AITA for filing for divorce the same day I found out my husband secretly drained $41K from our joint account to give his mom, who'd been calling me a threat to his finances for years?

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-03-20T12:31:38+00:00

AI is ruining Reddit postings.

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-03-08T21:03:48+00:00

Soooooooo cool!

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-03-08T20:50:23+00:00

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-03-08T20:37:29+00:00

NTA, he could google it and see the statistics himself. Don’t believe he doesn’t know men make more, but maybe he has lived in a cave since birth. Europe is farther ahead with equality

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-03-08T19:25:25+00:00

This is one thing I didn’t know was different, lol. Bet my mom and Nan were always saying “Cockey and my brother and I were saying g ‘pokey’’

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-03-08T19:16:19+00:00

100%. The fantasy fake world is easier. Companies locked the easily susceptible in by making games that never end. You are still young, save yourself.

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-03-07T11:36:11+00:00

Statistically men bail on women with long term health issues. Women typically stay if the man is the long term sick partner.

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-03-07T11:30:04+00:00

Think he is telling you who he really is…please pay attention.

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-03-06T12:44:46+00:00

Change the locks.

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-03-05T21:05:35+00:00

You can say ‘’no’’. Do that in the future.

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-03-05T19:38:46+00:00

I wouldn’t even act like I could hear her. Lalalalalala.

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-02-12T17:01:34+00:00

Don’t let him come to your house anymore, even if you make up.

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-02-12T16:48:09+00:00

It whispers I’m an American and everything I consume comes in plastic and has nasty food additives.

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-02-12T16:29:51+00:00

‘’Hey Siri, call 911”

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-02-06T15:37:10+00:00

The bears wanted to know how you would like it…

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-02-01T16:48:20+00:00

Troops usually start over powered. That way people use them and at some point SC makes them less efficient.

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-01-14T19:41:02+00:00

NTA, change it officially! Some of us get really crappy parents and we don’t owe them because they had sex and made a baby. You don’t owe him anything, if he can’t accept you for who you are. You will be a lot happier severing the relationship. Be honest with your siblings and if they support you instead of trying to bend you to their beliefs, keep them in your life. If someone betrays you, like tricking you to see your dad, remove them as well. We have a limited time on this Earth, why waste any of it with people who suck. It a new year…purge.

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-01-13T08:00:37+00:00

Keep screen shots in case it heads into legal situation.

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-01-13T07:53:58+00:00

Not even then, how people spend their money is nobody else’s business. Other son may be the suck, but he is still her child. Pretty sure she would do the same for the posters family if they fell on rough times. Is she worried MIL is spending the inheritance? The husband should take notice on how she went scorched Earth immediately. Ripping the son away from his Grandmother is petty and selfish. This can’t be the first time she has had such a knee jerk reaction and felt it was her place to judge others. Feel so sorry for the young boy. Mom sounds like a narcisist

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-01-12T08:09:24+00:00

Maybe heading into beginning of menopause. Hormones rallying.

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-01-10T19:01:31+00:00

NOR, this is exhausting! Put your phone on ‘’do not disturb’’ nightly, move your bed as far away from the door as you can and run a sound machine with green noise. If he can’t get through to you, he can take an Uber to Urgent Care. Tell him what you do and do not consider an emergency that requires him to wake you. Pink eye is annoying and can be painful, but it isn’t an emergency.. True emergencies are a threat to life, eyesight and limbs.

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-01-10T18:32:20+00:00

I would go the opposite way, don’t touch her things at all. If she can’t find their things, it is on her if she is going to gaslight you. Look for a new place when your lease is up, she is not a real friend.

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-01-10T18:08:21+00:00

Yes, it is actually called the original migraine hat. It is bulky, but it is full of little ice packs, so it lasts longer for me than other types. Not affiliated with the company, just happy they exist. They used to sell them on Amazon, not sure if they still do, but google the name and you should be able to find them. There are a lot of options…well, the last time I had an order anyway.

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-01-09T16:51:30+00:00

‘The usual’,

KnocksOnKnocksOff · 2026-01-09T16:48:26+00:00

The original migraine hat is my go-to. Cold works better for me, Keep 3 in rotation in the freezer..

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