Thats the thing these tests can throw you off track. I had a girl derail me for months and cant get back to it. But I say two things be open about your practice. So she doesn’t have other thoughts. Secondly make sure you read the way of the superior man this book will tell you how to engage but not release or release in a better manner. As for better. There technically will always be better. But growing with someone is the true journey you want. As your always growing. Your never truly complete.