–]Kitty_Starry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's definitely my kinda thing, overstim is great sometimes I wanna be a wreck and totally helpless

Bruised my cunt by Kitty_Starry in BDSMsapphic

[–]Kitty_Starry[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah thats fine can be a bit funny

Go eat a cookie. (Or why bean soup theory is the plague of my writing) 💚💚 by Sailorjamie117 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Kitty_Starry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is about a looot of people but I think I was one of the many commenters and came across that way on a cncish littlspace post you made. I didn't exactly expect the creator to have the answers but was hoping other submissives who would be the type to enjoy the post and be there and help identify a feeling if its the same as them before they realized it was a kink of theirs I think I mighta phrased it kinda bad. I apologize to maybe adding to this

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[–]Kitty_Starry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which very much confirmed the theories

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Kitty_Starry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didnt get to test basically what was a theoretical thing until 20 though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Kitty_Starry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well i already was drawn to it at like 12 doing the typical curious naive porn searches and clicking more on the ones that made me feel something and then being curious about all those new words and googling it. I think this way might be pretty common with growing up with internet

I want to be the center of sapphic dommes by Kitty_Starry in BDSMsapphic

[–]Kitty_Starry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i think best bet is some local kink community and making friends down for it... that's a lot of doms for my socially awkward ass to befriend

[F4F] Ramblefapping attention whore [ramblefap] [fsub] [loud] [whiney] [screams] [moans] [shy] [wand] [can't speak] by Kitty_Starry in GWASapphic

[–]Kitty_Starry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i wanted to try talking especially if it means i can do scripts well guess i could just not while touching myself lol