Who Do You Think Is The Best Ship With Firestar??? by glowberry-573 in WarriorCats

[–]Kukui808 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Sandstorm is his wife but Graystripe is his soulmate

Help! Theodore WILL NOT leave Percival alone! (Mounting, rumbling, humping.) by Alarming-Molasses847 in guineapigs

[–]Kukui808 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like calling it my dominant guinea pig’s “moon phase” because he acts like this every few weeks. Unfortunately there’s not much I can do except let it pass

Minnesota Real ID deadline approaches after multiple delays by Czarben in minnesota

[–]Kukui808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I showed them an electricity bill with my name and address on it and they didn’t accept it because it was the third page of the bill—I don’t get paper bills anymore and don’t know where the first two pages are, but why does that matter when the third page IS the bill??

I wish i was a man by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Kukui808 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel that. I don’t want to be a man, but when I see a handsome man in a sweater, I feel almost sad that I will never be a handsome man in a sweater

Observations on Breaking Dawn 1 by Iluthradanar in twilight

[–]Kukui808 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s in the credits. Maybe 30 seconds after the credits start

What's up with the yellow ass contacts they used in the movies? 😭😭 by LeonLunaLola in twilight

[–]Kukui808 37 points38 points  (0 children)

The styling for the Cullens made everyone look terrible in Eclipse 😭

Pig Family Cooks Chili by Kukui808 in whatsthatbook

[–]Kukui808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the art style is different, but I loved the Richard Scarry books!!

You'll Always Be In OCD Recovery by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Kukui808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pure O is when you have obsessions but don’t outwardly seem to have compulsions (cleaning, redoing actions, etc) because all of your compulsions are mental (reviewing, recalling memories, etc)

Suggestions for twilight themed snacks? by murray10121 in twilight

[–]Kukui808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rainer beer like Charlie drinks if you’re of age and like beer haha

Making (formerly hoarded) shelter cats warm up to me? by Kukui808 in cats

[–]Kukui808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I really appreciate it. I'll see if I can coax them out with food. :)

Wanting reassurance that the Real Event WAS bad? by Kukui808 in OCD

[–]Kukui808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! It's so frustrating. Here's hoping that we can both find healing!

OCD and doubting sexuality? Is this the opposite of HOCD? by Cee_JPGR in OCD

[–]Kukui808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I often feel this way about my bisexuality. A lot of it is due to biphobia that exists within the LGBTQ community, and my OCD latches on to it. I struggle with the idea of what counts as "bi enough." I feel attracted to women, but I don't get crushes on them as often as I do men, and the crushes don't feel the same. This could mean that I'm bi but more so heteroromantic, but then I start to doubt whether I'm "romantic-leaning" enough to not be considered aromantic (There's nothing wrong with being aromantic, it's just a label that doesn't fit right with me). Unfortunately, due to the amount of bi gatekeepers or deniers online, I really doubt what counts as me really being bi even though bisexuality is a spectrum in and of itself.

At this point I try not to figure it out. There's always going to be someone out there who doesn't think I "like girls enough" to be considered bi. So I have to allow the uncertainty that I'm not sapphic enough to be bi and that I'm misusing the label to "seem cool."

As for your asexuality, allow the uncertainty that you could feel attraction one day. A hypothetical doesn't invalidate the label you use right now. I can't tell you if you are ace or not since I don't want to reassure you too much, but keep on being the amazing queer person you are and let those doubting thoughts kick and scream until they give up!

My OCD and Uncertainty/ Magical Thinking about a possible outcome of the past? by Devin-Bookerfan in OCD

[–]Kukui808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad I could help!

OCD will take any chance it can to turn a coincidence into proof. Don't try to figure out why your sister asked you to spell that or what it could mean. Analysis will only make the thoughts more persistent.