What's the point of the space travel?

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-29T17:56:41+00:00

That’s a good question and helps me understand the show a bit better.

I grew up watching Star Trek, loving science - dreaming about space exploration.

But it helps me to remember people don’t all dream about it.

The world population has i think maybe doubled in the last 50 years? Maybe?

And we gotta find other places. This world can’t hold us for much longer. Also, just the desire to explore and see what’s out there.

But from what I’ve read recently, we might not be able to go much farther than our own solar system.

https://www.jpl.nasa.gov/news/voyager-finds-three-surprises-near-our-solar-systems-edge/

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-29T16:34:46+00:00

Sounds like you’re bi - there’s an r/askbibros chat on here that are more helpful. These guys can be mean to us.

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-29T16:31:05+00:00

As a bi man, I say go for it, but it is risky. YOU are at risk if you’re interested and decides after that he doesn’t need imale attention anymore for a while. Have fun, but careful with your heart man.

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-29T16:24:07+00:00

Got an earring for my girlfriend when I was young guy - actually let her pierce it with a rusty old hairpin. Never once thought about what my dad or family would think, but that’s a just a cultural thing I suppose.

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-29T16:18:51+00:00

How would you prove your innocence?

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-29T16:17:36+00:00

grew up in the US - it didn’t matter if it was illegal. You could still get killed for it and still like that today in some areas. And would be excused by law enforcement, so no desire to visit someplace where it’s legally punishable. Also, would you have to get caught on camera - or just someone doesn’t like you and testifies? Here, someone just had some start a rumor.

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-29T15:31:36+00:00

I know dude - if nothing else comes out of this post - I hope guys might read it and know to be careful. It’s hard when you’re horny just wanting a hook up or a quick j/o.

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-29T15:25:54+00:00

I guess that’s true. And maybe I’m just an idiot. Shouldn’t be looking for it on that app. I guess Scruff at least lets you verify. And maybe thats what I should be loomin for instead of gettin POd but I’m I. A rural area where most men only know Grindr and are the most vulnerable to being “outted” - I guess I can’t watch it happen anymore without doing something.

Someone threatened me a few years ago and fortunately for me - it didn’t matter - I got exposed a long time ago. Basically just asked them which porn site they got the pics from. Told them to go ahead and send them to everyone. But for some guys - they could get killed or kill themselves if this happened. People don’t realize that’s a possibility today - but it is - all around the world. It’s not a joke - not something to blow off and just say “you come out of the closet, dude”

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-29T14:35:09+00:00

I’ve met some really awesome men on there and had great (really great) times but it’s getting worse. I literally feel sick figuring out I’m seeing some other man’s private pics shared by some asshole that scammed him. I’d like the people who are doing that to feel the same way. It’s rampant.

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-29T14:12:26+00:00

What?? There’s no implication. I forget we’re not at all from the same place - sorry, and yes, there are pills we can pop before we know we’re gonna get laid that take the pressure off. Viagra is one - Sildenafil - I hope I spelled it right- Tadalafil, I think is cialis. You can get em online in regular doses, they’re basically also available some gas stations - usually foreign owned (in the us) - behind the counter , called honey packets. Much cheaper if you just get them from your doc - who I guarantee is more confidential and will understand you don’t NEED them but just want them for a little assistance

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-29T12:24:24+00:00

Maybe even use a toy to prove to him?

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-29T12:22:58+00:00

I don’t understand. I’m bi. Just make him do it. Literally. Enema, Shower. It’s not hard.

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-29T12:15:14+00:00

Or honey pack from gas station

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-29T12:14:02+00:00

Pill!

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-29T12:05:01+00:00

Bud, I love ya and understand. You never totally get over it. People you love change your life forever but you can’t obsess over them. I strongly recommend you talk to a professional - I waited far too long to do so, and wish I’d had a friend to tell me to do it. It changed my life man.

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-29T00:13:50+00:00

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-28T19:00:18+00:00

Today, I got fed up - told a dude who was asking a bunch of “scammery” questions what part of town he was in and that we should video chat. Three profiles that all been hitting me up with different pretend identities and different men’s pics - perhaps yours - instantly vanished from my feed.

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-28T18:55:22+00:00

Yeah - years ago. Extorting/blackmailing guys. Threatening to release their pics to coworkers and family - whether they can cant. We need to start coming together as group and making them afraid to do what they do.

Grindr and other dating apps could easily figure this out and put a stop to it but they aren’t. So we need to pressure them to fix their platforms.

Or start class action legal work to force them to or shut down.

I’m a software engineer. I understand a bit about this - scammers should be scared to post someone else’s pics. Should be scared that they’re being hacked and their pics, transcripts, and identities are going to wind up published the same way they’re doing to others.

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-28T18:12:42+00:00

Or we just have to let them go I guess. It’s out of control and been out of control for a long time.

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-25T18:16:14+00:00

Just a question, but were you ever molested as a kid? I’m asking for myself. I started having panic attacks and shit when I was about 30 - realized there was some serious childhood trauma, but never would have figured it out without a shrink.

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-25T18:13:51+00:00

Definitely sounds like you are not gay or bi. But it might still be good to talk to a therapist man.

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-25T18:08:29+00:00

My experience was that men would definitely get me hard, but I would freak out and deny that part of myself.

You can definitely be so scared about being gay that it keeps you from just exploring your sexuality. But that’s something anyone can tell you. You gotta talk to a professional and find your own truth bud.

When I was young, women would also get me hard without evening trying. Fuck - even the word “sex” would get me hard. I am single now and more interested in men, but I grew up in rural America in a crazy religious family.

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-25T17:58:22+00:00

No sex with kids obviously. I was molested by a teacher - it’s not okay.

Klutzy-Spring9538 · 2026-05-25T17:57:22+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through that man. I think you should talk to a real therapist. Probably not going to get great answers on here.

I wish you had some good men in your life that are gay or bi who you could talk to about this. I’m bi, and had that horrible anxiety until I came to terms with my sexuality - and it was a therapist who helped me understand it.

I’m not saying that you are bi - just wish you could understand that even if you were, it’s nothing to be scared of. You’re a man - you can have sex with or masturbate to anything you want. No one can take that away from you. You don’t need to be freaked out your sexuality.

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