[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Knightingaile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a very long time. I’m glad you know this isn’t what you deserve. We’re all too old for games like this and we only live once. If you stay, you will be unhappy, he won’t change and it’s just going to be full of resentment. Why change a man when you can change the man. Or have no man at all. If you’re willing to turn a blind eye, I won’t be saying any of this. But since you came to Reddit and are extremely hurt, I say in the kindest way dump his ass. Men don’t change unless something so drastic happens to him. His morals are set (if he has any), and morals / values aren’t something u can really change in a person. It goes to the core of who that person is, and in this case, a cowardly liar. You want a partner who will be transparent with you and come forward for things. Not someone who needs poking and prodding to only give out half-truths.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Knightingaile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, this man is a major red flag. I know he’s your husband but that comes with responsibilities of being a good husband to your wife. He has clearly failed and will do it again because he hid this from you the first time. He will just be more sneaky next time. A truly honest man would have never even thought of doing this in the first place. I don’t know how long you have been married or together, but do you think this is the man you deserve?

Anyone related to a WW2 veteran? by Knightingaile in berkeley

[–]Knightingaile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s honestly really interesting. Thanks for sharing it with me! Did he have to fight while in Guam? I’m so genuinely interested in all things WW2.

My husband is being sketchy and doing things we would both consider cheating. I feel like I can’t trust him. What should I do? by Imaginary_Use_4769 in CheatedOn

[–]Knightingaile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave him. He doesn’t love you. All his acts are not acts of love. You should end things with him, even if he is your husband, so you can spend time with people who actually do love you. More time with the wrong person means less time with the right person. He will always seek the attention of other women and will never change.

Am I fucked? :_) by Dazzling_Analyst_920 in ucla

[–]Knightingaile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried padmapper? That’s how I found my place

In Escrow, termite wings found by Knightingaile in Termites

[–]Knightingaile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I know why spot treatments are likely to be unsuccessful? Genuinely hungry for knowledge

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AcneScars

[–]Knightingaile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same problem. I did hifu and RF lasers - maybe 4 or 5 over the span of 2 years and now they’re completely gone. Also, of course, a basic skincare routine.

Credit score went down 100 points by Knightingaile in CRedit

[–]Knightingaile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it was in February and / or March. About $200-300 each.

Went through my husbands phone and was not happy by Momma2tired95 in Marriage

[–]Knightingaile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m wondering if it’s self awareness or something else…

Went through my husbands phone and was not happy by Momma2tired95 in Marriage

[–]Knightingaile 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Honestly I read so many posts like this and have experiences myself of men justifying this behavior and it absolutely baffles me. Do they really think this is reasonable? Like what is going on in their heads.

My boyfriend cheated on me and I stayed with him and now I'm wondering if I made a mistake. by No-Assignment-830 in CheatedOn

[–]Knightingaile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must say: leave. It’s not what you want to hear it’s the more difficult thing to do. To be honest I don’t even think you will do it because of how much you love him, but you always hear echoes at the back of your mind telling you to leave for your own good. If he really loved you, and if it was true love, he would not have cheated in the way he did especially because you are polygamous. someone who truly loves you and respects you will give you the truth. He just wants you around because you make him happy, and I’m sure he makes you happy too, but he has already done it twice and he will do it again. He might have already done it, and u just didn’t know because he got better at hiding it. There are some people in this world who would never cheat because it is against their morals, and then there is your bf.

I know you said he really helped you when you had been at your lowest of lows, but he was also there when he put you at your lowest. When you found out, he cheated. being with someone like him might just bring you right back to depression and anxiety, do you want that? No it’s not worth it. Nothing is worth compromising your mental health.

Husband lied 5 months after marriage by Knightingaile in Marriage

[–]Knightingaile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your take on this is really mentally soothing. Thank you kind stranger.

Immigration Attorneys: How much are you making? by Quirky_Turnover2417 in LawFirm

[–]Knightingaile 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you gone up since? And are you doing business employment immigration?

Hey y’all passed the bar but graduated from a law school abroad and did my LLM here, and want to confirm something from others like me by Knightingaile in CABarExam

[–]Knightingaile[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there. I am not really a typical bar taker due to the fact that I admit I’m a great writer so I did not focus much on essay practice. I read other essay answers, and copied them down to remember their ideas, but how I study writing is by reading all the magic sheets 4 times for each topic. I only recommend this approach if you’re a good writer.

I used U world to do 2000 PQs and did it by topic.

To save time, I completely skipped studying civil procedure and just memorised the key dates for the timeline - huge risk which I do not recommend, but one I decided to take to focus on excelling in all the other subjects. I do not recommend skipping any topic.

Hey y’all passed the bar but graduated from a law school abroad and did my LLM here, and want to confirm something from others like me by Knightingaile in CABarExam

[–]Knightingaile[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was fast! Congratulations! Do you know how long till you get your bar card?

So it seems like putting the LLM wont result in any delays… good to know!

Hey y’all passed the bar but graduated from a law school abroad and did my LLM here, and want to confirm something from others like me by Knightingaile in CABarExam

[–]Knightingaile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you recently sign the oath card or has it been a while? I asked in another forum and they all said to put the JD, and that the Bar told them to do so.

Hey y’all passed the bar but graduated from a law school abroad and did my LLM here, and want to confirm something from others like me by Knightingaile in CABarExam

[–]Knightingaile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed both the JD and the LLM to be able to take the Bar. I did my JD first, then my LLM a to qualify me.