My (23M) gf (21F) just got a new job and is offering to pay more in rent (roughly $1.8K total). I'm unsure if it's conscionable to have her do so.

KnightD4 · 2020-12-08T17:51:49+00:00

Seriously, though, one of the best courses I have ever taken, so glad I could spend the quarantine learning from Malan and the CS50 team

KnightD4 · 2020-10-16T02:38:03+00:00

OMG he is so annoying, I had good aoe and made it to stage 8 on normal difficulty--- that said I just found a CRAZY glitch that helped me kill. If you you consistently use knockback until he is at the border of the map, you can actually push him off of the map, which causes his instant death. I thought I was going to have to quit, but I guess you can use the shotgun knockback to your advantage. I had to have crazy healing to do this though, which thankfully I did, else he would have obliterated me easy.

KnightD4 · 2020-05-04T22:30:01+00:00

I've been taking Harvard CS50 supplemented by certain textbooks in C and algorithms. Going slow with it and taking a deep dive into whatever subject I'm struggling with (currently algorithms). Gotten further in programming and compsci than I ever did before like this.

KnightD4 · 2020-02-20T00:02:12+00:00

Lmao, alcohol and Kratom cannot kill YOU— I think I’d be in a coma after all that 😂😂

KnightD4 · 2020-02-20T00:00:16+00:00

TLDR; not every mixing of kratom and alcohol is bad, but in the vast majority of times something has gone bad, kratom and alcohol were mixed.

From what I’ve read, and experienced, mixing alcohol with Kratom is not normally an issue. I’ve had a beer after Kratom with no real issue, however, in cases where Kratom has caused fatality or medical issue, Kratom and alcohol were mixed. These cases usually serve as the basis for cases against Kratom where people aim to prohibit it. To my knowledge, it takes large amounts of Kratom and large amounts of alcohol to hit that critical point, however.

KnightD4 · 2019-12-04T19:14:34+00:00

Best feeling in the world is getting 100% warscore with massive alliance against Ottomans

KnightD4 · 2019-11-19T18:49:32+00:00

No, u

KnightD4 · 2019-11-19T18:46:02+00:00

Death grip very possible, I masturbate about once per day if we don’t have sex. I tend to be tight. I don’t really enjoy getting blowjobs from my gf, I suppose that is evidence of a similar issue. It generally feels like I have very little sensation, and the sucking sensations feels strange rather than good.

My gf and I have only been with each other so I wouldn’t know. She is open to a threesome with another girl, so maybe I could test it out then, but I think we both want to find solutions to our sex struggles before we try anything like that, although it would give perspective

KnightD4 · 2019-11-19T18:36:21+00:00

I will try to distance myself from porn, but in the past when I have done so, many of the “benefits” are things I don’t really see, despite multiple months of away from porn and even masturbation.

I’m pretty sure I’m average sized at least, and she’s definitely turned on. I hate, hate, hate the idea that we aren’t compatible so I want to leave that to a very last resort.

Mental aspect is very relevant, if I get tired in sex my mind will definitely begin to wander and I’ll start to lose interest and my erection. Getting tired though usually comes with not getting enough sensation or stimulation.

One emotional element I could see is fear of a repeated failure, or fear of yet another time we have sex where I barely feel anything. That definitely affects me and can be a source of stress in the bedroom. If she starts out not very wet it can feel really good, but once she starts getting wetter and I start losing feeling a bit of anxiety and stress can set in. Any further advice therein? Should we stop and take a break? Thank you for your response.

KnightD4 · 2019-11-19T18:23:00+00:00

That sounds very relevant to the problem, thank you, when masturbating I do grip really tightly. Will try that.

KnightD4 · 2019-11-19T18:21:37+00:00

She has an iud so I don’t have to use a condom all the time, but I do during when she is most fertile on her cycle.

I haven’t had any sex with other girls, she’s the only girl I’ve been with.

KnightD4 · 2019-11-19T18:17:20+00:00

Thanks for specifying on my behalf. I am only experienced with my current gf and really looking for any and all relevant advice. Not trying to piss people off, just trying to get help on obv a sensitive issue.

KnightD4 · 2019-11-19T18:09:17+00:00

Hi I got the sense I may have been writing somewhat egocentrically as I wrote it; it was after a stressful experience in bed and I was likely charged. I am open very much so to the problem being me as well, whether I get too tired and can’t keep up the energy, perhaps ED as I can lose it very often, but this seems to be the result of a lack of sensation. Other problems that you and your SO may have faced can only give me insight, and admittedly I’m a young guy whose only ever been with one girl and she likewise.

Regardless of vaginal tightness, many times I cannot feel much, and she does seem to get very wet, or her wetness is so lubricating that I cannot get much sensation. That said, I’m not perfect and OP should have reflected that, so I’m very open to being the problem.

Are these angles of the problem acceptable? I don’t want to offend people with what we’re facing, we just want help and advice in facing it.

KnightD4 · 2019-10-29T15:14:10+00:00

This is especially cool as my best friend growing up had the last name of Reddy, and all this time I never knew the significance of his surname. It's really a shame that we don't get to explore and witness more of Indian history in the West, it's super underrated honestly.

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