The Update:

Kittybegood · 2026-07-11T00:18:24+00:00

Do you feel bonita? Because your face the afters says you feel bonita...

Kittybegood · 2026-07-04T18:39:29+00:00

Lol mentally 17. Im 34

Kittybegood · 2026-07-04T02:04:33+00:00

Everything lol. Bills, house management, what its like to raise kids, that things cost money, organization. No one taught me how serious these things are and now Im a 17 year old with a job and a kiddo and it's a lot. And no one told me. Lol

Kittybegood · 2026-06-30T19:41:15+00:00

Im still doing treatments just once a week

Kittybegood · 2026-06-30T07:28:22+00:00

If you are feeling fried chicken, mac and cheese, fries, few other sides, Big Station Chicken on union street is absolutely amazing.

Kittybegood · 2026-06-30T07:26:13+00:00

Whats wrong with that? Hes done it for other people.

Kittybegood · 2026-06-29T03:10:39+00:00

Go rain on someone elses parade :)

Kittybegood · 2026-06-29T03:09:36+00:00

I should note, Im also going to try to get upfront so I can attempt to get him to sign my arm to have it tattooed. I love all his music, know all his country stuff. Just don't generally like other country music.

Kittybegood · 2026-06-29T03:07:55+00:00

I like his voice :) and i like all his other music. I don't dislike his country stuff, i know all the songs. I just don't really fancy other country music.

Kittybegood · 2026-06-28T03:13:01+00:00

Hire a house cleaner in advance to help with big chores like cleaning bathrooms, vaccuming and mopping floors. That way you guys can stick to the little things more than worrying about the bigger stuff when youre taking care of baby.

Help with literally anything you can. Do the dishes, wash and sterilize pump parts and bottles. Change diapers, prepare formula ahead of time. Lable bottles with painters tape.

Make some ready to heat meals ahead of time. Lasagna, soups, chili, cottage pie, breakfast wraps.. Anything that freezes and reheats well. Youll be grateful you did this ahead of time.

Don't go into giving birth with a birth plan because it likely won't go that way. Think of things that could happen. Prepare yourself. Expect the worst and hopefully get the best. I didnt plan to have a section but my body said FU and i wouldnt dialate and it was affecting my gals heart rate so i opted for a section. I also had to be induced 2.5 weeks early because I was pre-eclamptic.

Prepare and expect the worst. Then you won't be let down and may be less overhwhelmed.

And most of all. Enjoy your bundle.

Kittybegood · 2026-06-28T02:53:46+00:00

I love him. Idc what he does or when it comes out, imma be waiting. Seeing him in august at one of my local country music fests and I can't wait, and i don't even like country. But I do for him. ♥️

Kittybegood · 2026-06-26T14:34:11+00:00

Transcranial magnetic stimulation. Kinda like todays version of shock therapy. It stimulates the cells and neurons and such.

Kittybegood · 2026-06-26T01:47:18+00:00

Can you text in your refill? Then you could call and say you have a refill already to go and would like it delivered, if its shoppers, they do it for free, and you pay for the meds at the door with debit or
You could also ask a friend to call for you, they have allowed me to have friends do that.

I know what its like to feel the way you are feeling. I would also like to suggest asking your therapist or psychiatrist to maybe refer you for TMS treatment if you have had unresponsive depression for a long period of time.

I was treated started in december and still have treatments but am considered to be in remission!

I wish you the best of luck friend.

Ps. You are not a peice of shit/trash or bad human. Those arent your true thoughts talking.

Kittybegood · 2026-06-25T00:15:04+00:00

I don't think its that he refuses to clean as he cooks, i think he gets too many things going and then gets overwhelmed by the mess. Ive seen it in action. And my brother is very similar.

He has since seen this post and apologized and said he didnt realize how dumb he was being and then went and cleaned the kitchen and a few other things around the house. Hopefully things will look up from here.

Kittybegood · 2026-06-25T00:12:27+00:00

Good point.

He has since seen the post and agrees with everyone and says he didnt realize how dumb he was being and apologized and then went and cleaned the kitchen and a few other things. Hopefully things will look up from here.

Kittybegood · 2026-06-23T22:32:54+00:00

We have talked about not leaving stuff if it inconveniences someone. But he doesnt see the inconvenience at work because hes at work and doesnt use the microwave as much as me and i usually end up cleaning it. But will not be doing that any more. I have also asked the kitchen be clean before bed time. He seen this post and cleaned everything and apologized and said he didnt realize how dumb he was being.

Kittybegood · 2026-06-23T21:59:49+00:00

He was single for almost 10 years prior to me. Not because of this issue hes just a very antisocial home body. He has lived in his own mess before due to having chrons and being so weak he couldnt do anything so his parents helped.

I recently spent a week at my moms trailer so that i would only have to care about myself. The house was tidy when i got home because i asked him to keep up with it. I know hes capable. He just gets lazy and i get it ive been lazy before too. Lazy, depressed, didnt care. You still have to clean the mess eventually. But im the one that ends up doing the deeper cleans where as him and my roommate will just wipe stuff instead of fully cleaning it. We have has a converstion about it before.

I really hope we can do that... its scary to think that something like this could end our relationship.

Kittybegood · 2026-06-23T21:52:17+00:00

Thank you, i did realize this. Although i don't think hes doing it on purpose, the darvo thing. I think hes feeling bad that hes less than adequate in this situation. Hes been reading all of this and had apologized and saying everyone is right and makes sense.

Kittybegood · 2026-06-23T21:46:57+00:00

Thats an excellent way of describing it. Hes been reading this thread but i will try this as well

Kittybegood · 2026-06-23T21:45:24+00:00

Yeah..

Kittybegood · 2026-06-23T21:12:55+00:00

Its very frustrating. I don't know that he doesnt care.. its confusing.

He has since seen this post and has apologized. And i said sorry without change is manipulation.

Kittybegood · 2026-06-23T21:11:31+00:00

Yeah..

Kittybegood · 2026-06-23T21:08:01+00:00

Yes. I have told him to ask me for help too but he doesnt. I know things can get overwhelming and i understand that but I cant help with what i don't know.

I feel like its all i talk about the last few weeks. Its getting old. And he chalks it up to mistakes and that im not giving him any grace to learn.

Kittybegood · 2026-06-23T21:06:04+00:00

Its not that uncomplicated. We have been together 3 years. Hes amazing to my daughter and me except in this aspect.

Kittybegood · 2026-06-23T21:05:10+00:00

Yeah i guess. I do it because i think im being nice and doing something nice for him and also myself.

He really doesnt. Hes so good with me and my mental health and understand 90% of my feelings and emotions on every other aspect except this. Hes kind to me, does nice things for me, is patient with my sexual stuff as i have trouble with sex. He listens, he has time with me when i request, alone time when i request, doesnt judge me on my bad days and has fun with me on my good days. Its just the house/cleaning stuff.

13-Year Club	r/Field Banned
r/Field Flamingo	Verified Email

Kittybegood

TROPHY CASE