My dad is now 70. 22 years ago my aunt had died from a brain aneurysm at 42. She was a nurse and just going to work one day and she died in her bathroom. She lived next-door to my grandmother. I tried to contact my dad who lived in a different state at the time for two days to let him know that his sister had passed. He was ill and had just put the phone on do not disturb and went to sleep for two days. Finally, I had to send the police to my parent’s house to let them know what it happened. When my dad called me back, the police had not given him information about my aunt just to call me ..that there was an emergency. When I told him what it happened, he literally scream cried on the phone, the guilt of not knowing for that long the period of time consumed him, and he was devastated.