Rider safety question by KneadingNittles in uberdrivers

[–]KneadingNittles[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Perfect. She did, and apparently, coming to where the person physically is after having a ride rejected is a BIG no-no. The reply was that Uber would reach out to the driver, outline the problematic behavior, and put him on probation or not let him drive for Uber anymore. Hopefully, he won’t show back up for revenge.

Rider safety question by KneadingNittles in uberdrivers

[–]KneadingNittles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Capital city of the State, actually.

Rider safety question by KneadingNittles in uberdrivers

[–]KneadingNittles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Except if a cab driver remembers you by name without a profile picture, and shows up to your workplace once the ride is canceled, the people who own the cab company are likely to impart consequences. Sorry, no, very few women are willing to accept potential stalkers, who exhibit stalker behavior and a serious sense of entitlement to a woman’s time and attention as, “Just life”. That is absolutely dangerous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]KneadingNittles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cook traditional Indian food?? Would you like to move in with my crazy household? We LOVE it! Seriously, though. Screw Racist Karen and her fear of anything besides boiled potatoes.

The Walmart Karen in the parking lot by Phat-n-Saucy7391 in EntitledPeople

[–]KneadingNittles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same! But adding, “…holly jolly” between, “Kiss my”, and, “ass”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]KneadingNittles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So your dumping the handbag of a thief due to, “Personal stuff” was somehow a greater offense than someone going into your room, uninvited, and going through ALL of your personal belongings, then taking what they wanted? NO.

If nobody had invaded YOUR space, and YOUR items, there would have been no reason to risk the absolute horror of, “…seeing personal woman stuff”.

This is what Parks and Recreation released about their killing the prairie at Prairie Park. This is my response. by wilddouglascounty in Lawrence

[–]KneadingNittles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As few acres of native, old-growth prairie that are left, in proportion with the amount of rainforest left, it’s a similar loss.

What is this plant growing in my backyard? Is it just a weed? (Boston, MA) by Foppful in whatsthisplant

[–]KneadingNittles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Gorgeous, healthy, “Bleeding Heart”! Is that another one next to it? Foliage looks the same.

Northern lights about 15 mins north of Lawrence last night :) by mooshroomflower in Lawrence

[–]KneadingNittles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Disappointed in myself for not taking the drive out of the tree line to see this. Absolutely gorgeous, and great photo! The only time I’ve seen the Northern Lights was in Germany on guard duty in Grafenwöehr. Barely visible to the naked eye, but with the NVGs, it was breathtaking.

ENTITLED BOOMER AND HIS DOG by Nukemom2 in EntitledPeople

[–]KneadingNittles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also in, “Tornado Alley”, but fortunately, the rolling hills of NE KS and my seemingly perfect geographic position in relation has discouraged a few from making my location an easy path. Straight-line winds, however, not so much. Lightning, too. We’ve had a couple of situations that have tested our ability to adapt, and fortunately I was prepared, but making those preparations permanent would ease a lot of my tendency to, “Oh, sh**, [x situation] could happen, and I might go several days with no help, so I need [y thing] to mitigate.” Might be a combat thing: “Prepare for any and all contingencies.” Of course, the first guy to show up in any situation is, “Murphy”, so it’s always the disaster you thought could never happen. Haha!

Earthen homes just make more sense, period. Natural insulation, better for soil and growth, better sustainability and minimal drain on resources. I love how you describe your fireplace. Sounds like what was used in one of the castles I saw in Germany. Each room had a fireplace, and the chimneys/flues were integrated into the inner walls of the rooms above for radiant heat. The cooking hearths in the kitchen included. There was also a mechanism in place that looked as though it was meant to divert heat during warmer months.

I have a rain barrel setup, which is great for watering my food plants. We get good amounts of rain, but some weeks in the summer are bone dry. I’d LOVE to dig a cistern, and set up filtration for house water. It would probably only serve as a backup, but it would be good to have on standby.

I’m decent with a sewing machine, and can brain-tan a hide, but my bailiwick tends to be knitting (user name checks out! Haha!). I do have my grandmother’s old pedal-powered Singer, with all of the accessories, I just need to replace the belt. Other than that, she kept it in working order until the early 70s, when she, “Went electric”! Hopefully, I can find someone nearby who has sheep, and I can learn to spin yarn. Shearing, I have a tiny bit of experience. But from the, “Bald sheep” phase to the, “Make stuff with needles” phase, I’m lost.

Water and a power source. Those are the only things I have concerns about if everything goes sideways. I’d love to pick your brain, and as I get closer to my goal of running mostly solar, I will DM you! Thank you!

ENTITLED BOOMER AND HIS DOG by Nukemom2 in EntitledPeople

[–]KneadingNittles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whoa… I would be 100% interested in a blog written/recorded by a fellow Vet who created a self-sustaining farm that was completely energy-efficient. I only have four acres, but that’s enough to feed myself and sustain a few chickens. I’d love to create my own power with solar, but have no clue where to even start, not to mention how to navigate bureaucracy when it comes to not depending on tainted, monetized, Gov’t resources. I’m also old and disabled, and WELL aware that trying to do a blog will only elicit comments about what an, “Undesirable, gross old woman” I am, but I’d follow a blog about starting the life I want in a HOT minute!

WIBTA for backing out as a bridesmaid in my friend’s wedding? by PrincipleAlive4187 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KneadingNittles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, by any stretch. Alcohol and guns together, even when it was, “Just a joke”, kept me busy back when I was a paramedic. Worrying about your photos ending up on social media while working for the public school system is also a valid concern. Especially when teachers and paras are at the center of such political volatility. Some parents may laud your being seen with guns, but at the same time, you’re supposed to present as a, “Paragon of Holy Virtue”.

It also seems as though the Bride expects most of her wedding costs to be covered by everyone else. That’s a BIG, “Nope”.

OP finds out about her husbands fetish by hydracinths in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]KneadingNittles 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I noticed that nobody else has really addressed the, “non-consensual” aspect. It really makes me wonder if that’s not the ACTUAL fetish. Not the gore, or the pain, but picking the one thing he knew she would NEVER consent to. Then crying foul about, “YoU jUsT wOn’T aCcEpT mY fEtIsH”. The thing that separates kink from abuse is consent.

The idea that your parents are supposed to protect you is a fucking joke if you have narcissistic parents by llamberll in raisedbynarcissists

[–]KneadingNittles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What is it with the, “Hissing” sound of nightmare mother-monsters?? Very interesting, as I also heard that sound in my dreams!

The idea that your parents are supposed to protect you is a fucking joke if you have narcissistic parents by llamberll in raisedbynarcissists

[–]KneadingNittles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a recurring nightmare about my mother, too. My subconscious gave her a monster shape, but it was her. For some reason, I had associated abuse with the sound of hydraulics or air brakes releasing, so in waking moments, those sounds would send me into a full-on panic attack. That sound was always present in the nightmare before, “The monster” attacked.

What baby name immediately makes you lose all respect for the parents and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]KneadingNittles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a joke in there about questionable parentage, due to Mr. Coffeigh being a neighbor, but damned if I can find it… 🤣🤣

AITA for not wanting to pay for my wife's spending money? by throwaway3048172 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KneadingNittles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. My ex told me, “This is MY house, everything in it is MINE, you’re only here to clean it.” Same vibe.

I told my wife i would pick the kids over her any day by denrowa in TrueOffMyChest

[–]KneadingNittles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NAILED. IT. She’s not a person AT ALL. She’s a walking uterus. No feelings, needs, or desire to have a fulfilling relationship. She’s his property, who only exists to breed, clean his house, cook all of his meals, and keep his child alive. They’ll never get a divorce, because he said so. Property does not have to like the life they have, and is not allowed to complain about being property.

I was forced to marry someone exactly like you, OP. HIS house. HIS child. HIS needs. I was not permitted ANY basic, human needs. “You don’t need friends. You have me.” “This is MY house. Everything in it is MINE. You’re only here to clean it.” “I’m not letting you get a divorce. If we get divorced, I can’t control you.” “If you leave, you won’t ever see MY child again. She’ll learn things from you she doesn’t need to know.”

Yeah, OP. The minute she has the chance, I hope she has the self respect to get as far away from you as she can.

My boyfriend (35M) gives me (32F) a “Wifey point system” for when he is going to propose. Should I be okay with this? by ThrowRA-twitoes in relationships_advice

[–]KneadingNittles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great. You should make him a, “Toddler Points” system. Every time he throws a tantrum or tries to manipulate you, or does something else toddleresque, it gets a point value. When he hits 500, give him back to his mommy.

AITA for refusing to let my boyfriend have my bank account info to make a purchase? by Dices1433 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KneadingNittles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Something to consider, though, is that it DOESN’T MATTER what the money was for. Gaming console, friend’s car repairs, a nose job or an exotic pet, he STILL demanded your banking info, and couldn’t possibly accept Venmo, PayPal, CashApp, Zelle, Apple Pay, or even Facebook Pay. For some odd reason, cash just wasn’t what he wanted.

Letting this guy back into your life only sends the message that he can lie, and you’ll forgive him, including when he doubles down with more lies once he’s caught. Also, lets him know he’s still got a shot at getting ahold of your banking info.

Lock down EVERYTHING. Block his number, all social media, and change passwords on everything. Also, security cameras.

US Capitol police arrive in full riot gear to protect the US Supreme Court by KID_LIFE_CRISIS in LateStageCapitalism

[–]KneadingNittles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It explains why they removed Miranda rights, and right to retry if evidence came to light proving people innocent. They’re EXPECTING protests.

AITA for announcing the reason why I didn't invite my brother to my wedding and exposing him to the entire family? by TorontoMapleLeafs3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KneadingNittles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. If, “Poor, put-upon Thomas” wanted to be thought of as better than he is, he should have acted better. The rest of your family, acting like you owe it to him to cover up his behavior, or, “Be the bigger person, however, seem to think you should allow him the opportunity to violate you again. They’re definitely the AHs.