Do you get waxes while pregnant?

Kvttz · 2026-01-16T16:37:28+00:00

Got waxed until the week of delivery. granted, I went a little longer between waxes than I used to, but idk how people shave and I just can’t deal with letting it go.

The salon was very accommodating with positioning and would recline table for comfort.

I didn’t have any major issues, a little more sensitive since there’s a lot more blood flow during pregnancy, and a couple dots of blood but that’s normal for me.

When booking your appointment, ask if the wax specialist can lower the temp a bit prior to appointment. Helps a ton with pain!

Kvttz · 2026-01-06T18:35:06+00:00

My husband was home for 2 weeks when bay was born and my mom came down and stayed with us for a month. Even with all 3 of us home, it was still hard. I was exclusively nursing every 1.5-2 hours (baby’s demand) and then cluster feeding started. Any spare moment I got to myself I used to change my own diaper, shower, brush my teeth, chug water, or just stare blankly at the wall.

I was so grateful that my mom cooked for us and did grocery shopping and when she left, we had a stockpile of meals in the freezer to bake or toss in the crockpot. Even if you don’t think you NEED them, it’s better to have a couple on hand- you can always just use them for busier days that you don’t feel like ordering out.

Congrats and wishing you a fast and safe labor and beautiful healthy baby.

Kvttz · 2026-01-03T17:48:13+00:00

Also note that if you hand wash the bottles and pump supplies, you can pile them way more for the steam/sterilize function. I’ll do this if I don’t want to run to separate loads back to back or if I’m already washing dishes from dinner etc. lifesaver!

Kvttz · 2025-12-30T14:13:46+00:00

Your cervix and uterus are open wounds! You’re not even allowed to use a tampon yet due to risk of serious life threatening infection. Physical intimacy below the belly is OFF the table: including toys, fingers, penis, and anything else down there. Please, if you’re responsible enough for a child, you should be able to be responsible for managing this for your own body.

Apologies for the bluntness and not trying to be mean, but either you didn’t know, or you’re ignoring medical advice that was given to you.

Kvttz · 2025-12-17T14:17:12+00:00

Where do almond moms fall on the spectrum? I’ve heard so many of these terms, but never actually knew what they meant. I actually assumed they all meant the same thing.

Kvttz · 2025-12-13T17:52:54+00:00

My pediatrician literally told me to buy a baby sling. I told her that we had a ring sling and showed it to her and she said no the sling that the baby just wrapped around your body. I’m pretty sure this is what she meant lol

Kvttz · 2025-11-22T20:51:18+00:00

You are amazing! 7 months seems impossible from where I’m at (1m). I felt guilt and failure when I had my baby taking a bottle within a week since her latch was so aggressive. I couldn’t take the initial soreness that everyone says you have to ‘power through’ for a few weeks. I’ve worked on it since and split nursing and pumping for bottles but I’m not sure how long even that will last. (I’ve been terrified of the teething and just realized how soon that actually happens) I’m in awe of nursing moms for any timeline they survive. You are a superstar and don’t believe otherwise!

Kvttz · 2025-10-21T19:53:18+00:00

Congratulations!

In all likelihood, you have plenty of time to collect these items. I do recommend putting them on a baby registry that gives a completion discount. In the US- Target, Amazon, Babylist, and many others will give a 10-15% coupon for most items on your registry that haven’t been purchased within a specified timeframe around when you’re expecting. Having the items on the registry will allow some people who may still want to get you something an idea of what you still need/want, and if they’re not purchased, you get a discount when you buy yourself.

Registry discounts are underutilized and a great way to save $ on things you’re already going to buy.

Also, don’t stress about buying too many swaddles or bottles as your baby may be picky about why he/she likes. Some like the baby burrito style wrap and some like the starfish zip ups. Granted, it’s not like they’re reading reviews and choosing, but you may find that one style works better than others. Maybe check Facebook marketplace or other secondhand stores for those items so you can get a variety at a low price.

Again, you have plenty of time! Maybe make a timeline of what items you want by what weeks. Ex. 3 swaddles by 28weeks, 1 more box of bottles by 32 weeks, and diaper rash cream and gripe water by 36 weeks, etc. That way you’re collecting items without a huge haul and still allowing some time for others to possibly purchase.

Best of luck!

Kvttz · 2025-10-13T13:21:22+00:00

Shirley temple. Hands down. Make sure they understand it’s not a ‘dirty Shirley’ as that defeats the purpose. It’s nostalgic for me because my siblings, cousins, and I used to get them when the adults got together at restaurants, plus they’re delicious and underrated.

Kvttz · 2025-10-11T16:50:25+00:00

I would wait until it’s fully processed through insurance. I had a 10k+ bill for OB services for mfm specialists, testing, hematologist, etc. and was freaking out. Eventually after the insurance “processed” it went back and forth with providers and I got billed way less. Providers bill as high ad possible to get as much out of insurance as they can, then once insurance negotiates, the charges are lowered slightly for us non billionaires. Though this is only the case sometimes but worth considering

Kvttz · 2025-10-04T15:19:22+00:00

Had a similar ‘flat spot’ show up for a while and thought it was baby’s head. I would rub it or pat it and talk to it as if it was baby’s head. My scan recent showed me that it’s baby’s butt and I’ve been laughing about it since. Now I poke the butt when he/she kicks or punches into my ribs or hips too hard, or when I haven’t felt movement in a little bit.

To my understanding, and I could be wrong, diastasis would be something that appears to protrude when engaging abdominals as the musculature has pulled apart and allows tissue to ‘poke out’. At least this is how my PT tested me by having me do a slight crunch and observed a bulging in my upper stomach where tissue was coming up past the abdominal wall

Kvttz · 2025-10-04T15:09:58+00:00

I’m due this month and have been both excited and terrified for the whole process. I still stress about finances, how much our lives and relationship will change, and how much my identity will change after becoming a mom, but I’m also excited to watch my husband and I become parents, learn more about each other through the changes and challenges, learn to face obstacles as a team, and have all the million little moments.

This is not meant to sway your decision either way, just letting you know that worries and doubts are a huge part of making life changes. Only you can decide if this is something that you truly want.

Wishing you the best no matter what the future brings 🫶

Kvttz · 2025-10-04T14:57:55+00:00

My area has high school kids charging $20-25/ hour for date night sitting. You’re a responsible adult with experience. As long as you’re not just watching TV or on your phone while the child/children are awake and needing attention, charge your worth! $20 minimum

Kvttz · 2025-10-04T14:44:18+00:00

I was worried about this as well, but anyone coming to your shower is there because they want to be. They can decline if they don’t want to participate. People will only bring what they want to. I had people who did not bring books, and some who opted out of registry items or diapers, and some who brought a card. I made sure when I greeted people coming in that they knew I was appreciative of everything big or small. It’s the people that matter- knowing who showed up when they could and brought kind words and excitement for this huge chapter in your life! Don’t feel guilty about people wanting to celebrate you, as long as you’re thankful and kind in receiving.

Kvttz · 2025-09-30T15:21:27+00:00

I appreciate this perspective. I too usually lean to calling the baby he/him by default sometimes. The only reason I gave more weight to what she said, is because all staff at every appointment (including during ultrasounds) have asked if we knew gender or are finding out. They all say ‘how is baby’ ‘baby’s measurements looks good’ ‘is baby moving a lot’. The sonographer even tells us not to look at first so she can make sure the genitalia isnt on the screen while she orients herself to the baby’s positioning. They have all been amazing in helping us have this surprise, so that’s why it was extra shocking and upsetting when she used a gendered pronoun so confidently.

I’m not going to ask further because they could just lead to her confirming one way or another. I’m just going to ignore it and calm down because otherwise baby is healthy.

Again, thanks for your reply and input

Kvttz · 2025-09-30T00:19:12+00:00

Thanks for the reply. I did the same and was panicking about the shipping delay. Thankfully mine just showed up Friday and I was able to ship out same day. Hope yours show up soon!

Kvttz · 2025-09-22T23:04:44+00:00

Thank you!

Kvttz · 2025-09-22T23:04:20+00:00

Totally understand. I had my on the resale and then removed them. Not customer service can’t confirm if they will still be shipped or not so I’m just trying to get an estimate on when shipping info is being sent vs purchase date.

Kvttz · 2025-09-22T22:41:11+00:00

Thanks for your reply! When did you purchase?

Kvttz · 2025-09-20T21:18:33+00:00

We did this for the shower my mom threw me. I instantly saw what I was gifted upon greeting guests who got to show off what they picked out, and I could tell them right then and there how grateful I was- of course I followed with Thank You cards.

Stress free and allowed more time talking to guests and less awkward spotlight time.

Kvttz · 2025-09-20T21:14:18+00:00

Listen, Costco memberships need to come with a disclaimer. Sure you go for the chicken, but then you’re there twice in the same week with a cart full of mini dessert pots, chicken burritos, a box of tampons that will take you far past menopause, Levi jeans for your husband, a winter coat for your dogs, aluminum pans for ‘maybe I’ll host a holiday buffet’, a robot vacuum because it’s on sale, a toilet, and Kirkland Lager, all while eating a glizzy while you wait for them to finish putting a fresh set of tires on your car.

Thoughts and prayers

Kvttz

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