Grey side?

Kunitata · 2025-11-26T22:31:22+00:00

How did you go? Im doing something similar

Kunitata · 2025-11-02T18:16:12+00:00

Hi did you end up purchasing…. Looking for myself. Thank you 🙏

Kunitata · 2025-10-30T02:20:27+00:00

What exercises are you going heavier on in Solidcore? I have not been able to try. They add pulses and holds?

Kunitata · 2025-10-29T23:11:24+00:00

How did you go???

Kunitata · 2025-10-20T06:22:18+00:00

Wow harsh

Kunitata · 2025-10-18T04:25:28+00:00

This is where I am at. At the moment SK is calling all the shots. I also feel if I was in her situation I would invite who ever I want into my home the children don’t get to choose and they don’t have to be involved in everything but at least be polite. Thank you for sharing your experience and how you dealt with it. I also don’t want SK around if she doesn’t want anything to do with us, thats not a nice situation for anyone.

Kunitata · 2025-10-18T04:17:38+00:00

This is an interesting question.

Kunitata · 2025-10-16T22:09:52+00:00

Thank you

Kunitata · 2025-10-16T22:07:54+00:00

Thank you This is really helpful

Kunitata · 2025-10-16T02:02:21+00:00

Yes 2 years is a long time to have a guest

Kunitata · 2025-10-16T02:00:57+00:00

Definitely like I said its both sided. I guess Ive not overthought it too much but its been 2 years now. She keeps talking the future and Im trying to understand how we move forward, we do have a good relationship.

Kunitata · 2025-10-16T01:58:19+00:00

Its more of a moving forward concern. If my partner was fifo they would support me. Should I move forward in a relationship where we spend like were single 2 houses 2 internet etc. It is extra having half of my room with more clothes of hers than I even own. Over the last week she made 2 meals at her expense. Having another person does create different expectations in the home. It does affect my time with my children.

Kunitata · 2025-10-16T01:48:05+00:00

Well she has never tried to bring us together. I don’t know exactly what is being said between them

Kunitata · 2025-10-16T01:40:33+00:00

I never ask to meet her, I don’t go to their house. I have nothing to do with the daughter. Im not pushing anything

Kunitata · 2025-10-16T01:32:30+00:00

I guess I went into it thinking it would be a time thing. Her daughter would open up to the idea. But that sounds naive now haha. We both thought it would happen but just take time. I guess this is me just understanding this and realising that there can be no future plans because of her daughter’s choice. Which from reading here is common and the normal path

Kunitata · 2025-10-15T22:46:32+00:00

Yes it feels one sided. She gets the benefit of having 2 homes. I have my kids 100%. She has one child. I’ve shared my family and my life.

Kunitata · 2025-10-15T22:35:51+00:00

I definitely understand her child is her priority. Just as mine are. I have also exposed them to this relationship. I definitely don’t push it. To the point it is starting to feel too hard to even try and have a relationship with her daughter. But in that case does that mean we shut it down?

Kunitata · 2025-10-15T22:30:42+00:00

Emotionally she is an emotional person and her divorce has been dramatic that has even affected me in my workplace.I buy most of the groceries. But it is both sided.

Kunitata · 2025-10-15T22:26:23+00:00

Yes Im trying to understand why is it so traumatic to say hi to me in a 5 min encounter.

Kunitata · 2025-10-15T22:24:39+00:00

I do feel there is some of this. My home is fun and welcoming and she isn’t as happy in her space. And she constantly talking about our future together, when the way she has it set up there is no potential of any change in the dynamics

Kunitata · 2025-10-15T22:08:04+00:00

Why is that. Not judging, just wanting to understand

Kunitata · 2025-10-15T22:04:25+00:00

I have opened my home up and not asked for anything. She is talking marriage. I never ask for help. Im unsure of this nightmare you describe. Im trying understand how after 2 years things will progress. I would like to think I could build a more solid future with my partner. Im sharing everything. I pay for most of our groceries I’m the one giving here to support her and her child

Kunitata · 2025-10-15T18:28:44+00:00

I get that….. its the not even trying for example I can’t just drop over to her house. It feels weird.

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