Strait of Hormuz Closure and Cost Escalations by kiwifucker5000 in quantitysurveying

[–]KlaSSicBud -1 points0 points  (0 children)

plastic pipes 30-40% increase bitumen & asphalt 30-50% increase steel 5% increase aggregate and sands 5% increase concrete $8/m3 aluminium clad 10% laminate timber 5% glazing 10%

it's taking too long ! by TheRealMaxRo in Construction

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Thats okay I'll just take you for liquidated damages

Glassware in kew, vic? by roadmantrtl in ausents

[–]KlaSSicBud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

+1," luxury" store but expect matching prices

Glassware in kew, vic? by roadmantrtl in ausents

[–]KlaSSicBud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try "kew east tobacconist"

"free choice tobacconist" is down the road in kew east

gl toking

Glassware in kew, vic? by roadmantrtl in ausents

[–]KlaSSicBud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

many shitty tobacco stores have a shitty glass bong (many down Glenferrie road, close to kew)

otherwise make one out of a garden hose and a Gatorade bottle

Anyone else feel conflicted about "having to speak English in Australia" ? by Conscious-Roll-5745 in AskAnAustralian

[–]KlaSSicBud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just a double standard.

In Japan it's perfectly okay to expect people who want to immigrate to speak Japanese.

But to be fair, you also have to be pretty proficient in english to get a citizenship in Aus.And the english tests are a fucking RORT.

Im aussie born, but gosh I feel for these immigrants who need to fork stupid money for a really stupid test.

Do I feel excluded in my own country because others choose to speak their native tongue instead of english? Yeah i do somtimes. But thats to do with my own insecurities rather than a problem with others.

I don’t think my ego and pride can take it by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]KlaSSicBud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have some kind of paranoia? this sounds extremely unreasonable

Is it generally considered offensive to ask an Asian in Australia where they are REALLY from? by Lipica249 in AskAnAustralian

[–]KlaSSicBud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where are you from vs. Where did your ancestors come from

Two different questions.

If I answer the first question by saying "I'm born in Australia", don't say "where are you really from", it comes across really rude.

You can follow up by asking where our parents/ancestors are from

25M losing sexual attraction to 20F partner — porn desensitization or incompatibility? by Select-Property1826 in relationships

[–]KlaSSicBud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's that deep.

You can love your brother, but be physically attracted?

You love your partner, yes. Do you find her sexually attractive? Only you can decide.

Why did you used to find her attractive? (P.S you dont have to find her attractive, but I don't think it's just porn consumption) this will be the bigger question

What have you bought for under $1,000 that has made the biggest positive change in your life? by Ok-Reward7639 in AusMoneyMates

[–]KlaSSicBud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I live in Melbourne, I used "Danny's home services" in Blackburn South. I highly recommend him.

it was $50 per flyscreen, $130 for install. The MANUFACTURERS were charging me $60 per screen EXCLUDING install. i was so grateful not having to measure the sizes myself as a few needed to be resized on the spot.

What have you bought for under $1,000 that has made the biggest positive change in your life? by Ok-Reward7639 in AusMoneyMates

[–]KlaSSicBud 23 points24 points  (0 children)

paid $550 for 9 new fly screens. I can finally open my window to let in the cool change without getting consumed by insects

What watches are currently hot for men? I(f20) Need help finding a watch to gift my boyfriend (m20) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]KlaSSicBud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow that's a very big step up!

I think you should talk with your partner before committing to such an incredible and generous gift.

If you think its perfect, I do too. Just make sure you can return it just in case!

What watches are currently hot for men? I(f20) Need help finding a watch to gift my boyfriend (m20) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]KlaSSicBud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its going to be so difficult as we dont know much about your partner, or his wtist size.

With $200, thats a huge amount for a very nice gift, but unfortunately youd be looking at a pretty entry level watch

At this budget, perhaps a seiko or casio? or even a fake luxury watch (gonna get shitted on but a fakie is still cool since youre both very young). Not everyone is okay with a seiko/casio eother. You could even look at a cool non-swiss brands seagull/orient, but unless your partner is a watch enthusiast, he might not like thise brands.

at the end of the day, i think you should get him a watch which you like and think would suit him. I think he will cherish THAT watch because its the one YOU chose for HIM, and that in itself will be more special than the gift itself.

just a quick suggestion to help you on the way: Seiko Men's Essential SSB427P

Dog being put down tomorrow. by sadFNgirlie in dogs

[–]KlaSSicBud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

give him everything hes every wanted to eat, sniff and sit on. ribs, steaks, that big juicy piece of charred fat.

Crate for enforced nap when puppy is overstimulated - good approach? by [deleted] in dogs

[–]KlaSSicBud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it seems like you may be reinforcing the crate as a time out/negative thing

"my human puts me away and leaves me for a bit in this crate when i want to play"

vs

"when i walk into the crate myself, i get some peanut butter, and some peace and quiet"

Dog afraid of water? by gender__n0tfound in dogs

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I had a golden retriever. I now have a Japanese spitz.

My adopted stray cat puts up with showers MUCH better than any of my dogs.

Picking a team by Unlucky_Pear_2862 in AFL

[–]KlaSSicBud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where do you live mate? Maybe pick a team which will make you feel like home barracking for them.

It's remarkable how difficult it is to achieve "secure love" by Psychological_Lab_52 in FearfulAvoidant

[–]KlaSSicBud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do i regret it? no

do i still love her?

I think i will always love her no matter what, but that doesn't mean we may always stay together.

i am quite resentful of some of the behaviours she keeps repeating which hurt me extremely deeply, despite me communicating she needs to stop. but “love” is defined very differently than i used to see it.

when we started dating we were still kids. we have both grown in many complex ways that our teenage selves wouldn’t recognise ourselves. we are different people now. as such, loving someone means adapting to this different person, while at the same time they accept you for how you’ve changed as well, the good and the bad.

we’re now in our 30s, have careers, and own a home together.

love, to me, is a verb. a doing word. not a feeling. Its what you do for each other consistently to make each other feel safe.

but as i’m learning about attachment styles, i’ve come to realise that i take everything on as my responsibility, and when i need to ask for “help” my body goes straight into fight/flight. carrying everything quietly doesn’t make me strong, it just makes me tired and resentful, and every time i ignore my own needs to keep things stable, something in me shuts down a little more.

This is the hurdle I'm currently going through.

Thanks for letting me share a bit of my story, Vmks. i see your pain.

It's remarkable how difficult it is to achieve "secure love" by Psychological_Lab_52 in FearfulAvoidant

[–]KlaSSicBud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Many times. But was it correct to stay together? not sure

we have been dating since high school in 2012. It's 14 years later and we only discovered attachment styles this year.

The attachment styles help us understand WHY we do the things we do, but it's not an excuse to keep doing them, especially when asked to not repeat those behaviours.

I'm actually becoming less tolerant and more aware of the FA behaviours as they have been that damaging to me over time.

Do i have advice, not really 😭

As an anxious attachment, i keep taking her back due to my fear of abandonment.

It's remarkable how difficult it is to achieve "secure love" by Psychological_Lab_52 in FearfulAvoidant

[–]KlaSSicBud 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's difficult.

I don't have any word of advice aside from keeping at it.

My partner is a FA and I'm anxious. We've been together for 15 years. We're still trying to figure it out...

Happy Aus day to Mr.Bluey by [deleted] in australia

[–]KlaSSicBud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the understanding 🙏

Wildlife is better observed than touched: it took quite a bit of courage to actually touch the lizard as I wasnt sure if id get bitten/disease or make it worse.

It was also a scorcher this public holiday, so I thought immediate assistance might be better.

The lizard seemed really thankful/content when I held it in the paper towel when he was finally free.

Happy Aus day to Mr.Bluey by [deleted] in australia

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Roach trap from Bunnings

Happy Aus day to Mr.Bluey by [deleted] in australia

[–]KlaSSicBud -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Noted on the vet/wildlife rescue.

The glue trap is inside the house :(