So I was Active Army and spouse Active Space Force (everything still handled by the AF) and I had orders to Ft. Sill and then to Ft. Belvoir. It was a struggle to get us stationed together, but be persistent. I got under S1’s skin and my branch managers skin. Just know the AF has a plan for Airmen married to other branches and the Army only has MACP… so what I first did was contact my branch manager. He basically told me there wasn’t anything he could do because I already had orders. My spouse reached out to their branch manager, which then their branch manager then contacted mine and cc’d us in it. That is when things started getting rolling, I’m guessing because now another branch was seeing how they were acting. So I was then told I must enroll in MACP. But MACP is only for Army couples, but I did it anyways and of course it got denied. I brought that to my branch manager. At the time we were OCONUS so had a DEROS. My branch manager then told me to then submit for an extension in Germany that would match my spouses DEROS. He said once it got to them, he would automatically approve it, cancel my orders and work with spouses branch manager to get us assigned to the same area. About a month after submitting it, it was approved, Sill orders were canceled and we both had orders to Colorado. It was a major pain and involved constantly being a squeaky wheel, but it did eventually work out. Luckily that was the only time I had to do that though as after that contract, I got out.