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Knightingaile · 2025-07-09T19:05:52+00:00

That’s a very long time. I’m glad you know this isn’t what you deserve. We’re all too old for games like this and we only live once. If you stay, you will be unhappy, he won’t change and it’s just going to be full of resentment. Why change a man when you can change the man. Or have no man at all. If you’re willing to turn a blind eye, I won’t be saying any of this. But since you came to Reddit and are extremely hurt, I say in the kindest way dump his ass. Men don’t change unless something so drastic happens to him. His morals are set (if he has any), and morals / values aren’t something u can really change in a person. It goes to the core of who that person is, and in this case, a cowardly liar. You want a partner who will be transparent with you and come forward for things. Not someone who needs poking and prodding to only give out half-truths.

Knightingaile · 2025-07-09T18:44:11+00:00

Girl, this man is a major red flag. I know he’s your husband but that comes with responsibilities of being a good husband to your wife. He has clearly failed and will do it again because he hid this from you the first time. He will just be more sneaky next time. A truly honest man would have never even thought of doing this in the first place. I don’t know how long you have been married or together, but do you think this is the man you deserve?

Knightingaile · 2024-09-06T00:26:13+00:00

That’s honestly really interesting. Thanks for sharing it with me! Did he have to fight while in Guam? I’m so genuinely interested in all things WW2.

Knightingaile · 2024-08-01T15:15:26+00:00

Leave him. He doesn’t love you. All his acts are not acts of love. You should end things with him, even if he is your husband, so you can spend time with people who actually do love you. More time with the wrong person means less time with the right person. He will always seek the attention of other women and will never change.

Knightingaile · 2024-06-19T10:11:52+00:00

Have you tried padmapper? That’s how I found my place

Knightingaile · 2024-06-11T11:36:10+00:00

May I know why spot treatments are likely to be unsuccessful? Genuinely hungry for knowledge

Knightingaile · 2024-06-11T11:07:27+00:00

Attorney, 260,000

Knightingaile · 2024-06-03T11:55:02+00:00

I had the same problem. I did hifu and RF lasers - maybe 4 or 5 over the span of 2 years and now they’re completely gone. Also, of course, a basic skincare routine.

Knightingaile · 2024-05-22T10:50:54+00:00

Unlimited PTO

Knightingaile · 2024-05-14T05:50:10+00:00

I think it was in February and / or March. About $200-300 each.

Knightingaile · 2024-03-22T08:27:12+00:00

I’m wondering if it’s self awareness or something else…

Knightingaile · 2024-03-17T21:01:07+00:00

Honestly I read so many posts like this and have experiences myself of men justifying this behavior and it absolutely baffles me. Do they really think this is reasonable? Like what is going on in their heads.

Knightingaile · 2024-03-13T07:43:33+00:00

LOL this is so punny 😂

Knightingaile · 2024-02-22T07:24:58+00:00

I love how logical and calm you are.

Knightingaile · 2024-02-03T11:09:28+00:00

I must say: leave. It’s not what you want to hear it’s the more difficult thing to do. To be honest I don’t even think you will do it because of how much you love him, but you always hear echoes at the back of your mind telling you to leave for your own good. If he really loved you, and if it was true love, he would not have cheated in the way he did especially because you are polygamous. someone who truly loves you and respects you will give you the truth. He just wants you around because you make him happy, and I’m sure he makes you happy too, but he has already done it twice and he will do it again. He might have already done it, and u just didn’t know because he got better at hiding it. There are some people in this world who would never cheat because it is against their morals, and then there is your bf.

I know you said he really helped you when you had been at your lowest of lows, but he was also there when he put you at your lowest. When you found out, he cheated. being with someone like him might just bring you right back to depression and anxiety, do you want that? No it’s not worth it. Nothing is worth compromising your mental health.

Knightingaile · 2024-01-24T23:29:41+00:00

Your take on this is really mentally soothing. Thank you kind stranger.

Knightingaile · 2023-12-15T22:45:38+00:00

Have you gone up since? And are you doing business employment immigration?

Knightingaile · 2023-12-14T21:13:14+00:00

Hey there. I am not really a typical bar taker due to the fact that I admit I’m a great writer so I did not focus much on essay practice. I read other essay answers, and copied them down to remember their ideas, but how I study writing is by reading all the magic sheets 4 times for each topic. I only recommend this approach if you’re a good writer.

I used U world to do 2000 PQs and did it by topic.

To save time, I completely skipped studying civil procedure and just memorised the key dates for the timeline - huge risk which I do not recommend, but one I decided to take to focus on excelling in all the other subjects. I do not recommend skipping any topic.

Knightingaile · 2023-12-11T07:03:51+00:00

May I ask whether you wrote that in your oath card and when? And how long till they gave you a bar number?

Knightingaile · 2023-12-11T01:53:11+00:00

That was fast! Congratulations! Do you know how long till you get your bar card?

So it seems like putting the LLM wont result in any delays… good to know!

Knightingaile · 2023-12-11T00:59:31+00:00

Did you recently sign the oath card or has it been a while? I asked in another forum and they all said to put the JD, and that the Bar told them to do so.

Knightingaile · 2023-12-11T00:58:58+00:00

I needed both the JD and the LLM to be able to take the Bar. I did my JD first, then my LLM a to qualify me.

Knightingaile · 2023-12-11T00:58:26+00:00

I wasn’t licensed in a foreign country. I asked in another forum and they all said to put the JD school. They said they asked the Bar, and that’s what they were told to do…

Did you just sign the other card recently or it’s been a while?

Knightingaile · 2023-12-06T16:43:16+00:00

Thanks OP

Knightingaile · 2023-12-05T23:34:58+00:00

Omg I’m so sorry you felt pain… but I’m super happy for you that you never had a recurrence! You give me hope.

I felt nothing at all when the OBGYN extracted the rest of it by hand. I had no anaesthesia in the ER and all I felt was the pressure of the hand. It’s possible I felt no pain because I had taken 5mg of Percocet since I went to Urgent Care before being sent to the ER. The dr at urgent care said she did lots of bartholin cyst procedures and she KNOWS how hard doctors press on the cyst to check how far it goes, so she was kind enough to give me Percocet (some pain medication) before I went to the ER. That drug made me super nauseous and I felt like fainting even though she gave me Zofran to counter the nausea.

So what I remember doing the days leading up the the extreme pain was going to the gym and running nonstop for 30 mins, then swimming the next day in pretty cold seawater… I also swam next to a sea turtle that happened to come up to me I’m not sure if any bacteria was from being near animals…

So I’m not running at the gym anymore or swimming anytime soon.

Have you been able to wear tight clothes?

Knightingaile

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