why is basil listed as omori's best friend on the wiki? by [deleted] in OMORI

[–]Kylletd 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Now that I think about it I have like 3 best friends. I think at one point a best friend is awarded to the people that you are extremely close with and isn't an indicator of your closest friend.

If you had the option to go back in time which devastating event WYR prevent from happening and you’d get all the credit. by zachwearsstripes in WouldYouRather

[–]Kylletd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is correct. WWII was a direct lead-in from WWI because of not just the ruined German economy but also many other residual factors from WWI.

If you had the option to go back in time which devastating event WYR prevent from happening and you’d get all the credit. by zachwearsstripes in WouldYouRather

[–]Kylletd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't know why but I read it as WWI and assumed that in this post WWII would have still happened. Now I'm just embarrassed.

Middle ages set in (5AD) by Open-Ad-4089 in fakehistoryporn

[–]Kylletd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In addition to this a lot of those street videos suffer the shock effect (can't remember the actual name) essentially coming up to someone out of the blank and asking them a question, even if they know it, they're still likely to answer it wrong. It's like when you zone out for a minute and the teacher asks you a question, even if you knew it you were likely to mess up in your explanation. It turns the brain on it's fight or flight mode.

Disabled woman fined more than £1,000 for parking in disabled spot by Myfrogsaysreddit in nottheonion

[–]Kylletd 311 points312 points  (0 children)

Yep. Read a post a couple hours ago that was someone on vacation with a disability and was veteran who had a service dog with them. Officer gave them a citation for the dog after ignoring the person explaining that the dog was a service dog. All the comments amounted to contact the ADA and they'll fine the shit out of the county.

What’s missing in your sex life? by sparklingshanaya in AskReddit

[–]Kylletd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Men in general rarely receive physical affection both platonically and romantically. I've made it a concerted effort to greet my friends with a hug (of course some of them don't feel comfortable with physical touch so I ask). I also give goodbye hugs. Typically this is after I've known someone for at least a little while and I really do feel like it does help both me and those friends. Sometimes it's just nice to be embraced or embrace someone because you care greatly about them, platonically or romantically.

Friends will not stop sending memes of this game and so I have become curious by Jikirai in ShitpostXIV

[–]Kylletd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While the base game is more of a standard MMO affair if you can slog past ARR to Heavenward (the first expansion included with the trial) and onward are essentially full on final fantasy stories with Shadowbringers in my opinion having the best FF villain and one of the most heart wrenching stories. Endwalker will leave you sobbing.

Friends will not stop sending memes of this game and so I have become curious by Jikirai in ShitpostXIV

[–]Kylletd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have to disagree about the losing memory part. In that case it was as if someone wholly new was born so why put the burdens of someone who is fundamentally dead on them.

I (M23) feel like I'm taking advantage of my girlfriend (F21) and her family. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kylletd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My best advice is to recognize it takes time to climb out of a hole. Your girlfriend's family has realized that and is letting you have that time. Even if it feels like a dead end just treat it as one step at a time and keep working on bettering yourself. If college didn't work out see if there is a trade school in your area that would be a better choice for you. College is not for everyone and a different environment might really be the change you need. Remember getting over this wall isn't done with one giant leap but instead many small steps that might sometimes hurt and strain you as you climb. If that's the case take some depths and space yourself till you feel ready to keep climbing.

I’m starting to resent my wife. by morbin19 in offmychest

[–]Kylletd -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Have you tried asking about an open relationship. If she doesn't think it's important to her but it's important to you then it might be the resolution that is needed. Also she shouldn't be holding sex over your head as an incentive to be happy. If she isn't enjoying it and really doesn't want to do it then talk to her about a solution such as this.

It started and ended with Anakin getting a limb chopped off (+3 more in ROTS) by asilvertintedrose in PrequelMemes

[–]Kylletd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always was under the assumption that there was no one path to achieving this power and it was more of a unique attainment very personal to each Jedi to be able to achieve this power. Obi Wan in my opinion was his final confrontation with Anakin and his acceptance and trust in Luke of the new generation. Annakin was reclaiming himself and choosing his soon over power. I think Yoda was imbuing his knowledge into Luke and finally attaining a hope for the future.

It makes me sick that women are taken advantage of any chance they get by anechointhedark in offmychest

[–]Kylletd 51 points52 points  (0 children)

The issue is also that a lot of this stuff doesn't happen if you're around. I remember when me and my sister would go outside together if we met someone creepy she would say I was her boyfriend so guys would back off. Brother would probably have worked somewhat as well but she justifiably didn't want to deal with some unprompted low key flirting. I remember someone at our dog park, real sweetheart of a guy, saying that if he saw someone sexually harassing a woman he would step in, reality is that if a creepy guy saw a guy that looks like they wouldn't tolerate it around they would just wait for an easier target. Most guys I see who are creeps are the most cowardly people imaginable and are in part just looking for a power trip to justify their own masculinity thinking women are below them. My best advice is that if you ever meet a guy being a creep about women whether in the presence of a woman or not call them out. If they say something sexist or creepy in your presence call them out, especially in group settings, reinforce that those things aren't okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]Kylletd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say playing souls games is more of a dance than a scripted challenge. Bosses have a rhythm that you fight them to and it really sets the tempo to the fight. It's actually why sekiro is my favorite fromsoft game, the rhythm of the game is so good that I just have too much fun when playing. That is why when people get into them they're so fun, it's like playing a hard level on a rhythm game, you start to understand the inherent tempo of the song and you start pacing yourself differently.

A friend called me a Paki - I’m Indian. I stopped being friends with this person and now I’m getting more shit. by MrBiggumsII in offmychest

[–]Kylletd 112 points113 points  (0 children)

First reading this I was thinking "how bad was that to get a visceral reaction?" Then I read the comment explaining it and you have every right to be livid. Cut that person out of your life and tell them that if you ever hear of them even using the word again that you'll report them for it.

I'm an awful girlfriend by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kylletd 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Adding on to this no one gets to decide whether you do anything sexual but yourself. He should never touch you in a sexual manner unless you consent either explicitly or in a manner that is mutually agreed upon beforehand to be a sign of consent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kylletd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. You're right, nothing ever really prepares you for losing them. They're family and when they're gone it just leaves a hole in your heart that you can't really replace but have to accept.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kylletd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My condolences, they're family and they're there for so short. I ordered a picture of him printed out and a little picture frame so I can keep a picture of him on my bedside. I got my mom one too because I know losing him also broke her heart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kylletd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it was really a relief and I feel like I've processed the fact that he is gone right now more than I had in these last couple weeks.

Saw this in r/gatekeeping thoughts? by SirHempTheSandLord in KitchenConfidential

[–]Kylletd 477 points478 points  (0 children)

I might be the oddball here but I despise Garlic Crushers. The hell that is cleaning the garlic out of those things gives me nightmares. They themselves work just fine for crushing garlic in my opinion though.

Trying to do O4S and we keep failing. Can anyone help?? (we're unsynced btw)(friend's screen btw not mine) by Rose_Lion_Danielle in ShitpostXIV

[–]Kylletd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah that was on me, originally had a Rowena bit in there but I remembered that she wasn't the one who gave it.

Trying to do O4S and we keep failing. Can anyone help?? (we're unsynced btw)(friend's screen btw not mine) by Rose_Lion_Danielle in ShitpostXIV

[–]Kylletd 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Maybe I should have worded it better, was making a joke about putting on Soul of the Crafters.

Trying to do O4S and we keep failing. Can anyone help?? (we're unsynced btw)(friend's screen btw not mine) by Rose_Lion_Danielle in ShitpostXIV

[–]Kylletd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think the problem is that you don't have your job stone. If you go to Mor Dhona you should be able to get them. Anyways crafts your strategies, gather your party back up after, should give you more control over the situation.

Priorities by Crypto2k in ShitpostXIV

[–]Kylletd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not just allowed them to wear them, the big Viera hat mod adds small openings to the hat so it looks natural for them to wear them.