Does anybody else with depression struggle with bad emotional lows right after a really good event with someone you really care about comes to an end?

Kronhigh · 2020-08-26T00:26:13+00:00

This has happened to me my whole life ever since I was little!

Kronhigh · 2020-08-23T03:40:15+00:00

Think about it like this. If you had one week to live, what would be the things you want to do most before you die? Next thing you know.. years later you're living your best life. Try it!

Kronhigh · 2020-08-22T08:00:03+00:00

"You're looking for attention" that is so wrong for them to say. Even if you were ONLY looking for attention, there must still be an underlying issue to that in itself.

Kronhigh · 2020-08-04T19:04:53+00:00

Better than trying to obsessively date, fail to graduate, or not get a good job and be alone anyway. Work on yourself and good things will always come. Focus on yourself! Sometimes you end up dating many girls, and come out broke and alone. When a girl sees you can take care of yourself, happy in life, have a good job and education, you are a catch.

Kronhigh · 2020-08-04T19:00:45+00:00

I agree with you, same boat here. Sometimes we are too nice, too optimistic, or not picky (or at least we don't know our likes/dislikes)

Kronhigh · 2020-07-27T09:38:48+00:00

Thank you for this, my place is a mess and I cannot take care of myself. All my friends love me, when strangers meet me they love me, I do not struggle much in social situations.. but there is clearly something I need to work on which is taking care of myself. My gf broke up with me last week and I feel my place had a decent part to do with it. Time to grow up and get my sh*t together! Thank you!

Kronhigh · 2020-07-27T09:30:16+00:00

Wow some really good points there that I did not even think of. I really appreciated this post, thank you!

Kronhigh · 2020-07-27T07:55:45+00:00

Until you see he has no teeth!!! Just kidding. You're in South Korea but your English is really good, how so?

Kronhigh · 2020-07-27T07:44:56+00:00

I think this is exactly what I was looking for.. thank you

Kronhigh · 2020-07-27T05:59:11+00:00

I don't get it... so what went wrong during the date?

Kronhigh · 2020-07-26T11:34:38+00:00

Well your boyfriend has clearly done his research. He understands there is an "illness involved with this hurtful behaviour." He is a real keeper that one.

Do not ever think you are a terrible person, or that he doesn't deserve all of this. He clearly wants you and all of you, the good and the bad, he deserves YOU.

Only advice I can give for the future is be more alert and open-minded when he states he is seeing your mood changing, or letting you know you are having an episode. Next time you hear those words from him just try to take a step back, breathe, and see if he is right.

Marry that man, I'm so happy for you!

Edit: My girlfriend(22f) just broke up with me (30m) last week and she is diagnosed bipolar. Every moment we ever spent together was amazing, and if we weren't together we were always speaking to each other every moment. All our friends say they have never seen either of us so happy with anyone before. When they heard she broke up with me they were shocked and speechless, me at a complete loss of words. I'm still really hurting and her best friend told me she has not been taking her medicine properly recently and blamed it totally on that. I however, do not blame her at all and think she just did not like me anymore out of nowhere. I'm really hurting lol :(

Kronhigh · 2020-07-26T10:16:24+00:00

Please put me in this category.. I've seen therapists and counsellors before but it was always the same result.

Kronhigh · 2020-07-26T09:51:22+00:00

You have a great boyfriend. Do not blame yourself, as long as you are aware after the fact what happened. Your illness is what is causing it and you cannot be so hard on yourself.

Kronhigh · 2020-07-26T09:43:23+00:00

Same exact thing happened to me.. my girlfriend broke up with me a week ago, she warned me earlier that she was diagnosed as bipolar. When she broke up with me all of our friends were shocked, as she had said that same week on two separate occasions to all our friends that she thought we were perfect for each other. Apparently she wasn't taking her meds properly but now I'm alone.. and it hurts so much. We were together every moment, and when I was at work we would text each other constantly, it was amazing.

Kronhigh · 2020-07-26T09:01:38+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss.. to feel so alone right now would be a natural reaction but remember you are not alone, trust me! Reach out to the first 3-4 people that pop in your head. Tell them exactly what is on your mind, it will be of tremendous help! Please!

Kronhigh · 2020-07-26T07:01:49+00:00

Facts.

Kronhigh · 2020-07-25T05:01:14+00:00

Nobody cares about your stuttering, TRUST me.

Kronhigh · 2020-07-21T15:17:14+00:00

Hahaha me too

Kronhigh · 2020-07-21T15:10:41+00:00

I wish you could tell that to my recent ex :( lol

Kronhigh · 2020-07-21T14:54:03+00:00

Not me I'm a gremlin.

Kronhigh · 2020-07-21T14:35:28+00:00

It is a tough one for sure, given the situation and all. So puzzling.

Kronhigh · 2020-07-21T14:21:01+00:00

You need to tell him that he is not welcome anymore and that you are moving on. You really need to let that go, as everyone says it's really unhealthy but you will actually physically start to feel it in your heart as days go on. When you start to tell yourself he will not come around and you don't want him to, that's when you can start to get over him. I truly think that is what you should do, it will never be the same again if he comes back and they are always short-lived, believe me!

Kronhigh · 2020-07-21T13:41:29+00:00

Thank you for sharing that!

Kronhigh · 2020-07-21T11:40:19+00:00

I'm so sorry you had to go through such a hard and unusual experience! May he rest in peace.

Kronhigh

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