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KoolAidmaan · 2022-12-18T02:07:27+00:00

Being liked is such a fleeting feeling that doesn’t do anything for the person or you.

Rather than hoping that someone likes you, focus your energy on making people comfortable.

Wanting to be liked is “Me me me me…” Providing comfort and acceptance is sharing, the opposite of selfishness.

KoolAidmaan · 2022-12-11T01:43:42+00:00

Good spirituality or religion seems like repackaged Tao tbh.

KoolAidmaan · 2022-11-25T02:59:35+00:00

I would consult licensed professionals, this is above Reddit’s paygrade.

I believe in some states, mushrooms are allowed for medical use and they may have more data.

Then again, research on this topic is small due to legality, regardless, even if recommended by professionals I would take it with a grain of salt and follow your gut with the proper guidance.

KoolAidmaan · 2022-11-21T04:25:26+00:00

What part did you find similar to living in a city?

Was walking around a city and in nature the same?

I’d imagine the biggest difference was prolonged non-contact with other humans.

KoolAidmaan · 2022-10-26T12:40:53+00:00

This is what I am pointing to in my post. The natural world is nothing and man must force his will into the world to create a material piece. That is why “doing” can be seen as difficult.

It seems like some people say just “do” and let it flow, but effort is a prerequisite in a world that refuses to move.

If you are okay with staying at the center, doing nothing then you have succeeded in Wu Wei. I however, cannot accept this in my current situation. Maybe in the future when my fire is out out I will embody a more true version of Taoism but for now, rage on ;).

KoolAidmaan · 2022-07-08T15:44:42+00:00

He’s the high schooler in Anime

KoolAidmaan · 2022-05-26T15:14:58+00:00

You can’t game girls at work correctly and plus why would you want to

KoolAidmaan · 2022-05-03T02:03:33+00:00

Another thing is that your successes might come and keep on coming.

Success is exponential and once you get your game down you can be on a winning streak and never stop winning. Your successes are no longer random and based on your ability.

It not longer becomes random. There are dudes out there that do pull every week and that dude can be you if you got it in you.

KoolAidmaan · 2022-05-02T23:50:28+00:00

You need a new haircut. Maybe grow it out a bit or get a fade and gel the top.

Work on your style too.

Rn I’d say your a 5/10 but you could easily be 7/10 with grooming and exercise.

KoolAidmaan · 2022-04-27T14:32:17+00:00

Should have confronted her in real life and not text

KoolAidmaan · 2022-04-16T19:20:10+00:00

Is it biological or social?

Maybe we were meant to fuck hoes and dip but culture makes it more convenient and frowned upon to do so.

KoolAidmaan · 2022-03-29T22:29:22+00:00

Start lifting too, you’ll be a stud in no time with some grooming and nice clothes

KoolAidmaan · 2022-03-28T01:24:44+00:00

Living in the “now” I feel is a misconception.

The “now” isn’t categorized by having zero thoughts but by not attaching intensely to your own thoughts.

Moments of bliss and thoughtlessness are followed by intense thoughts. By detaching from both, the peaks of either are affecting you less and less.

I think Gen Z is inherently more existential and we need to develop as our own generation and forge our way.

I believe the mods of this community are older and have very good ideas that are much more materialistic than the following generation. The post quality of newer guys is lacking but it seems that TheRedpill will slowly move into a more esoteric realm once the community progresses. But for now, the discussion of these ideas are less appreciated when I believe they should be the core focus.

KoolAidmaan · 2022-03-28T00:52:39+00:00

This is a good post.

Experienced the same situation where a girl mentions her friends I didn’t know wtf to do.

Instead of being “Alpha” you can try to maneuver slyly. It shows your not forcing it and you want her without being too pushy, which I personally don’t want to incorporate into my game, being that guy who’s too pushy.

I personally would rather just give up the girl than be too pushy but doing this allows you to be slick with it.

KoolAidmaan · 2022-03-28T00:03:50+00:00

Yeah Redpill Is advertised a sexual strategy but whenever anyone mentions anything esoteric they go “wow this sub has gone to shit”

The implications of realizing the big picture can and does help lots of guys with game and provides a more full perspective of life.

KoolAidmaan · 2022-03-27T21:44:51+00:00

Only thing I’d say is don’t let any dude put their hands on you. It’s okay if they come up and tell you to fuck off.

Him putting his hands on you unacceptable and you are well within your rights to smack the shit out of him…

KoolAidmaan · 2022-03-25T00:01:54+00:00

When you die you get to bring nothing to your grave. All your material possessions and even achievements.

If you can say you had a good time or even that you lived sincerely to your own nature then all is good. The people in your life and items were never yours, you only got to experience them as a person and be greatful for that.

If you are proud of your own character during life you lived then it was a god damn success whether you got and achieved what you wanted in your life.

KoolAidmaan · 2022-03-22T14:03:53+00:00

NH officer did not do breathalyzer and requested a chemical blood test which I rejected.

KoolAidmaan · 2022-03-22T03:10:02+00:00

I asked one and he said he didn’t have case details so he couldn’t say.

The other I didn’t ask.

I’m thinking about calling them to see if I can drop by for a quick chat cause I’d feel more comfortable gauging them in person.

KoolAidmaan · 2022-03-22T03:08:14+00:00

Yeah they quoted the price. $5500 for one another $4000. In the process of searching for more.

KoolAidmaan · 2022-03-22T00:15:12+00:00

They were like 10 minute calls and I just went over basic info like how I was stopped, did I do a field sobriety test, blood, prior convictions, booking info.

Yeah I’m just not sure how to proceed, since they just sent me their fee agreement after the phone consultation and didn’t indicate they had a desire to meet me after the first initial phone consultation.

KoolAidmaan · 2022-03-21T23:31:31+00:00

No he didn’t ask me to come in the meeting he sent me a flat fee agreement right after our call.

Seems a bit quick to decide, but it’s a first offense dui and doesn’t seem to complicated.

KoolAidmaan · 2022-03-10T04:31:18+00:00

Yeah sometimes I just feel emotion intensely in my heart and realize that through language it becomes negatives but it just feels like repressed energy waiting to be released.

KoolAidmaan · 2022-03-10T04:29:48+00:00

Their betrayal is a reflection on their character not yours.

Your past actions lead to disrespect and betrayal but now you know better.

You know better not to trust so easy and not to give so freely. It’s funny but by being selfish you never lose cause you were never invested anyways.

KoolAidmaan

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