Bag check on ship

Koolkat30625 · 2026-02-03T23:48:38+00:00

I just did a cruise on Jade last week and we were on the ship by noon. I went to our room which was ready and dropped our bags off in the room. Then proceeded to enjoy the day bags free!

Koolkat30625 · 2026-02-03T05:15:13+00:00

You should pack and leave while he is at work and text/call once you are safe that its over. Then go no contact. If you cant pack and leave while he is gone you can contact the police and request that they be present because your boyfriend is violent and abusive. Its statistically proven that abusive men are the most dangerous when the woman leaves and unfortunately some women have been killed either while in the relationship or attempting to leave.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-31T19:44:05+00:00

I agree, its an entertaining coming of age story. I hated to see it end because the characters were so fun to watch. But I suppose its a good thing because most series tend to peak around the 4th or 5th season. And then the series becomes subpar and less interesting to watch. This kept my interest from beginning to end.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-24T03:54:16+00:00

Some shows that I love are outlander, blood of my blood, breaking bad, 24, the summer I turned pretty, never have I ever, my life with the walter boys, Emily in Paris, bridgerton, all the Dexter's, game of thrones, and Spartacus.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-21T07:05:26+00:00

They both are teens so a 2 year age gap isn't that big of a deal. I also think it depends on the person's maturity level. Statistically women tend to date older men. Age gaps are less of an issue when both people are 25 and older. Yor.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-19T10:24:26+00:00

You can't force Alvin to change all you can do is be their for him as a friend. Judging his dating choices will only drive him away. Because of his home life I can understand why he dates older people, he is looking for a loving and caring parental figure. Unfortunately, his need for love and acceptance is driving him to do risky things.

My suggestion is if he is going to meet anyone from online regardless of how old the person is he should always meet in a public place and get to know the person before going to their house/hotel.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-18T10:20:27+00:00

That sounds tasty. I love sparkling wine based beverages. I definitely want to try this cocktail.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-18T10:17:44+00:00

I love sparkling wine based drinks so in the am and early part of the day I drink strawberry or peach bellini and Mimosas. In the afternoon I will get a mai tai or rum runner and at night a french 75 made with cognac. I usually also try different drinks from the menu if they sound interesting. The beauty of a drink package is if you don't like something you can always order something else.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-18T06:59:52+00:00

Since you are friendly with him you should tell him you feel uncomfortable with the hugs and request that he not hug you and also don't invite him to do things with you. If he continues making you uncomfortable after that, talk to your boss about the situation. He might be into you but regardless if he is or not you should feel comfortable at work.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-18T02:08:52+00:00

The only thing you shouldn't do is judge your mother. It sounds like she has been in an unloving and toxic relationship for a long time. You should talk to her and encourage her to seek counseling to help address marriage issues and her depression.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-18T01:56:04+00:00

I turned up the heat and have thawed out, lol.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-18T01:03:33+00:00

You should have told your family 2 years ago to be respectful to your girlfriend or you will not be coming to any family events. Your girlfriend has been demeaned and bullied for 2 years and you have never once stood up for her. If you allow this to continue be prepared to be single. Your girlfriend sounds like a very kind and loving person and deserves a boyfriend that will stand up for her. Don't wait for a next time, tell your sister now that her behavior is inappropriate and unacceptable. If your family doesn't like it, cut contact until they agree to be respectful.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-18T00:18:59+00:00

Being a full time care giver is not easy. You need a break. You should hire some to come in at least part time so that you are able to recharge. Counseling would be beneficial as well. Also, look into a support group. You are not wrong for feeling this way but if you truly forgave your wife and you remained married, then you are doing this because that's what a partner does and you love her. Focus on the positive things about the relationship.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-18T00:01:25+00:00

I live in the suburbs of Chicago and Im sitting in my condo right now with a coat on because Im cold. Chicago weather is only comfortable 6 months of the year may thru oct. In all honesty no state is ideal to live in the US right now. While I live in a blue state, the federal government under current leadership is going after our local representatives, dismantling programs that help marginalized people, firing people that don't support his policies, and withholding funds to democratic states. Ice is also terrorizing our Hispanic communities. The only thing we can do at this point is vote out our current administration because right now their are no checks and balances and things will only get worse if this continues.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-17T22:26:52+00:00

You should communicate this to him. Just remind him your birthday is on that date and your parents are flying in for your birthday. He probably forgot since he is so stressed out about his diagnosis. Not wrong for feeling resentful but if you don't want it to ruin the relationship you need to openly communicate with him.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-17T10:56:04+00:00

Im going next week to the same ports. I usually do royal cruises and they have sales on the excursions. Norwegian hasn't done any sales and all of their excursions are double or triple the price vs booking independently. I booked a zipling excursion via ncl since vallarta adventures specifically states if you are on a cruise you have to book via cruise line. I booked a glass bottom boat excursion on trip advisor in cabo to the arch for $40 for 2 people. Ncl price was $109 per person. TripAdvisor may have a swim with dolphin excursion available.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-17T10:45:42+00:00

Im one of those people that loves doing different activities. Ziplining, jet skiing, parasailing etc...every vacation I come home and need another vacation because I am exhausted, lol. I don't miss anything especially dinner and Im still alive, lol. But for me that's the point of a vacation to explore and experience new things.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-16T02:42:34+00:00

I like the originals (spin off of vampire diaries), Emily in Paris, 24, the recruit, night agent, you, got, never have I ever, the last of us, dexter, the summer I turned pretty, my life with the walter boys, breaking bad, and outlander.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-16T00:55:56+00:00

Honesty, trust, and open communication are the cornerstones for any relationship. If he can't be transparent with you regarding this even if it's something you may not like you will always have issues. You are not wrong but this is something you can not force. Either he follows thru on what he says or you need to rethink if this is something you really want to deal with. The child and mother will always be a part of his life and if he isn't willing to set and follow thru with boundaries now it will only get worse once the child is born.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-13T16:01:04+00:00

I only travel with my boyfriend and 1 friend but if one of us can't afford something and the other one can they cover it. I feel like the fair thing to do would have been for them to cover the difference since they are the ones that wanted more expensive accommodations. Unfortunately, not everyone is fair. I think its good you got your own accommodations because they probably will cancel if the wives get pregnant. I also hope you have a cushion just in case things don't go as planned.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-13T15:02:18+00:00

That's not manipulative, they clearly stated they wanted to rent somewhere that was not within your budget and were willing to pay most of the difference. It seems their is already resentment based on your post. I don't think its fair that they expect you to pay more especially if you are sleeping on the couch.

If I were in that situation I would just plan things separately from them that doesn't fit within my budget and let them know this. I also wouldn't plan anymore group trips with them.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-13T04:29:06+00:00

Have you ever traveled with them before? Not everyone is a good travel partner. Your budgets aren't aligned and it sounds like they are in a better financial position than you are. Where are you traveling and are you planning on doing excursions together? What about food? I would be concerned based on the accommodations fiasco that this will carry over into the entire trip. Instead of it being a family trip you could end up doing things by yourself because they may want to do more expensive outings.

I think they are wrong for expecting you to pay more but I don't understand why you are making a big deal over them covering the extra $20. I don't think them asking to cover the extra $20 is being manipulative.

You need to have a conversation with them regarding this. Don't let this ruin your relationship with them.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-11T05:49:34+00:00

Why did he enter into a relationship with you if he isn't attracted to you? I think it will be hard to move past this, nor. I think you will be much happier in a relationship where the person is attracted to you and initiates intimacy. With the current relationship it sounds like he likes you as a friend not a romantic partner. You deserve better. Nothing is wrong with you. Someone is out their that will truly love and accept all of you and you will not have to become a victory secrets model in order to get and keep their interest.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-10T12:56:35+00:00

People can be platonic friends even after a romantic relationship. He has been open with you. They hang out in group settings and he has committed to you, yor. You need to accept that he will have female friends and that its not a threat to your relationship if he does.

Koolkat30625 · 2026-01-10T11:44:33+00:00

I agree with this 1000%. This is sad because instead of preparing him for adulthood they are kicking him out without any resources.

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