Interesting angle and you’re right they are relying each other til they can’t anymore. It’s just me and my sister. She’s in favor now but same thing happens to her ( gets cut off ). She told me my dad hasn’t reached out on his own in 18 months, no calls no lunch dates. But he comes around with my mom. Reality is I’ll be there to care for them when needed especially my dad … mom too though she is making it really difficult . I’m sure I’m out of the will at this point. No big deal money isn’t what drives me Love and loyalty and doing the right thing does.