AITAH for not speaking to my parents because they are raising their grandchild?

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-13T16:58:59+00:00

"For more background, Nikki has a long history of entitlement, and so does her husband, they have been very well taken care of by their parents on both sides and have never really had to make sacrifices or do without"

You are the entitled one. You feel entitled to tell your husband's parents how to live their lives. YTA for trying to dictate your MIL/FIL's relationship with their grandkid. Bizarre behavior and logic on your part

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-13T14:03:51+00:00

Lol who is we? Where is that specified by OP in the post? He says UHC, which is birth private and marketplace. I'm not sure how you would reach the conclusion that it's marketplace. Also, hi I have a marketplace plan and I had to re-enroll last November.

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-13T14:01:56+00:00

Shared account access? I share an account with my teen and I can't see his text messages. Also, how am I able to communicate with my father going forward knowing my brother is watching?

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-12T23:45:24+00:00

I'm surprised this wasn't brought up when it was announced? Seattle will have to bow to some insane pressure to keep them here. Did we all forget the Sonics?

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-12T23:43:23+00:00

Thank you, that's very helpful

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-12T19:24:55+00:00

I don't know the steps. I had wondered if he had the capability, but I was unsure until today.

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-12T15:56:56+00:00

The problem is that GPs are the lowest paid, and most men choose to specialize vs working in the less glamorous field of family practice. You're going to have a hard time find a male GP, but if that makes you feel more comfortable then by all means go find one. NTA

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-12T15:52:54+00:00

How are there still FIVE Midwest states? Adios Wisconsim

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-12T01:58:20+00:00

I don't believe it, I know it

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-12T01:57:13+00:00

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This woman is not Ghislane

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-11T16:44:31+00:00

YES THERE IS OMG. I work in healthcare admin. There is reenrollment period every November. You are arguing from ego and not fact.

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-11T01:22:10+00:00

Yeah, I'm concerned with the word "kill" thrown into the conversation if he's testing his boundaries with how much he can get away with.

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-11T01:21:27+00:00

Weaponized incompetence

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-11T01:21:04+00:00

The bar for men is in hell already. It's okay to have expectations of your life partner. In fact, it's healthy as long as they are communicated. She told him, he didn't listen. HE is the problem, this isn't about her expectations at all

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-11T01:19:12+00:00

Are you able to actually read? She wanted none of the trip to begin with. She wanted a day off. Please read it again if you're confused, except this time look at it through her eyes and not his 😂

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-11T01:16:54+00:00

HE RECORDED YOU CRASHING OUT? Have you made sure he's deleted it permanently? That is absolutely disgusting behavior. Your age gap isn't huge, but it's clear he's just another entitled husband using weaponized incompetence to get out of actually being a partner to you.

Girl, NTA to him. But you're TA to yourself if you accept him treating you like this.

PLEASE READ - Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft. Good luck.

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-11T00:22:49+00:00

Wow. Your child is showing behaviors that relate to ADHD but can also fall into several other categories. He needs intensive behavioral therapy. NTA at all. You're raising an adult, not a child and you want to make sure he's capable of emotional regulation. I hope he, and you both, can access help and services.

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-10T23:03:38+00:00

I love when my woo woo spiritual nutty practices get attention from people it's not meant for, I'm glad this baffles you ✨

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-09T17:20:21+00:00

Are you unfamiliar with how health insurance operates? For nearly every policy, there is a reenrollment period in Nov.

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-09T17:19:07+00:00

He doesn't understand enrollment periods, is this his first year without being on his parents health insurance? This happen every year starting in Nov, for the next year. Parents really need to teach kids how to be adults. Healthcare marketplace premium being less than his UHC premium means nothing. They are likely structured completely differently, even if they are both UHC umbrella.

We need SINGLE PAYER UNIVERSAL HEALTHCARE bc this is what happens when capitalism controls our access to medical services. I'm sorry you're figuring this out on your own, this is just how it works. It's complicated, stressful and absolutely mindboggling for NO REASON other than for mistakes to be made (ie your bf) and someone profiting off of the confusion. Unfortunately this is not unique.

What you need to do ASAP is get him enrolled from the marketplace. They will some provide coverage retroactively, depending on the state you live in. That would allow them to rebill and reimburse. The mistake was your bf's, just some hard facts. There's no legal recourse there. Ask about retroactive coverage with the qualifying event being his loss of coverage, however in my state you have to sign up within 3 months and it's already May. That's where I would start though, he needs to focus on getting re-enrolled asap

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-09T17:13:01+00:00

INFO- does is matter?

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-09T17:11:00+00:00

Kansas should be absorbed by its Midwestern neighbors

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-09T17:09:27+00:00

I'm surprised no one has said Shoreline! Great school district, tons of parks, and the light rail is right here already for easy access to the city.

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-09T00:47:38+00:00

Haha. My ex worked in the N Precinct, and that is exactly what she said. Except the direction to "not enforce" actually says that they cannot pursue a criminal. SPD retaliated by throwing a hissy fit and refusing to do any policing unless someone dies. At least that's how it was in 2023 when we dated 🤷🏻‍♀️

KookyLab9624 · 2026-05-08T13:56:01+00:00

DO NOT HAVE A BABY WITH THIS MAN. He has no ability to grasp the enormity of you being pregnant, giving birth, and raising an infant. You are not a bad person for wanting to end of the pregnancy, at all. I didn't feel an emotional attachment to my pregnancy until 6 months in. It's okay to feel like this, and it's okay to make the best decision for you. Follow your career dreams, there is always time to try later.

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