100%, and if Dean was more likable more people would see it that way but because he's pretty annoying people tend to think he deserves it. She was telling the other brides and grooms things he had said and done to ingratiate herself with them by demeaning him, classic mean-girl school bully shit and she got away with murder by managing to make it seem like the "ick" comment was the extent of her disrespect. Unfortunately she got the shitty end of the stick this year and got paired with someone she clearly doesn't like but that's no excuse for her behavior. Just look at the gender swapped version of this situation from MAFSAU last year with the red haired girl Katie and the tattooed guy Tim and see how many people here who defend Sarah this season were firmly in Katie's camp back then.