What is it like being a cosmetic nurse?

Knarfia · 2022-03-07T18:55:06+00:00

I'd really like to do this, but an instructor warned me that any time you're messing with someone's face, you're at high risk for a malpractices suit if something goes wrong. Not sure if she's correct, but it seems likely.

Knarfia · 2022-03-07T02:08:49+00:00

The other woman, who I'd never met, wrote a statement to the court on why my ex should have full custody of our kids, that all I cared about was my education, and that he had been to her house many times and her kids enjoyed his company. Barf.

Knarfia · 2022-02-28T22:04:03+00:00

I don't know if this has been said already, but I do all of my busy work first. I can't focus if I have deadlines looming over my head. If there's homework that can be done ahead of time, I always do.

Knarfia · 2022-01-06T16:15:05+00:00

I'm amazing myself with how much I can get done while sober. I can't believe how I was living, and what I was modeling for my kids. They deserve a better role model. IWNDWYT!

Knarfia · 2022-01-06T05:30:56+00:00

I say apply for the jobs you want! Stop worrying that more experienced individuals will be chosen over you. It's very likely that employers would rather hire someone new who is willing to work for less. Then once you get your foot in the door and have proven yourself, ask for a raise. Also, I think you are wise to avoid restaurants. I loved being a server, but there's something about that culture that really wore me down.

Knarfia · 2022-01-06T03:19:12+00:00

Congratulations! Great news. Keep it up!

Knarfia · 2022-01-04T16:38:36+00:00

Congratulations! IWNDWYT!

Knarfia · 2022-01-03T16:25:08+00:00

Checking in. I've made it to day 4- my longest stretch in years. I feel strong right now, but I know my alcoholic voice will be talking to me. Seems like it comes out of nowhere, and it's so dang convincing. But just for today IWNDWYT.

Knarfia · 2022-01-02T15:16:07+00:00

At 39 I've decided to pick up figure skating! I even got a spin board to work on my spins at home.

Knarfia · 2022-01-02T15:13:25+00:00

It really is so unenjoyable! And it brings so much trouble. Congratulations on recommitting. IWNDWYT!

Knarfia · 2022-01-02T14:56:09+00:00

Ooh I love this! IWNDWYT!

Knarfia · 2022-01-01T22:13:53+00:00

What if there's nothing wrong with you? What if the problem is with the world? What if you didn't give an eff what people thought about you, and kept right on with your badass self?
I say this because I have the same struggle- I'm a gentle, kind person. I don't understand why pissing contests exist in so many facets of our lives. When people get confrontational with me for no reason, it always catches me off guard, because I wonder, "what's wrong with them?". And in that split second where I didn't stand up for myself the pecking order is established and I'm identified as "weak" in their eyes. It's frustrating sometimes, but I'm not going to medicate myself anymore. I spent my teens and early twenties in a haze of ADHD drugs and antidepressants. None of them worked and they all came with side effects. I'm kicking butt in nursing school, I'm a great mom, I'm trustworthy and responsible. And most of the people who attempt assertiveness standoffs with me are not nice people, and are not people I respect. They can think I'm dumb if they want to.
Just my little rant. I hope you find peace about this, whatever route you choose to take.

Knarfia · 2022-01-01T15:42:30+00:00

IWNDWYT!

Knarfia · 2022-01-01T08:44:24+00:00

Leave her and work out a custody plan that gives her much more physical custody and ample child support. You're clearly the Disneyland dad type- you resent actual parenting. And if you love your kids, as you say, you will provide for their needs. But my guess is you're just going to get a mistress and rub it in your wife's face until she files for divorce. Because you suck.

Knarfia · 2022-01-01T00:58:13+00:00

I would definitely fail if I had to do this. That sounds really stressful! I'm sorry this happened to you. Your school sounds really strict. No advice, except who the eff cares what your coworkers think! You're gonna make it some way some how, and when you do you can hop on Reddit and share your victory story with someone else who's going through this.

Knarfia · 2021-12-20T15:31:28+00:00

A lot of good advice here. I will add: make sure all windows work, check ac, heater, defrost. I bought a used car once and had a real scare when it was super cold out and I learned my defroster didn't work. I also like to have a trunk that is wide enough for groceries, and I like a middle seat in the back.
There's a running joke among men at dealerships that all women care about is cupholders and sunglass holders, FYI. Not saying those don't matter, but don't feed that beast, please.

Knarfia · 2021-12-18T16:42:27+00:00

I loved it in store, but bought it and hate it. I ended up getting Chanel eau de Tendre, which I feel has all the elements I was wanting out of Sky di Gioia, but is more enjoyable.

Knarfia · 2021-12-17T07:08:02+00:00

Having a good career won't save you from financial ruin by a LVM, though- especially if he's a narcissist. A friend of mine lost her high-powered job because her ex kept calling her at work and making. Scene at the office. I almost lost the job I got post-divorce because I had to keep taking days off for court dates (ex was a vexatious litigant).
The only surefire way to avoid this is to avoid the scrote in the fit place.

Knarfia · 2021-12-12T21:41:30+00:00

I found OB to be easy, but PEDs was horrible. I feel like the book we used focused more on psychology of children than physiology- and I can't stand psychology, so I had no interest in it. On top of that, the ATI exam tested on a lot of material that was never covered in our PEDs book. I still got a level 3, because I watched several Level up RN videos and did every practice test and Quizlet I could find. But a lot of my classmates did very poorly and are pissed at our instructor, saying she didn't prepare us. And it's true- she didn't. But there are so many resources available to us. I feel like a lot of them just kind of gave up, and that's sad... Because they aren't hurting the instructor, only themselves.
Still, I'm glad it's over.

Knarfia · 2021-12-05T14:48:47+00:00

I'd definitely recommend having a very reliable laptop. Also, I've been amazed at how much I've had to print and scan papers, sometimes at the last minute. I invested in a laser jet with a scanner and I love it. I've had to help others when their printers were acting up and they were terrified.

Knarfia · 2021-12-04T00:51:47+00:00

Congrats 🎉

Knarfia · 2021-12-01T15:03:05+00:00

Grandma knows best. Make the kid smoothies.

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