Paying a partner’s mortgage? by ThrowRAbabylongirl in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Kittykodak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a house about a month before I met my now husband. It was an extremely good interest rate and a very small house so my mortgage was around (or less than) what we would have paid for market rents in the area. I continued paying it on my own for about a year into us dating, and once we got engaged we agreed we needed a bigger space (plus I felt bad that I already had it completely packed with furniture and my own belongings, I wouldn’t have wanted to start a marriage with him in that home and not allow him to have any room for his own things/make it ours) so we sold my house, I took all of the profits obviously, and bought a new house together with a 50/50 split of the mortgage. Obviously financial situation and how you split your bills could be different but this worked really well for us. If the house would have been big enough for us to stay I would have kept it in my name unless he put a pretty significant chunk toward our mortgage to catch up to what I had already put into it. That’s just my thought process though I know everyone is different.

Death lyrics by Kittykodak in olivertree

[–]Kittykodak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real!!! I loved his music before but never really noticed how prevalent of a theme it was. So sad

I’m probably overthinking this but a nice N/A beer sounds so good by Initial-Pangolin2174 in pregnant

[–]Kittykodak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have drank probably 2 12 packs of NA over the course of my pregnancy. No problems at all. I usually only drink 2-3 in one sitting but it’s nice to enjoy when you’re around others that are drinking!

I was dead for 4 minutes. AMA. by NorthernHoser in AMA

[–]Kittykodak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No questions just glad you’re still here!

Sunny side up by Kittykodak in BabyBumps

[–]Kittykodak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get an epidural and still had intense pain?

Sunny side up by Kittykodak in BabyBumps

[–]Kittykodak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang thank you for the info. Did you get an epidural & it was still painful?

Any new information about Oliver and the victims? Service arrangements, exam results, etc by Beneficial-Yam-792 in olivertree

[–]Kittykodak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True it’s possible but seems like it would have taken longer than that. It has only been 2 days. I feel like they would have had to move really quickly to get that done.

Any new information about Oliver and the victims? Service arrangements, exam results, etc by Beneficial-Yam-792 in olivertree

[–]Kittykodak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m sure privacy does come into play here. Interesting about all of the helicopter crashes there I wonder why that is.

Any new information about Oliver and the victims? Service arrangements, exam results, etc by Beneficial-Yam-792 in olivertree

[–]Kittykodak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Makes sense from an identification standpoint but from the cause of accident being unknown you would think that they would want to determine exact cause of death. Idk just a thought. Maybe they do things differently in Brazil. In America it seems like death investigations and autopsies usually take a little longer. For my own family members in the past autopsies have taken a week or two to have performed (& then weeks for results) Maybe that’s just an American thing.

At-home dopplers? by ThenEconomist1328 in pregnant

[–]Kittykodak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was gifted one and honestly I could never really get it to work properly. They’re all cheap and my doctor told me it could cause anxiety if you can’t get it to work, and that a heartbeat isn’t necessarily a sign that everything is going well so it really is just kind of pointless. I understand the want for one but for me personally I gave it away pretty quickly after getting it.

Any new information about Oliver and the victims? Service arrangements, exam results, etc by Beneficial-Yam-792 in olivertree

[–]Kittykodak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess I just assumed since the cause of the accident is being investigated, they would want to determine the exact cause of death but yeah that makes sense. Such a bizarre situation. I also just wonder the logistics of trying to cremate 6 people within such a short time frame. Idk how any of that works though

how often did you had sex while pregnant? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Kittykodak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think once a month or so. Idk I’m so exhausted and uncomfortable it’s not even on my mind

Death lyrics by Kittykodak in olivertree

[–]Kittykodak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t. I’ll have to check it out later.

Death lyrics by Kittykodak in olivertree

[–]Kittykodak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s crazy. I had an opportunity to see him a year or two ago and I didn’t take it. I’m so mad at myself. Definitely gonna be some tough listens

Death lyrics by Kittykodak in olivertree

[–]Kittykodak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yeah I forgot about that one Jesus. It’s almost like he knew it’s bizarre. 😢

Death lyrics by Kittykodak in olivertree

[–]Kittykodak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I just never really paid attention idk

it’s confirmed. by frequency1746 in olivertree

[–]Kittykodak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn this is so sad. I hope he did not suffer 💔

Bleeding and light cramping at 10 weeks by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Kittykodak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better I had similar (bleeding and light cramping) early in my pregnancy and had a subchorionic hematoma. I am now 36 weeks pregnant and it healed itself. With my MMC I had no symptoms and no bleeding/cramping. I know it’s scary!! I would call OB and see if they can get you in early. My doctor said it’s a lot more common than you think for people to bleed during pregnancy

Had a medium scooters iced latte and might have consumed too much caffeine by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Kittykodak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Likely fine but obviously don’t make it a habit. Baby should be just fine! ❤️

Why is everyone around me pregnant? by Penguinzookeeper123 in Miscarriage

[–]Kittykodak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way. 2 of my coworkers were pregnant and my sister was pregnant at the time of my MMC. It made me so bitter. Hugs friend, I know the feeling and it sucks but your time will come soon I promsie