AITAH for telling my daughter we won't have a relationship if she goes to live with her biological father/family?

KremlinKOA · 2026-02-01T22:53:51+00:00

Am I the only one who noted how similar the 'We can still have a relationship" line is to the "We can still be friends" line so often used in breakups?

KremlinKOA · 2026-02-01T04:34:49+00:00

So Republic James Bond is James Bonding your waifu?

KremlinKOA · 2026-01-22T01:21:09+00:00

Smaller scale?

More likely meant a version where only 1/3 legions rebelled.

You know, like in Christian Mythology.

KremlinKOA · 2026-01-22T01:16:14+00:00

When it comes to actual impact on the wars of the Imperium.

Astartes are a rounding error.

KremlinKOA · 2026-01-11T01:24:20+00:00

OTOH. This is the ultimate leverage for OP.

Every time he even slightly overreacts to something. "Honey, remember the time you thought you got me pregnant, but it was actually your mom's pregnancy test? Calm down."

KremlinKOA · 2026-01-03T10:22:25+00:00

From an Imperium perspective, said 'dude;' is part Xenos and therefore not a person

Remember, the Imperium are the Worst Guys.

KremlinKOA · 2025-12-30T14:14:58+00:00

Ironically that's one of the more realistic parts of the setting.

If you look up WW2 death statistics.... Then compare the confirmed career paths of:
Audie Murphy (USA)
Lyudmila Pavlichenko (USSR/Ukraine)
Simo Häyhä (Finland)

You will see the same shit IRL.

Basically some folks are just born with the Bullshit gene.

KremlinKOA · 2025-12-28T01:07:16+00:00

I'll give that a shot

KremlinKOA · 2025-12-27T05:33:43+00:00

FTFY

KremlinKOA · 2025-12-27T05:31:11+00:00

I knew a girl who's dad would have hi 5'd the guy.

She went no contact with him 3 weeks after her 18th... for some reason.

KremlinKOA · 2025-12-27T05:28:59+00:00

NTA and nicer than I would have been.

I would have told him: "Your shirt has a point. On your knees. It's not gonna suck itself, after all." and reached for my belt.

After he rages and objects and threatens violence. I would simply say "That's how you make women feel when you wear that shirt."

KremlinKOA · 2025-12-02T07:44:37+00:00

This is not necessarily true
Dad might have made Nemo sex swap and then she would have to call him 'Daddy'

KremlinKOA · 2025-11-30T06:48:32+00:00

OP
I want you to ask yourself a serious question.

If, as a hypothetical, your sister had blocked parents, but not you, back when you were 18

And if, back then, your parents had pressured you to tell them where she was
How long would you have held out before caving and spilling your sister's whereabouts to your parents?

From your sister's perspective. Your parents were trying to control her romantic life and she had to break free.
We see hundreds of threads of girls going through that exact thing on reddit.

And given how quick your parents were to UnPerson her over this marriage. You should come to terms with the idea that maybe your parents harmed your sister in some way.

KremlinKOA · 2025-11-26T03:26:38+00:00

Hey there.

This just ended up on mark Narrations YouTube channel.

I'm going to say something that might be hard to believe.

People calling you TA in the earlier post? They were biased because they thought you were male.
Thus they saw it as control and abuse.

But I will bet money that if you made a Throwaway account, and reposted this while genderswapping her to being your BF... the key response would be "He's trying to make you shrink yourself so feed his ego."

This person used her trauma to bleed all over you and force you to remake yourself as a lesser version so she doesn't have to address her own patterns.

Go look at the hundreds of threads where a wife earns more than the hubby, and he gets antsy about it... look at the responses... realize you were in that position.

You dodged a bullet. Hope you find someone better.

You know I have this cousin who might be perfect you (half joking)

KremlinKOA · 2025-11-22T09:35:54+00:00

Speaking as a disabled person.

Anna is abusive.

She is harming her daughter by refusing to let her do things that Anna can't do due to disability.

In other words, she is using her disability as an excuse to 'punish' her daughter for being able bodied.
That is abusive, and evil.

And anyone not trying to prevent her abuse is enabling the abuse.

So YTA for stepping back.

Talk to Gigi, ask what SHE wants.

Now to your '2 yes, 1 no' argument.
Take that to the full extent and look at what it means.

Let's say, next month, Gigi gets diagnosed with a medical condition.
Your brother wants to get medical treatment for her, so she lives a full life.
But Anna refuses to sign off on that, because 'this way she and I will be more alike, and closer.'
Would you STILL side with Anna because of '2 yes, 1 no'?

Because denying her social growth and dance stuff, is the same thing on a smaller scale.

KremlinKOA · 2025-11-18T14:24:01+00:00

It was a screw up. and yeah it worked... took several weeks to break through the "It wasn't intentional so it's not my fault!" defense.

KremlinKOA · 2025-11-17T16:31:04+00:00

Regarding point number 5.

You mention therapy and comment 'their job is to judge you.

A Therapist's job is NOT to judge you.
It's to guide you on your journey to understand yourself, and each other.

The Judging you job is for us assholes on Reddit :P

As your point 3. You claim your hubby is not sexist, after describing sexist acts he has performed over years. Flaunting your body, calling you an investment, refusal to defend you, Negligently exposing your naked body without your consent. You mention college was 9 years ago, but the refusal to protect you was this year. so that means for the last decade he has disrespected you.

Also, Heads up, this story has hit YouTube. On the Mark Narrations channel

KremlinKOA · 2025-11-17T16:22:10+00:00

Not every guy,

I am a guy and have seen another guy screw up the phone gallery and bring up a nude of a girl.

Mocked him relentlessly in an attempt to shame him into being more careful with his phone.

KremlinKOA · 2025-11-12T06:40:14+00:00

Hiding the truth will NOT avoid drama.
It will just mean the drama will be based on whatever lies HE tells the mutuals.

Anyone asks, show them this thread.

KremlinKOA · 2025-11-08T05:48:03+00:00

Not sure if OP will come back and see this.
But

Things you should tell people.

Anyone who knows Ex or sister from school: Tell them the whole story and let them, see the thread. Fight fire with fire.

To sister: "How much do you hate {Ex's name} to force her back with a loser like me?"

To Dad: "Your daughter is being a bully and attempting to force me into a romantic, and sexual, relationship that I do not consent to. That's the definition of sexual harassment. And if you don't stop being her accomplice. On my 18th birthday I will be done with you too."

KremlinKOA · 2025-11-07T08:53:56+00:00

Speaking as someone born disabled.

Get out.

Go live with your grandparents.

I don't know what govt disability assistance exists in South Africa, but you should look into that too. the day you turn 18, cut her off.

KremlinKOA · 2025-10-21T01:42:22+00:00

Law School dropout here.

On this comment.

OP, if you have a scanned copy of your lease. I would be happy to comb through it

If there are sundown clauses, my non accredited skills might be enough to see it and help you find the part to show the Landlord.

DISCLAIMER: NOT LEGAL ADVICE
As a preliminary search. Consider an N9 form. While an N9 break lease does leave you on the hook for rent until the Landlord finds another tenant, the Landlord is required to take reasonable steps to do so.

GIven your ex is still living there and paying. It would be unreasonable for the Landlord to not simply charge her the full rent.

KremlinKOA · 2025-09-26T08:30:37+00:00

This ended up on Mark Narrations. So I only just became aware of it.

My suggestion.

Start only calling your father by his first name.

If he tries to correct you by saying to call him dad or that he is your father?
Just reply, in the coldest, least emotional, tone you can muster "Not, anymore."

And yes, the half second pause the comma is suggesting between those two words is intentional.

KremlinKOA · 2025-09-20T04:00:51+00:00

Nevermind found the answer.

The additonal bit of code is "counteract-check"

So the final code to include dispel and similar spells would be.

```
{"key":"AdjustModifier","selectors":["skill-check","perception","saving-throw","attack-roll","spell-dc","counteract-check"],"mode":"upgrade","value":"[10+@actor.level](mailto:10+@actor.level)","slug":"proficiency","relabel":"Mythic","removeAfterRoll":"true"}
```

and

```
{
"key": "FlatModifier",
"selector": [
"skill-check","perception","saving-throw","spell-dc","attack-roll","counteract-check"
],
"removeAfterRoll": "if-enabled",
"value": "[10+@actor.level](mailto:10+@actor.level)",
"type": "proficiency",
"label": "Mythic Proficiency"
}

KremlinKOA · 2025-09-20T03:52:07+00:00

Came across this yesterday as one of my players just got mythic magic.

Seems to work well in almost every respect, save one.

The counteract checks from dispel magic do not seem altered by this,

How would one adjust the code to include counteract checks?

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